Dear Separating or Divorcing Parent,
Let’s cut through the bull… these are scary times. The fear, and uncertainty can be overwhelming. You hear so much about the devastating impact of divorce that it can keep you awake at night.
Having studied the research, and having taught separating parents how to protect their children for over 20 years, there are several “bottom line” facts that you must understand. Read the rest of this page, and you will begin to understand those facts and why it is absolutely critical that you educate yourself first… before the damage is done… not later.
If you are deeply concerned about how to protect your children, make wise decisions, and how to keep your stress from becoming their burden… then this is going to be the most important message you read today. Here’s why:
I want to give you both a warning, and a reason to have hope. I have read most of the websites that have some popularity when searching for information on the effects of divorce on children. They are all focused on the early conclusions from the 1980’s, where the studies showed devastating effects from divorce.
These early studies were limited in several ways, but the primary problem was that all families were viewed as equal. Thus, very broad generalizations were made that have since proven to be inaccurate.
You see article after article that says that divorce is “like the death of a parent.” Well, that’s just not true for most children going through divorce, WHEN parents handle the separation and divorce with integrity and wisdom.
In fact, we see that divorce is quite devastating when parents handle things poorly, and when children are already at risk (this is fully explained in the Terrific Parenting Through Divorce Manual).
When parents handle things well, divorce seems to be more like breaking a bone… perhaps. NOW NONE OF US WANT THAT. I do not want to minimize the importance of divorce.
It’s just that a broken bone, properly cared for, actually hurts for a while, but as it heals…it becomes stronger than the original bone.
Now that metaphor is a more accurate representation. Handled well, your children can become stronger. You don’t seek divorce. None of us do. It’s just that when divorce is inevitable, our choices make a huge difference.
My new comprehensive ebook, called, Terrific Parenting Through Divorce covers nearly everything you need to know about the challenges and demands of separation and divorce… including the choices and decisions that threaten your child’s emotional stability, and the relationship your children have with you (and with their other parent).
You will also learn how to speak with honesty, without putting down the other parent, how to discuss the divorce so that no one gets hurt, and how to avoid those dreaded choices that could permanently damage your children!
That’s what this thorough, comprehensive new e-book could help you to do.
But that’s only the beginning… Why?
Simply, every section in the book is there because “you asked for it.” Well, not “you” really. But from real live questions, from divorcing parents. Questions from parents who were struggling with the challenges and demands of separation and divorce.
They were worried about their children, their choices and how to create stability for their children. They asked how to protect their children, and keep strong relationships for both parents…
These parents also asked how to deal with their own emotions, and keep the children away from negative adult comments and emotions.
You will also learn how to be honest with your children without putting down the other parent, how to discuss the divorce so that no one gets hurt, and how to avoid those major mistakes that could permanently damage your children!.
Find Out If Your Child Urgently Needs You To Read This Book!
Has your family experienced any of these 8 critical situations?
If one parent can’t control his or her reactions towards the other parent and to the new situations that result due to the separation or divorce, the child automatically becomes the unintentional victim of added stress and anxiety. Children are smart learners and they sense when their parents are sad or in trouble, and to top it off, they not only worry about it but tend to think that they are the cause of their parent’s pain.
So here’s the tough part: If it’s not clear already, you first have to manage your own emotions, and get that out of the way of your judgment in parenting and co-parenting. If we don’t address this, we just can’t see the damage of our own self-absorbed decisions, and how they can bring about lifelong challenges that aren’t necessary.
Next, if you are like many divorcing parents, you need to learn to exactly what to do, what to say and when to do it…in order to protect your children from the potentially disastrous effects of divorce.
And if that isn’t enough, you have to co-parent better NOW… during and after the divorce… than you did while together. This means discussions about schedules, rules, shared responsibilities and working together (when possible and necessary) on consequences and critical teaching moments.
As you go through the co-parenting struggles (trying to do the right thing), differences arise in opinions over parenting issues. Significant differences become huge obstacles at times, to peace. How do you resolve those differences? You need a definitive, tested and proven guide, such as the Terrific Parenting Through Divorce E-book, so you don’t have re-design the wheel every time you sit down to have a discussion. Many people have been down this path, and we know what decisions are common tendencies…and what decisions are common mistakes that have devastating consequences for children and families. You can avoid those common mistakes by mastering the information in this book.
