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Mastering the Morning Routine

“Get Your Kids Up And Out In The Mornings Without Any Fighting, Struggling, Or Stress
In 10 Days Or Less”

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Child Psychologist Reveals Secret To Making Simple and Easy Morning Routines A Habit With A Step-By-Step Guide That Stops The Morning Stress
In It’s Tracks…

 

Dear Frustrated Parents,

  • Are you struggling with stressful morning fights and struggles and have you leaving the house in an angry, hectic rush?
  • Do you feel like you are working harder and harder at getting your children up and out every single day?
  • Do you wonder why your child is supposed to be becoming more independent, but it feels like they are becoming more “dependent” on you to get them out of bed, dressed and off to school?

“You Are Not Alone…”

dr_cale_parents_pschologistI see it more and more, parents killing themselves in the morning to get kids up and out to school. Parents starting their mornings off with arguments, struggles and sometimes even fights.

But it doesn’t have to stay this way… I have personally worked with thousands of families, guiding them with tools that transform their mornings from hectic and chaotic to smooth and easy.

Hi, my name is Dr. Randy Cale and I am the “Parent’s Psychologist”. For 20 plus years I have helped thousands of parents, just like you master and overcome the daily struggles that all parents face.

My passion to help parents by using practical, real life strategies that gets real results has lead me to be featured in the Wall Street Journal, on NBC and on Fox News. just to name a few.

Most recently I have developed a program called ‘Mastering The Morning Routine’ that reveals the secret to making simple and easy morning routines a habit in 10 days or less.

If you are finally fed up with arguing and struggling with your children, if you are tired of running late and leaving the house angry before the day even starts, then this might be the most important letter you’ll ever read.

Here’s why:

‘Mastering The Morning Routine’ is a no-nonsense approach to attacking these daily struggles head-on. You get a specific, step-by-step program that tells you exactly what to do and what to say. No detail is left out.

In the ‘Mastering The Morning Routine’, I walk you through a specific step-by-step plan that gets the mornings under control in a little over a week.

Finally End The Morning…

  • yelling
  • screaming
  • battling
  • pushing
  • nagging
  • prodding
  • struggling
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All over getting your kids out of bed or getting them dressed and off to school.

How do I know that this will work for your kids? In reality, I don’t! But I do know that it has worked for 98% of the families that have tried this approach. Those a pretty good odds, don’t you think?

This simple plan is so effective BECAUSE I reveal you how to begin to use your parental power in ways that show your children how to easily stick to their morning routine.

Would You Like To Discover How To:

  • Establish a structure that gives you leverage
  • Stop nagging, pushing and struggling in the mornings, and uncover a simpler, easier way
  • Invest your energy into what you want to do, instead of investing it into arguments and struggles
  • Nurture independent, rather than dependent behavior
  • Make kids responsible for their morning readiness, so they don’t depend on you!
  • Establish a plan that virtually ensures that your kids are on track in a matter of days!

Let me guess, you may be thinking…

“I am afraid that my kids will never get up or get dressed if I stop pushing or prodding them. I am afraid that if I pull away, nothing will happen, and their world will fall apart.”

That can’t be further from the truth… in fact, if you continue to feel that way you will hurt your child’s independent development (as well as your mornings for the next 15 or so years) by not allowing them to discover their own independence.

This is the fear that many parents have as they begin to think about how to change the morning routine. They fear that pulling away from all of the effort and energy will result in a child who simply stops doing anything.

But this is not the case. In fact I find that this is not the case over, and over, and over, and over again. Why?

It is quite simple! You will discover that one of the key ways to develop a simple morning routine is to notice what gets your attention; what consistently gets your energy; what consistently you notice! This points us in the direction of the first step we must take to turn things around.

  • Notice that when your children are not getting dressed, what gets your attention?
  • Notice that when the kids are lolly-gagging around, what do you notice?
  • Notice what happens when your son seems to be taking ten minutes to put on his socks, what do you do?
  • Notice when your daughter helplessly complains over and over that she doesn’t have a clean shirt to wear, what do you engage?

What is getting repeatedly and consistently noticed? The NOT DOING is getting much of our energy in these situations! This is the secret – simply turning things around.

