“If you are worried sick about your child, or so frustrated and exhausted that you simply don’t know where to turn, or even find yourself so angry you could just scream… then stop your search… and read every word on this page. Please.”
Hi, I’m Dr Randy Cale and let’s talk reality for a few moments.
First, we know all kids behave poorly at times. That’s easy to see.
Yet, you are not reading this because you have had a few moments here and there. You are reading this because you have you don’t know what to do to get a handle on a situation that may be spiraling out of control. Whether it’s months…or for some it’s years…your situation is not typical, and the frustration–the exhaustion–the anger—you know you need to do something.
You have spoken to friends, to family and likely the pediatrician. You have tried all the parenting tricks you read about, and all the real tools that others offer. You may have read articles, looked up a few blogs or even read websites where therapists claim to offer better solutions because they too were problem kids, or even because they learned to raise a tough child on their own.
Frankly, most of that will not work for you—not because you can’t get it—but because you need more tools than they have in their toolbox to give to you!
As a Licensed Psychologist working with struggling families for almost 25 years, I know every angle that your difficult child or your challenging teen has up their sleeve. Whether they push the limits right in your face, or whether they keep finding ways to sneak around the rules…I have seen it all.
I know the complete sense of hopelessness, the exhaustion, the frustration … and the fear that there is no answer. I know how you feel when you are at the end of your rope… and you just might snap. You think you have tried everything…and doubt that anyone has a real answer. But please… please take a breath…
What if I whispered to you, “There is a method — a proven, clinically tested parenting system— that fills up your parenting toolbox with easy to use parenting solutions for every single parenting challenge you face today?” And more importantly, these tools actually change your child’s behavior from bad to good, from negative to positive and from oppositional to agreeable.
Would you get excited? I hope so…because if you allow me a few minutes, I can show you that this will be the most useful time you have ever invested in changing your child’s difficult behavior problems.
I have parents walking into my clinic everyday who are at the end of their rope. Many of the common strategies are failing them, and like you — they just don’t know where to turn. Some call their pediatrician, and find nothing helpful. Some seek counseling, and the counselor is useless in changing bad behavior. In fact, the counselor seems to just feed into the problem many times.
Some of my clients turn to the Internet first and seek programs that “transform” children. Most of these approaches fail, not because the teachers are bad people or because their tools are bad. Instead…
Look, how many more times can you hear counselors, doctors, speakers and even other parents talk about children needing help with their feelings. They feel bad about their life. They feel bad about you. They feel bad about themselves. It’s endless…the complete obsession we have with the negative emotions and feelings expressed by your badly behaving child. We try to make change by working with feelings.
This is a mistake. A big, ugly serious mistake.
If this weren’t true, why isn’t your child getting better? Let me explain why the focus on feelings, and self-esteem is just a huge mistake. Please watch my educational video below.
What I do believe is that I want to off invite you change. Not into a world of greater responsibility, more peace and happiness, and more cooperation and thoughtfulness. Are you ready? Sound impossible. I understand… but listen to what Tim from Albany had to say…
Tim & Kelly , Albany, NY Parents of three teenagers
Or maybe these comments by Carol of Saratoga Springs.
Carol H., Saratoga Springs, NY Single Mother of two
This is just a sample of the feedback we receive from parents who have worked through the Essential Parenting Home Study Program. This is not a one-time, listen in the car and get a few tips kind of program.
Nope. It’s the real deal. So continue … if you are serious about making some major changes in the quality of life at home.
When you invest in this program, it’s unlike any other course you can buy, and here’s why:
That’s right. I have been working with families for over 25 years, and have studied every major approach to changing behavior. Rather than wasting your time sorting through tons of useless information, you get what really works.
Most programs start with theories that waste your time, and your life energy. I don’t do that in this program BECAUSE most theory explains very little. While action is what rules the game of life. I teach you what actions really make a difference.
The secret to any approach that is going to create lasting change. Is making sure YOU CAN REALLY GET THROUGH IT. It does not good to fill up a bunch of CD’s with information that you never really complete. You won’t find that here. Each CD will be user friendly, engaging, and provide clear direction for any situation.
Okay, this is my pet peeve. Most of my colleagues tend to take the wrong approach when it comes to children who are struggling with negative patterns, ADD, disrespect, not getting along and the rest. They tend to set up home environments that do not reflect reality. In doing so, they ensure that Mom and Dad work harder than their children and that the kids are never prepared for real life. In fact, if not careful, many of the approaches actually nurture “dependence” rather than “independence.” Not so on this program.I guarantees it!
In some parenting programs, you get the fish…meaning that you are told exactly what to do when you son does something like…mistreats his sister. You are given a formula for that specific situation and therefore the “fish” is the exact answer. You don’t have to think…you just do it (and I must admit…I offer programs like that as well…that’s where I hand you the fish).
In this program, you do get an occasional fish…but mostly…I really teach you how to fish. In any situation. In any circumstances. With any child personality. With any behavior. I guarantee it (more on this in a few paragraphs). But first…
First, I don’t waste your time on theory and conjecture. While I do strive to give you a sense of how things can turn bad quickly and what you can do about it. My focus is to keep it practical and “user-friendly.” Next, I outline the core mistakes you simply can’t afford to make if you are to get this problem under control. I reveal why most books do not discuss these secrets, and teach you how to avoid those core mistakes.
Finally, you get a proven formula to get your kids on track to healthy behavior…in every area of life. With each weekly step of the program, I will walk you through what you need to do, when to do it, and what to say to your kids.
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Perhaps you aren’t ready yet to invest in such a powerful course, and you’re wondering. What will you really get out of this program? I give you the tools to master the entire demands of raising your children from 2 to 22. For example.
Now, I still listen to one CD everyday, so that I stay on track. Your voice is like having my own personal coach there to remind me to stay on track!
And – I know your coaching keeps helping – because things keep getting better and better. I am so grateful we found your website.”
– Lisa, mother of two from Rochester, NY
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