A mom in my office said it perfectly last week: "He wants attention every second. If I look away for one minute, he's whining or yelling or doing something dramatic to get me back. It's like he can't just be okay for a moment, without demanding me or my attention."...
As the fireworks light up the summer sky and families gather in backyards across the country, we are once again reminded of the beauty of freedom. This 4th of July weekend offers a moment - a brief pause - to reflect on what it means to be free. And the ideals that...
"Watch your thoughts, for your thoughts become words. Watch your words, for your words become actions. Watch your actions, for your actions become habits. Watch your habits, for your habits become character. Watch your character, for it becomes destiny."-Frank Outlaw...
Let me pause with you for a moment on this Father's Day. Not just to toss out a quick "thanks, Dad!" and get back to the cookout. But to truly honor what it means to be a father-to step into a role that, while often thankless in the moment, may be the single most...
Many of the parents I coach arrive at my office frustrated and exhausted, carrying a hefty list of past efforts that "should have worked." They've invested in counseling-sometimes for years-with the hope that a trained professional could talk their child into better...
Parents often show up in my office mentally, emotionally, and physically tired. Not because they're doing too little, but because they’re doing too much. Too much talking, too much coaxing, too much explaining, too much rescuing, too much... everything. And despite...
Anxiety rarely storms in loudly. At least not at first. It slips in quietly-disguised as overthinking, people-pleasing, perfectionism, or the urge to control every detail. It feels like we're solving problems or being responsible. But in truth, we’re training our...
I hear it all the time from my clients — and it usually comes with a sheepish grin. "Dr. Cale, I know I said I was going to start meditating... but then my dog looked at me funny, and somehow Netflix just... happened." Or, "I absolutely planned to go to bed early —...
Frustrations happen. Whether you're on a small, close-knit team or navigating a massive corporate machine, stuff goes wrong. Maybe it's the same software glitch, haunting you like a tech-savvy ghost. Or a process so convoluted it makes building a boat out of...
We've all been there. The resolution to eat healthier crumbles when you're eyeing that gooey slice of pizza. The commitment to exercise fades the moment you whisper, "I just don't feel like it today... maybe later." And of course, there's the promise to be calm and...
A client recently shared her daily struggle with anxiety. While she's managing many aspects of life quite well, one silent saboteur keeps sneaking in: clutter. Her home, once a haven, now feels overwhelming. And here's the kicker-she's not alone. Many are frustrated...
I just got off the phone with someone asking about what we do in our Clinic, and described intense struggles with ADHD, and it's impact on work, home and relationships. Nothing has worked for her yet. She said all the right things - "Yes...okay... I see" - but not the...
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There are a variety of reasons that could cause such an escalation in anger. The purpose of this article is to dispel a critical myth, and to make certain that parents become aware of the patterns of their own behavior, which can increase and escalate anger.
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Getting a handle on the core parenting tactics that turn the picky eater into a healthy eater is priority one.
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They think they should be intervening earlier to resolve issues for their children. But most parents don’t intervene until the conflict escalates, then they yell and threaten.
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And then there are the ballistic, severe out-of-control tantrums! Such extreme tantrums evolve for various reasons. Frequently, I see these extreme tantrums with certain strong-willed or more oppositional children.
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But you just aren’t sure how you can help your child lose the unwanted weight and feel good about themselves. You just aren’t sure how you can encourage them to get healthy and develop good eating habits.
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