So here’s the trap we must come to understand – fully understand: The trap is that the NOT GETTING READY is unwanted behavior that consistently and repeatedly pulls us in. The more we get pulled into it, the more we get frustrated, get stressed out, and have hectic, terrible mornings.

How The
“Mastering The Morning Routine” Works

girl_getting_ready_for_schoolIn the ‘Mastering The Morning Routine’ program, you’ll discover specifically how to turn your hectic and stressful mornings around. You will get a plan that details exactly what you need to do, step-by-step, to make sure that your children start changing their behavior.

In addition, this is a program that leaves nothing to chance. I’ll tell you exactly what to say to your kids and when to say it. I’ll describe a detailed and specific plan that explains exactly how to relate that to your children.

Most importantly, I make sure that you will have a clear understanding that this is a learning process. This is not a “fix it now” program. What do I mean by that?

It means that you won’t get the program and everything will be perfect tomorrow.

Instead, it means that you’ll get the program, and you’ll implement the plan tomorrow. Positive changes will start to occur tomorrow.

But then, within several days, you begin to notice that things start to improve. Your mornings are calmer. Your kids are following your routine. And you don’t have to leave the house feeling angry, stressed, frustrated or irritated.

“It’s Up To You To Make A Change”

The principles that are revealed in this program are fundamental to how kids learn and to how you shape and nurture behavior. If you follow these principles, your kids will get it!

But keep in mind, they can only “get it” if you “get it.” In other words, you have got to make a commitment and discover the secrets in the program and put them to use right away.

And then, you’ll “get it.” In less than a few weeks, your kids will be on track and you will have an easier morning routine, with fewer hassles. It will almost seem effortless.

“What Makes My ” Program So Powerful?”

  1. First, I don’t waste your time on theory and conjecture. There is no deep psychobabble explanation of every little step. I keep it simple.
  2. Secondly, while I do strive to give you a sense of how things can turn bad.my focus to keep it practical and “user-friendly”.
  3. Thirdly, I outline the core mistakes you simply can’t afford to make if you are to get this problem under control. I reveal why most books do not discuss these secrets, and teach you how to avoid those mistakes that can make or break your child’s morning habits.
  4. Fourthly, you get a proven formula to get your kids on track. With each step of the program, I will walk you through what you need to do, when to do it, and what to say to your kids.

Now, I know you’re probably skeptical. That’s normal and beneficial. Let me give you three good reasons why you should keep reading, and consider my program carefully.

Three Reasons You Know My
“Mastering The Morning Routine” Program Is Exactly What You Need…

1. As a Licensed Psychologist and parenting expert, I have helped hundreds of families establish a set morning routine. Where other approaches have failed, this system works…time and time again!
2. My approach is based upon the proven principles found in the neurosciences research and the literature on behavior management. Why is this important? Because it’s not just some other theory. You can put this strategy to use with the confidence of years of accumulated research and clinical experience.
3. There is nothing wrong with your kids. There is a problem with their habits…but there is nothing wrong with your child. I am not suggesting that the current situation is healthy; but it is fixable… and you do want your children to change their habits, don’t you?

“My ‘Mastering The Morning Routine’ Program Gives You”

A clear formula for relief that you can easily follow… so…

  • You can get the kids to school on time and leave the house with a smile.

A simple and practical program for morning routines that has a proven track record… so…

  • You are not going to waste your time and energy.

A complete solution you can master in less than an hour… so…

  • You can get started right away…without days or weeks to read a book.

Principles based in the psychology of learning… so…

  • You begin to get results in a few days… not weeks.

A strategy that will end all morning battles… so…

  • You won’t have to argue, fight, plead, or beg your child to get ready in the morning, ever again.

Relief from your constant morning stress and worries… so…

  • You can have peace of mind that your child is developing independent behavior that will help them become responsible, independent adults.

Now, you may be wondering how and why this program does all those things.

Let me explain.

My ‘Mastering The Morning Routine’ program is like getting a parenting expert and licensed Psychologist as your personal coach. Instead of sitting with me for several sessions, you get a life changing program to follow… with a proven step-by-step formula that guarantees your success.

healthy_peacful_homeWhile there are other programs and books on morning routines, many make the mistake of developing elaborate theories and this, quite frankly, just confuses the issue.

