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Confident Child
If you’d like to avoid the common mistakes that harm your kids, learn powerful character building secrets and experience the joy of seeing your child thrive, then this might be the most important letter you’ll ever read.
Here’s why: Most parenting advice fails to touch the surface of what really works. My newsletters are chock full of practical, proven guidance that everyone can put to use! It’s real… and it works!
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Disrespect & Anger
Disrespect & Anger
Some of the most peaceful, loving well-intentioned parents end up with children who appear to be extremely angry. Some of these children become violent, uncontrollable, and cannot be maintained in the home during their teenage years.
There are a variety of reasons that could cause such an escalation in anger. The purpose of this article is to dispel a critical myth, and to make certain that parents become aware of the patterns of their own behavior, which can increase and escalate anger.
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Child Whining
Child Whining
If your family is a reasonably happy family with lots of opportunities to grow, loving members, and a good purchasing power, then there should not be much to complain for your child. Your child’s room is brimming with toys, you have enrolled your child in a good school, and you are ready to give your support to your child, yet he or she complains. What is the problem?
The problem is that your kid has a distortion of reality. They are focused on just a small part of their experience in life. This focus on the small part where they don’t get what they want is really a toxic poison…because their reality if filled with many, many moments when they are getting everything a child could want.
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Picky Eating
Picky Eating
Picky eating can become a serious clinical issue, and represents a threat to your child’s future. ..if unhealthy habits continue.
Getting a handle on the core parenting tactics that turn the picky eater into a healthy eater is priority one.
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Siblings Battle
Siblings Battle
When children are bickering, picking on each other, fighting, and arguing, parents often lose it. Research reveals that most parents think they should intervene in their children’s conflicts and arguments.
They think they should be intervening earlier to resolve issues for their children. But most parents don’t intervene until the conflict escalates, then they yell and threaten.
This doesn’t work well. You need a clear plan to nurture cooperative, healthy behavior among siblings.
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Separation & Divorce
Separation & Divorce
Under very difficult circumstances, there are times when the other parent will not communicate with you. Under these circumstances, learn all that you can about co-parenting. Take all the steps that you possibly can to protect your children and implement these consistently and regularly.
In other words, do everything that you can to effectively parent with that part of your children’s lives that you do have control over. Make certain that everything that you do in your home and in the kids’ lives is healthy and beneficial for your children. Again, educate yourself. Consider participating in a divorce education program…even if your ex refuses. Be more focused on what you can control…and begin to put less energy into decisions out of your control.
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Temper Tantrums
Temper Tantrums
Temper tantrums can range from the mild tantrum, where your child is stomping her feet and giving ugly looks … to the more moderate forms of outbursts where she flop’s on the floor, yells or whines loudly, and perhaps sits down in protest and throws a few toys.
And then there are the ballistic, severe out-of-control tantrums! Such extreme tantrums evolve for various reasons. Frequently, I see these extreme tantrums with certain strong-willed or more oppositional children. Certainly, such children are more prone to severe tantrums and outbursts.
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Toddler Tantrums
Toddler Tantrums
We often think of temper tantrums as synonymous with toddlers, yet this is certainly not the case. While most toddles are prone to an occasional tantrum, it’s the toddler who tantrums three…four… even five times a day that starts to drive us crazy. Yet, most of the parents who come to me for help are dealing with something even more challenging.
The out-of-control, scream at the top of your lungs, stomp your feet, fall on the floor and throw your toys as hard as you can tantrum. The REAL melt-down tantrum…pull out your hair because you just can’t take another second of screaming.
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Overweight Child
Overweight Child
You want your child to be healthy, to be happy, and you want your child to fit in…
But you just aren’t sure how you can help your child lose the unwanted weight and feel good about themselves. You just aren’t sure how you can encourage them to get healthy and develop good eating habits.
Well, you no longer have to worry because I am going to give you a series of steps that will bring your kids closer to healthy routines and healthy eating.
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Tantrum Fixer
Tantrum Fixer
The Tantrum Fixer program does what it says: It gives you a real proven solution to those awful, exhausting, embarrassing temper tantrums (usually works in 3-4 days).
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You just need The Tantrum Fixer. And remember: Everything here comes with a zero risk money back guarantee. It works, or you get your investment back.
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Confident Child
Confident Child
This Confident Child is designed to help the child who often complains about themselves and seems to ‘fight’ for the limitations. The harder you work to help them, the more your child argues for what they can’t do, or can’t learn or can’t figure or can’t even try. They aren’t working to build their confidence, but YOU ARE. This approach never works.
The Confident Child is also designed for the child who let’s others take over, never takes initiative and quits easily. This program offers you, Mom and Dad, a way out of constanting trying to boost their confidence and build their esteem. Get it now, and watch the changes begin. This is strategy that changes not only the immediate future, but profoundly affects your child’s destiny. Get it now.
