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You Missed the Pause: Now What?

Last week, I wrote about the sacred pause - that small but powerful space between what happens and how we respond. It is the moment when we can choose wisdom over impulse, connection over being right, and calm over escalation. But let's be honest: sometimes we miss...
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The Sacred Pause

Almost everything I have ever regretted saying came from the same mistake: I failed to pause. The words usually arrived quickly, confidently and with impressive internal justification. In that moment, my mind assured me that the truth needed defending, the...
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The Balanced Summer: A Simple Plan for Fun, Freedom, and Responsibility

In Part One, we looked at a common summer problem. Many children get plenty of entertainment, plenty of freedom, and plenty of leisure, but too little effort, responsibility, contribution, and growth. Summer becomes fun, yes. But it also becomes a season where basic...
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The Night Shift: Why Sleep Is More Important Than You Know

Most of us have learned this the hard way: one bad night of sleep, and life feels heavier. Small problems grow teeth. Patience gets thin. Worries get louder. The brain begins treating a forgotten password or a slow driver as if civilization itself is in decline. This...

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The Family Pet: Yes, No and How?

The Family Pet: Yes, No and How?

Many of us grew up with pets, and enjoy the relationship and feelings that a pet can bring to the home. Now, as adults, we may have brought a pet into the family, or perhaps are considering a family pet. If you are wavering about the benefits of a family pet, let's go...

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The Data Is Conclusive: It’s Time to Step Up

The Data Is Conclusive: It’s Time to Step Up

In the past, many authors, including myself, have written several articles about the emerging issues with children and adolescents growing up with smartphones in their hands. As time moves on, research is becoming more and more conclusive. Children and adolescents are...

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Which End of the Life-Stick?

Which End of the Life-Stick?

Imagine life boiled down to a straightforward decision that we have the power to influence moment by moment. And, even though we have the power to make the decision, most people don't know it or exercise that choice. Instead, they (understandably) follow the momentum...

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What is Neurofeedback, and Why Now?

What is Neurofeedback, and Why Now?

Because I have been working as a psychologist for many years and have a history of offering therapy, I often get asked, Dr. Cale, why Neurofeedback and why now - especially at this point in your career?’ There are several answers, but the most relevant are two facts....

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