Finally, any weaknesses in your general parenting approach will become amplified and now reveal itself (just as the weak link in the chain is the first to bend under stress). So it often becomes necessary to add to your parenting toolbox a better understanding of how to shape and nurture behavior.
You get answers to all of these questions…again…because “you” asked for it. (I have worked with thousands of parents both in my office, and in workshop settings. However, for this project, I included additional questions by setting up a simple webpage, and people like you visited it and left me their most pressing questions on the challenges and demands of separation and divorce.)
So, Terrific Parenting Through Divorce is the answer for all of those questions!
Which means no fluff. Just the real answers you want to know. You’ll discover all types of exciting tips.
And that’s just a fraction of what you’ll find out in Terrific Parenting Through Divorce That’s why you should own this book today (in fact, you can be reading in as little as 5 minutes from now!).
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If you were to consult with me to get this information directly, it would take at least 4 private sessions of individual consultations, at a cost of $750.00(I should know, that’s what clients just paid me this week!).
Hi, I am Dr Randy Cale. In my more than twenty years in working with parents, I’ve worked as a family therapist, child psychologists and court psychologist (conducting custody evaluations for literally thousands of families). In those early days of custody evaluations, I sat with parents who were clearly worried, afraid, and overwhelmed with the situation that most did not want… at least for their children. Mixed with their fear and overwhelm was confusion, anger, and frustration. Often in extreme distress, many would be crying before they ever said a word.
All of these emotions are understandable. I get it. You likely get it. It’s often unbearably tough getting through these times for us as adults, and we know, in our hearts, that our children suffer when we are in such distress.
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If that isn’t enough, we have solid research that shows that our parenting judgment gets compromised when we are in such distress. We might pretend to be superwoman or superman to our kids, but in the middle of this…we don’t feel it! Some the many daily things we used to take for granted…just aren’t so easy to do. We don’t have the same energy. We don’t have the same clarity of thinking. We don’t have the same emotional strength. (You don’t really need an expert psychologist to tell you that… right?)
As a Licensed Psychologist working with divorcing families, some in the court system and some making their way through without litigation, I spoke to parents like you… and to their children. I sat with them through tears of guilt, sadness, anger, frustration and confusion. Over and over, I could see the mistakes that parents, at times, just couldn’t see. Many parents where blinded to the impact of their decisions. Others were just lost, and had that familiar… deer-in-the-headlight look… as they struggled to just get through each day. Others were more aware of their predicament, and described being like a ship lost at sea. In the midst of this, many even asked, “Why don’t they have a divorce manual for parents? I could really use the help.”
This is when Terrific Parenting Through Divorce had it’s beginning. I truly felt I had to make a difference. I reached out to the courts in New York, to attorneys, judges and to other psychologists and sought input about this program. In collaboration with other psychologist and attorneys, I developed a program to help divorcing parents. As these materials have improved, I have taught these lessons to parents now for over 20 years. I have seen every type of family, every type of anger and dysfunction, every type of child dilemma, and every type of parenting mistake. I have also seen remarkable strength, courage and wisdom, and am grateful for these many years of experience.
It is with this experience, and these many hours of sitting with families and teaching parents how to make a positive difference… that I developed this program: Terrific Parenting Through Divorce: Keeping Kids First! The book title reflects what the program is about… teaching parents how to do a terrific job despite all of the many challenges we face…day to day. It’s a true parenting manual for getting through separation and divorce! The “Keeping Kids First” subtitle is there to remind all of us of the importance of making decisions that hold the value… “how will this decision affect the kids?”… as a constant reminder of a compass that keeps us on track.
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You won’t find information like this on the Internet (except here)! Particularly laser-guided accurate guidance like this -SPECIFICALLY for the challenges and demands families going through separation and divorce.
Included is professionally developed instruction with years of clinical experience and research. Yet, the down to earth step-by-step guidelines are designed for you to read today, and use today.
This will give you help with decisions on custody, and how to speak to your children. The Guide also helps you avoid decisions that threaten your own emotional stability, and the future of your children. You will also learn the steps that protect the relationship your children have with you and with their other parent. You will also learn how to be honest without putting down the other parent, how to discuss the divorce so that no one gets hurt, and how to avoid those dreaded choices that could permanently damage your children!. This isn’t some boiler-plate collection of answers, but rather a carefully developed step-by-step guide that gets you through every question you may have.