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Wipe Out Whining
Whining: End Whining Now
Is the whining just about to drive you nuts? What if this were gone in a week? Seriously, just no longer part of your child’s communication habits.
The Wipe Out Whining programs gives you a very focused, proven game plan. You be either read or listen to the downloaded program in under an hour, and can literally be Wiping Out Whining today.
And remember: Everything here comes with a zero risk money back guarantee. It works, or you get your investment back.
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Bedtime Battles
Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles
Why let bedtime battles steal the happiness from you day, and bring misery and fatigue to your tomorrow? If you battle with bath time, bed time stories or getting kids to put down their toys, or even helping your child to sleep in their own bed…there is help!
My Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles is designed with only one goal in mind: Get the kids to bed quickly and easefully, with no battles or struggles. Is there a learning curve? Yes, but usually it only lasts a few days. If you are losing sleep, or there are regular at bedtime or perhaps you notice your child is controlling the bedtime routine more than you, then it’s time for a change. Why notice invest a little time in a easy to install bedtime routine, that brings you some ease and good sleep quickly? Get my Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles here! And remember: Everything here comes with a zero risk money back guarantee. It works, or you get your investment back.
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Sibling Solution
Sibling Solution
Siblings battling and yelling and fighting…it can be exhausting, loud and make a home miserable. Almost always, what most of us do instinctively is only making things worse over the long term. In trying to fix the ‘moment’ so the house is better, calmer right now… you end up doing the same thing you did yesterday, and the day before. It’s not working.
If sibling battles are driving you crazy, consider getting this program. The strategy is one that puts you back in control of your home. Is it magic? No. And it does take a few weeks, unlike some of the other programs. Because your kids feed off of each other’s energy, as well as yours…and this makes it tough.
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The Strong Willed Toddler
Strong Willed Toddler
If you have a strong-willed toddler, throw the normal rules out the window. And yet, most of you with these more challenging toddlers already know this.
Why? Because you have likely tried all the tips you can get, and yet… nothing is working. (and it’s not going to…unfortunately).
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Essential Parenting: Home Study Course
This is my comprehensive parenting program, offered as a six week set of guided parenting instructions. The Essential Parenting Program is designed to give you the tools for working with a wide range of child temperaments, and more importantly perhaps.
This program offers you specific guidance for dealing with behavior issues, daily routines, bad attitudes and poor habits.
Each week, you get a set of instructions and homework. Yes, homework! Changes must be made, and adding a piece each week is manageable, and within two weeks….you will see change! It won͛t be perfect yet, but progress will be evident.
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The Defiant Child
The Defiant Child
Mom….Dad…If you have a defiant, challenging child, I suspect you are pulling your hair out sometimes. This is particularly true if you are trying to use common parenting strategies with your defiant, oppositional, or strong-willed child. They do not work. You simply must throw the normal rules out the window. And yet, most of you with these more challenging children already know this. Why? Because you have likely tried all the tips you can get, and yet… nothing is working. (and it͛s not going to…unfortunately).
IF this is you, then you might consider The Defiant Child Program. This program will get you started right away, and each day…offer you a bit more. It͛s set up to give you a small DAILY piece to practice, adding a bit more to the formula over 7 days. Most parents are seeing the changes within the first five days!
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Parenting Through Divorce
Terrific Parenting Through Divorce
There is nothing easy about divorce, especially for kids. The landscape of separation and divorce is full of landmines that can turn your best parenting practices into a shattered mess. It is important to understand the fundamental errors that many parents make, and how to best correct for those errors. In this way, you can buffer your kids from the impact of divorce.
This manual walks you through common examples of mistakes, and illustrates clear, healthy options for you to protect your family. Do not live in fear, regardless of the pressure of courts, friends, family and even your to be ex-spouse. Take control, by learning ways to be proactive and assertive in keeping your kids buffered from often found toxicity of divorce.
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It’s the best guidance you'll have ever get on how to parent and a way to make your life easier.
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Mastering The Morning Routine
Mastering The Morning Routine
How often do you struggle, battle and argue over simple routine tasks? Does it seem like you are endlessly fighting to get the kids up, ready and out the door? If so, you are likely exhausted and frustrated before you even have that second cup of coffee!
You can end these morning battles, with a proven, straight-forward game plan. Get my clinically tested and recognized program, Master the Morning Routine, and discover the parenting power you thought you were missing. It’s there! You just need to look in the right direction, and stop pushing in the wrong direction.
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Picky Eater
The Picky Eater Guide
Are you tired of losing sleep? Do the worries over your child’s eating? Are you frustrated from cooking special meals every day? Are you just playing exhausted from battles over food?
If so, then you will want to read every word of this article. Look, I have been helping parents who are just plain worried sick over their child’s picky eating habits, and the potential health problems that come with it.
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