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Your Thoughts Shape Your Destiny: Why Small Choices Matter More Than You Think

"Watch your thoughts, for your thoughts become words. Watch your words, for your words become actions. Watch your actions, for your actions become habits. Watch your habits, for your habits become character. Watch your character, for it becomes destiny."-Frank Outlaw...
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Father’s Day: A Salute to Dads Who Show Up and Step Up

Let me pause with you for a moment on this Father's Day. Not just to toss out a quick "thanks, Dad!" and get back to the cookout. But to truly honor what it means to be a father-to step into a role that, while often thankless in the moment, may be the single most...
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Why Counseling Often Fails for Kids—And – What To Consider that Works!

Many of the parents I coach arrive at my office frustrated and exhausted, carrying a hefty list of past efforts that "should have worked." They've invested in counseling-sometimes for years-with the hope that a trained professional could talk their child into better...
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Why Less Is More: The Parenting Paradox We Keep Missing

Parents often show up in my office mentally, emotionally, and physically tired. Not because they're doing too little, but because they’re doing too much. Too much talking, too much coaxing, too much explaining, too much rescuing, too much... everything. And despite...

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The Dangers of Unlimited Phone Use

The Dangers of Unlimited Phone Use

In today's digital era, teenagers are practically married to their phones. As parents look on, perhaps with a sigh of relief that their teenager is quiet and preoccupied, there is an underlying problem. Some of us have acknowledged this problem, but not many. This...

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The Backfire: How Good Intentions Turn South!

The Backfire: How Good Intentions Turn South!

If you have been reading this column for a while, you will recognize this 'Cale Truism' that I have addressed from many angles: Your superpower as a parent resides in your mastery of how you use your attention. What you repeatedly focus upon with your attention will...

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