In the ‘Mastering The Morning Routine’ program, you will get a practical, step-by-step process that you can put into action today. As soon as you go through the program, which will take about forty-five minutes, you will know exactly what to do.

Not only will you know exactly what to do, but also you’ll find that it is remarkably simple to make these changes. It doesn’t take nearly as much time and energy as you might imagine in order to make these fundamental changes.

Don’t take my word for it. Listen to what my customers say:

“My kindergartener now gets up on his own, gets ready, eats his breakfast and there is no fighting, struggling, or ugliness. I can’t believe what a difference three weeks has made in our lives.”

-Maureen, mother of 3

If you were to consult with me to get this information, it would likely involve 4 sessions of therapy at a cost of nearly $680.00. You get the advantage of information that distills years of clinical experience into a simple, practical program with a proven track record.

But I’m not charging $680.00 for this valuable resource. I’m only charging $17 for my ‘Mastering The Morning Routine’ program.

Yes, only $17 for my complete, easy to follow, step-by-step, home-study guide and my detailed plan of action.

Why only $17? Because I am conducting market research and we are currently testing different prices. This price will not last long, in fact the price will only continue to rise.

More importantly, if you have lived with the daily struggle every morning to get your child up and out to school, you understand that peaceful mornings are worth much more than I could possibly charge for this program.

I want everyone to have access to these secrets, utilize my program, and benefit from my methods. and I’m even willing to back it up…

Mastering The Morning Routine Program for only $17

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“Imagine… Peaceful Mornings… Day After Day…”

I often wonder why parents hesitate to take action now…since the benefit of this program will bring daily peace to your home and ensure you get the morning calm you deserve… for less than the cost of dinner!

It’s important to understand that my current pricing will not last on this program or any of my programs. Why? Because I realize that I am losing money on these programs, given all that has been invested in creating the program, the website, the marketing and the time it takes to administer all of this.

I am in the process of conducting market research to determine if there is a way to make a profit on this program if not, I will remove the product from the market and reserve this information for my private coaching clients. Until a decision is made however, the cost of the program will remain at $17.

For less than a couple of movie tickets you get my ‘Mastering The Morning Routine’ program sent directly to your email, there is no waiting and no shipping cost.

And there’s no risk for you! If you apply the principles in this program, and it doesn’t work for you…just send me an email and you will get your money back!

Here’s What You Get In The Master
The Morning Routines Package

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In the Master The Morning Routines Package, you get a downloadble ebook which you can read right away. You also get my Master The Morning Routines mp3 audio program, which you can listen to immediately.

Let me break the package down for you:

Immediate MP3 Download of the Master The Morning Routines Audio Program (Value $47)

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The first part of this package is the Master The Morning Routines program audio download. This is an MP3 audio program, you can listen to immediately. Within minutes from now, you can be learning from the complete audio program. Dr Cale provides the comprehensive training in an MP3 download that you can instantly load onto your computer or your MP3 player/Ipod.

Did I mention this? With this instant access, you can easily listen to the program within the next hour. Okay, I am emphasizing this again because this program is designed to solve one problem, and to solve those morning routine problems very, very quickly. By tomorrow morning, you will be ready to put this program to the test in your home!

Master The Morning Routines Parent Manual
PDF Instant Download (Value $47.00)

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This is your manual… your guide (so to speak) … to almost effortlessly have the kids get up in the morning, and get ready for school. Sound like a dream… IT IS! It is truly a dream solution to those crazy morning routines. (Remember: Try it. If it doesn’t work you get every penny back!) This downloaded manual will take you through a step-by-step process that you can read in under an hour.

So… not only do you get the audio program to listen to, but you also get immediate access to the Master The Morning Routines parent manual. This manual is your guide to ending all of those battles over in the morning about getting out of bed, getting dressed on time and finally getting out the door on time. Finally, a real answer to a real problem that works!

For some of us, we learn better by listening. For others, it’s better to read. And yet for most of us, we do better when we can both listen, and read the information.

That’s why I have included both the audio MP3 program for you to listen to, and the instant download manual for you to read if you want. They both included, and you get them instantly.

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In the ‘Mastering The Morning Routine’ program, I provide you with a step-by-step guide to your morning struggle. You can transform your home…and bring relief to your family today!

