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Your Thoughts Shape Your Destiny: Why Small Choices Matter More Than You Think

"Watch your thoughts, for your thoughts become words. Watch your words, for your words become actions. Watch your actions, for your actions become habits. Watch your habits, for your habits become character. Watch your character, for it becomes destiny."-Frank Outlaw...
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Father’s Day: A Salute to Dads Who Show Up and Step Up

Let me pause with you for a moment on this Father's Day. Not just to toss out a quick "thanks, Dad!" and get back to the cookout. But to truly honor what it means to be a father-to step into a role that, while often thankless in the moment, may be the single most...
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Why Counseling Often Fails for Kids—And – What To Consider that Works!

Many of the parents I coach arrive at my office frustrated and exhausted, carrying a hefty list of past efforts that "should have worked." They've invested in counseling-sometimes for years-with the hope that a trained professional could talk their child into better...
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Why Less Is More: The Parenting Paradox We Keep Missing

Parents often show up in my office mentally, emotionally, and physically tired. Not because they're doing too little, but because they’re doing too much. Too much talking, too much coaxing, too much explaining, too much rescuing, too much... everything. And despite...

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“My Child Won’t Listen… What Should I Do?”

“My Child Won’t Listen… What Should I Do?”

As kids get older and mature with a dysregulated set of behaviors and emotions, home life can get miserable.  Equally important, the child’s life is on a trajectory of misery and struggle, and no one wants that for their child.  Thus, we must think about what genuinely changes an out-of-control child and that brain that is causing such misery at home…

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Thanksgiving:  Tips for Nurturing Gratitude at Home

Thanksgiving: Tips for Nurturing Gratitude at Home

Let’s consider giving and gratitude. The very act of giving, when offered without hope for reward or return, brings fascinating benefit. Even when feeling some ‘lack’ in our lives, these moments of giving yield a reward of immense gratitude, instantly and automatically. It just flows into us with overwhelming feelings of warmth and appreciation.

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