Everything is explained in PLAIN English… none of that psycho-babble many psychologist are known for. Which means it’s dead-easy to read and understand. And it’s logically laid out.
And don’t worry, if for any reason you’re not happy with the content, you have a complete guarantee to protect your investment.
That’s about as fair as it gets, don’t you agree? But, remember… there is more!
Well let me tell you what I’ll also do to make this the best investment you ever make. I’m going to throw in some free bonuses that are literally worth more in money terms than my e-book itself! I want you to invest in this life changing ebook, and I am giving away over $100 worth of free bonuses. Simply grab your copy of Terrific Parenting Through Divorce right now, and here’s what I’ll throw in:
Which is why Terrific Parenting Through Divorce is such a bargain at $47.00 $37.00. (And you haven’t even seen the additional free bonuses on Building Your Child’s Confidence ($47.00 value), The Reality of Divorce: Current Research Conclusions ($29.00 value) and the Divorce Guide ($37.00 value)… all included when you try out my offer to you.)
That’s right, for JUST A FRACTION of what it’s really worth or what it cost me to research, study and organize these topics. It’s also a fraction of what it would cost if you purchased my time to get this same information directly. Why would I make it so affordable? Simply because my costs to deliver it to you are so low.
This is an electronic book (e-book) that can be downloaded to your computer in a flash. Which means you can be reading it and discovering all these amazing secrets in as little as 5 minutes from now. You can have answers that will help your children tonight!
So I figure I’ll be able to offer this fantastic resource of information (which if you follow the tips contained in its pages could really give you some amazing benefits) to more people. And make my investment back over time.
No matter what however, it’s a bargain for you. And yes, I lost money on my previous offer with this product, selling it in a different manner, so I had to raise the price. And I hope this offer works, so that I can keep this available for parents like you. (In my last offer, I lost $1,291.38 in just a matter of weeks, so I am attempting a different offer.)
Why is this a bargain?
Conclusion: $37.00 is a drop in the ocean compared to what you learn with these secrets.
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But I don’t know how long I’ll keep these bonuses up here. It’s part of a marketing test I’m doing. They’re worth more than the cost of the Terrific Parenting Through Divorce guide, and yet, I want this to be an irresistible solution that brings you remarkable value for your investment.
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[23 days later…] “Now that I have read the Terrific Parenting Through Divorce guide, my fears are gone! I know the kids will be protected from the decisions I have made. My questions about custody are answered, and I know I can keep them on track. And the results show!
“We are in separate homes, the kids have adjusted well…and even though it’s far from perfect… I can see it getting better week by week… and I thank Dr Cale for giving me the guidance and direction to stay on track! At the moment, in my life there are many negative opinions that try to pull me into the anger and reactive mode…but now I have the drive to stay focused on protecting the children (and myself) from negativity. Get this manual, and your children will thank you.”
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As they say, the proof is in the pudding. And these people are satisfied for good reason: Real information that makes life better. Real results. Real help!
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Wishing you great success.
Warmly,
Randy L. Cale, PhD
Licensed Psychologist
P.S. Don’t forget, you’re getting $170.95 worth of bonuses for just a fraction of that price. Everything to get you started in solving the challenges and demands of separation and divorce… including those critical custody decisions and co-parenting decisions.
P.S.S: While just one critical mistake could undermine years of great parenting, please don’t make leaving this page one of them! Invest here now!
P.S.S.S: My grandfather had a favorite saying, “You get what you pay for.” And on the Internet, this is more true than ever. There is lots of supposed ‘free’ information available. While some of it has value, would you really want to trust your child’s future happiness and success to the chance you may stumble upon the right ‘free’ or ‘cheap’ advice. I wouldn’t want you to take that chance… that’s why I have such faith in this guidebook, and in the supporting bonuses. Try it out, and it doesn’t work for you…just send me an email and let me know. I don’t think that will happen, because so many people have shown such satisfaction that I am willing to take the chance…
And remember… if you ask for a refund…you keep these materials as my gift to you. Free! (If you plan to purchase just to ask for your money back, please go ahead and order anyway. After reading the Terrific Parenting Through Divorce guide, I don’t believe you will consider emailing me. All it takes is one moment where you see the relief in your child’s eyes… and you will know that it was worth much more than $37.00)
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