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Still contemplating? You may read this and think about it for days. You could struggle through numerous battles, for days and perhaps years to come. During that time, you’ll notice that your kids don’t become more independent; instead, they actually depend on you more and more to get them up and out to school.

It’s not like they grow out of it. Unless you show them the way, it just becomes more of the same: more fights, more arguments, more stress, more anger.

What parent wouldn’t at least take a chance to find out if they can have peaceful, nice, calm mornings?

What parent wouldn’t at least take the $17 chance to finally end the morning struggle once and for all?

And remember, there is no risk. If you buy this program, and find it doesn’t work for you, just let me know. I guarantee that implementing these programs will make a difference or you’ll get your money back.

So order now and discover the secrets to happy, calm, peaceful mornings.

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Dr. Cale, I’m Ready for Mastering The Morning Routine

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To your success,
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P.S. This special Internet rate will not last for long. The pricing will likely double or triple, to reflect the value of the product. I don’t know how long I will maintain this pricing. So act now if you want relief! There is no need to struggle with daily negotiations and battles. I know this program will help.

P.P.S. There is absolutely no risk involved with my money back guarantee. You owe it to yourself and your child to eliminate the morning struggle and the constant fighting and stress. Get the happy, calm morning routine you deserve.

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Morning Madness

Mastering The Morning Routine

loud_noisy_homeOf the many questions that I receive, order one of the most frequent concerns expressed by parents stems from the problems experienced while getting children up and out of the house in the morning. Over the years, help I have refined a group of highly effective strategies to assist parents with even the most challenging and resistant children.

For some parents, the morning routine is the worst part of the day. The constant conflict, nagging and prodding, and escalating emotions often result in an angry and frustrated goodbye between parents and children as the bus arrives. Worse yet: The frustrated kiss goodbye occurs after the parents have transported the children to school because the kids have missed the bus, and parents are late for work.

This is frustrating and challenging, and can be relatively easily avoided. However, it does take some planning and extra effort initially to get all the pieces in place.

Before you get started…consider this first.

Helpful Hint: Get up a half hour earlier.

This is the simplest suggestion I can offer. No confusing theory or complicated steps.

Just get up a half hour earlier and model what you want from your kids. Show them how comfortable the morning can be when you are up and well prepared.

This allows you the opportunity to be paying attention to the parts of their world that is going well. This simple preparatory commitment allows you the chance to easily follow the six-step plan that follows.

girl_getting_ready_for_schoolSix Steps to Mastering the Morning Routine

As you read the suggestions below, many of you are going to cringe in fear that it is just not going to work. You’re going to be afraid that your kids will never get out of bed and that things will only deteriorate.

Having worked with many, many families, I want to encourage you to have faith. These are proven principles that will motivate and move children forward, and they are embedded throughout this set of strategies.

If you find that morning routines are truly draining the life out of your mornings and the joy out of your day, you will want to get started with the suggestions below. You may also discover that the complete program, Morning Routines Made Easy, will walk you through every detail and answer every question you have. In less than an hour, I will guide you through a specific program that has worked time and time again. For now, read the plan below and get started now on a calmer, more predictable morning routine.

Follow these principles and be patient. It will turn around!

1. Have a preparatory meeting with your children.

Tell your kids you’re done! You’re tired of waking them up, herding them through the morning routine, and treating them like they’re all three-year-olds.Let them know that you’ll no longer do that, and that they each now have an alarm clock, and that you’ll make certain (depending on their age) that the alarm is set the night before.

Let them know that you’ll also be in to greet them with a “Good Morning”, once they have arisen. However, it will be their job to get out of bed.

End of story. Say it like you mean it. There is great power in taking a strong and definitive position.

2. No more free rides.

Let them know if they miss the bus, it is their responsibility to get to school. You will not take them freely and easily, and will not be responsible for getting them to school. You will not write notes.(If this is not workable due to the distance to your school, or your child’s young age, then let them know that you will take them to school when it is convenient for you.)

If they miss the bus, do not have a discussion or repeated lectures with them. If you must transport them, take them to school somewhat late, so that they must deal with the consequence without an excuse from you as a parent. Make the consequence something that they begin to feel.

If you must transport the kids to school, you will do so on your time. They have to wait for you. Then, at the time you need to leave, let the kids know you are leaving, ready or not. NO YELLING OR PRODDING.

