Many of the parents I coach arrive at my office frustrated and exhausted, carrying a hefty list of past efforts that "should have worked." They've invested in counseling-sometimes for years-with the hope that a trained professional could talk their child into better...
Parents often show up in my office mentally, emotionally, and physically tired. Not because they're doing too little, but because they’re doing too much. Too much talking, too much coaxing, too much explaining, too much rescuing, too much... everything. And despite...
Anxiety rarely storms in loudly. At least not at first. It slips in quietly-disguised as overthinking, people-pleasing, perfectionism, or the urge to control every detail. It feels like we're solving problems or being responsible. But in truth, we’re training our...
I hear it all the time from my clients — and it usually comes with a sheepish grin. "Dr. Cale, I know I said I was going to start meditating... but then my dog looked at me funny, and somehow Netflix just... happened." Or, "I absolutely planned to go to bed early —...
Frustrations happen. Whether you're on a small, close-knit team or navigating a massive corporate machine, stuff goes wrong. Maybe it's the same software glitch, haunting you like a tech-savvy ghost. Or a process so convoluted it makes building a boat out of...
We've all been there. The resolution to eat healthier crumbles when you're eyeing that gooey slice of pizza. The commitment to exercise fades the moment you whisper, "I just don't feel like it today... maybe later." And of course, there's the promise to be calm and...
A client recently shared her daily struggle with anxiety. While she's managing many aspects of life quite well, one silent saboteur keeps sneaking in: clutter. Her home, once a haven, now feels overwhelming. And here's the kicker-she's not alone. Many are frustrated...
I just got off the phone with someone asking about what we do in our Clinic, and described intense struggles with ADHD, and it's impact on work, home and relationships. Nothing has worked for her yet. She said all the right things - "Yes...okay... I see" - but not the...
Living with ADHD often feels like trying to listen to a single conversation in a room filled with voices. Distractions abound, and the simplest tasks can become daunting. Yet, despite these challenges, there is remarkable hope. Proven strategies, lifestyle...
Many of us grew up with pets, and enjoy the relationship and feelings that a pet can bring to the home. Now, as adults, we may have brought a pet into the family, or perhaps are considering a family pet. If you are wavering about the benefits of a family pet, let's go...
Yes, with few exceptions, we are all living different lives. And we might continue for quite a while. As mentioned last week, in my view, the data overwhelmingly points to the need to limit screen time in every form. And yet, there is a clear opportunity amidst this...
In the past, many authors, including myself, have written several articles about the emerging issues with children and adolescents growing up with smartphones in their hands. As time moves on, research is becoming more and more conclusive. Children and adolescents are...
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There are a variety of reasons that could cause such an escalation in anger. The purpose of this article is to dispel a critical myth, and to make certain that parents become aware of the patterns of their own behavior, which can increase and escalate anger.
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Getting a handle on the core parenting tactics that turn the picky eater into a healthy eater is priority one.
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They think they should be intervening earlier to resolve issues for their children. But most parents don’t intervene until the conflict escalates, then they yell and threaten.
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And then there are the ballistic, severe out-of-control tantrums! Such extreme tantrums evolve for various reasons. Frequently, I see these extreme tantrums with certain strong-willed or more oppositional children.
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But you just aren’t sure how you can help your child lose the unwanted weight and feel good about themselves. You just aren’t sure how you can encourage them to get healthy and develop good eating habits.
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