3. Use what leverage you do have.

healthy_peacful_homeIn the mornings, I find that parents have two types of leverage that they rarely use. The first is breakfast, and the second is some form of entertainment, such as video games or TV or playtime.Set up a rule where your kids must be up, dressed, book bag packed, shoes on and ready to go PRIOR to breakfast or entertainment. You can even cheat a little by fixing a wonderful breakfast, and allowing yourself to throw it all away, if they aren’t ready. Be patient with this, and repeat.

The TV doesn’t come on and breakfast isn’t served until your son or daughter is ready to go to school. If they have to go to school hungry, because they get up late and miss breakfast, just let that occur. Trust me, this natural consequence is important to them, and they will remember that tomorrow. For some kids, missing breakfast is no big deal. Just relax and stick to the plan. Don’t let their attitude throw you off!

Let them know they can watch a little TV, play video games, etc., once they are totally ready and not before. Then, be patient! This is a learning process, and as such, you must exercise patience while your children learn to make healthy choices. You can learn more about how to manage leverage here Morning Routines Made Easy.

4. Use other consequences.

For many parents, they end up taking more responsibility for their children getting to school, than the child does. As children move through later elementary and into middle school, this becomes more and more problematic. It is essential that children are taking more responsibility for their success, than you are. If it feels the other way around, you know you’re headed down a more troublesome path.So what can you do?

morning_routine_boxYou can add other consequences if they are not getting up in time to catch the bus. Any afternoon or evening activities that they enjoy are immediately removed. In other words, if they are late for school in the morning, they don’t go to soccer practice, participate in karate, or watch their favorite TV shows that afternoon and evening.

It is their only requirement in the morning that they get up and get to school. You as a parent, then must provide some consequence to the child, if they do not follow through with this single requirement.

Keep in mind: When the next day begins, it’s a new day. There are no “carry over” consequences based upon what occurred yesterday in the morning routine. The consequence needs to be given in the morning, as you inform your child – “No soccer and no TV tonight.” No lecture; just clear feedback on the consequences to their actions.

And make sure the consequences are something that they actually FEEL! Make it so that your children KNOW that missing the bus, or getting out late, will lead to severe restrictions on their activity in the afternoon and evening. The essential key here is that your kids HEAR THIS in the morning WHILE they are leaving late. Don’t dance around their possible upsets because you have taken a clear stance on this.

5. No more nagging! You are DONE!

YES!!!!!!Under no circumstances do you nag, push, plead, or pull. Stop all engagement of their lollygagging around. Ignore their moaning and complaining. Ignore their lying in bed.

You cannot keep engaging your children for the behaviors that you want to see disappear. Yelling at them while they are in bed, or complaining repeatedly about how slow they are, or pulling them through each phase of the morning only serves to worsen the very habits that you want to change. If you keep engaging them for being slow and disinterested, you will see more and more slowing down over the years ahead. It has to happen that way! It’s one of the laws of human behavior! So…..

Allow the consequence of their actions to be the teacher. Not your words.

6. Catch the moments of preparing for school.

Once you are up early and prepared, it allows you the opportunity to notice moments of your kids putting on their clothes, brushing their hair, washing their face, making their bed, etc.Just notice them when they are doing what you want them to do. Hug them. Say good morning. Ask about their day. A light touch on the shoulder. Make a comment about breakfast.

Catch them while they are getting ready and ignore the rest!

And DON’T fall into the trap of saying repeatedly what a good job they are doing. This becomes stale and meaningless. Just keep engaging them in small, almost unnoticeable ways, while remaining happy, smiling and grateful for their efforts.

There you have it. A set of very simple steps that, when followed consistently, will teach your children to get up and make it through the morning routine more easily.

morning_routine_boxNote again: It is essential NOT to engage in prodding, pushing, encouraging, and reminding your children. Stay away from this at all cost, because it is a major part of what is maintaining the problem.

Instead, wait for your kids to show you more of what you want. In other words when they begin to get out of their bed and start to get ready for school, drop in, have a brief conversation with them, say good morning, talk about the day, and engage them in brief conversations while they are getting themselves ready for school. Give a good-morning pat on the back, or a brief hug. Keep catching them WHILE they are doing what you want. This WILL GROW over the weeks ahead.

If you find your kids are more than a bit challenging, you may want to consider the full program, Morning Routines Made Easy. This program is available in CD form, or you can download an audio file right now and get started immediately. To learn more about this detailed program, click here Morning Routines Made Easy.

Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles

“Discover The Secret To Ending The Nightly Struggles With Bath, Bedtime Routine, And Getting The Kids To Sleep”

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“In Less Time Than It Takes To Wash and Dry A Load Of Clothes You Can Uncover The Psychologist’s Secret To Ending Your Nightly Bedtime Struggles… And See Amazing Results In Under Than 10 Days!”

Look, I have been helping parents who struggle, fight and even cry out loud because their child will not go to bed on time. While I have found different approaches work with some kids and not others, there is one SECRET STRATEGY that you must master IF YOU WANT TO QUICKLY ELIMINATE THOSE NIGHTLY BEDTIME STRUGGLES FROM YOUR FAMILY.

“Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles” program action plan teaches your child to go to bed on time – and stay there, and shows you exactly how to do it… IN JUST 7 DAYS OR LESS – WITHOUT ANY Drugs…

  • Even if – you’ve unsuccessfully tried other approaches that worked for a while and then stopped.
  • Even if – your child’s nightly fights are so bad you can’t imagine how life would be like without them.
  • Even if – your son or daughter is unusually strong-willed, stubborn or even diagnosed with some other condition.

This approach has been tested and proven with hundreds and hundreds of children, with all variations of nighttime problems, from the most typical to most extreme.

testimonialpic“Hey Doc. Just a quick note. I bought this program because I thought it would be a good gift for my wife, who goes crazy with the kids every night…getting them to bed. I work late, and she is a mess by the time I get home. As it turns out, the Bye Bye Bedtime Battles program saved the day. NOW, when I get home, we can have some real time tighter. We have some time to ourselves…that is quality time. Thanks!”
Ray Edwards, Father of 4 boys

Dear Mom or Dad,

siblings_dont_want_to_sleepAre you ready to pull your hair out because the nightly battle to get your kid to bed just gets worse every day? Are you exhausted from the just the thought of going through another round?

The common advice doesn’t seem to work with YOUR CHILD… and you wonder why? You bedtime battles have tried everything (you think). You have negotiated. You have been kind. You have tried to talk it out. You have tried being firm. You have gotten angry. You have gotten frustrated, and you have done the time-out thing! It’s really frustrating… right!

And do you wonder if something is wrong… with your son? Your daughter? With YOU???

But guess what… there is nothing wrong… with anyone here. When I first started helping other parents who had children who were out of control, I just followed the traditional ways I had learned and used myself. Sometimes this strategy worked, and sometimes it didn’t. Then I tried other approaches I had been taught in graduate school, and again… it was hit or miss… especially with certain children.

Then, I discovered the key! It was like a hidden secret ingredient that made everything come together. I would like to claim some genius ability in pulling this out of all my research and experience, but that is not the case. I really just discovered this solution because I worked with so many families who were struggling and I had so many chances to learn the ONE ESSENTIAL CHANGE that every parent must make to stop bedtime battles… regardless of whether your child is 3 or 13!

This may surprise you: The truth is that most of what causes this problem to get worse is the misleading, and inaccurate advice you are given in magazines, books and yes… even your pediatrician’s office. When you discover how easily you can change these bedtime battles… you just may want to write a few letters of your own!

boy_having_a_good_sleepOkay, I did say “how easily you can change these bedtime battles”… didn’t I? Well, compared to another meltdown at bedtime, or another struggle to keep your kids in bed, or another night sleeping with your child… this easy to follow, step-by-step action plan will be a walk in the park. Yet, I don’t want to deceive you here… there will be a few tough days ahead… and for a select few of you, you may have a week or so where you have to stick firmly to the action plan.

But the learning is quick, and the change become immediately noticed… even with the most stubborn and oppositional kids. My system works, and it works quickly. I guarantee it.

 

First Let Me Tell You What My Easy To Use Action Plan Is NOT

  • It does not require any new gadgets, or the idea of a magical tool.
  • It is not some ordinary advice, this works with every child and every personality.
  • It does not require long hours of sessions and counseling.
  • It does not cost a fortune. Not just being the greatest solution for fussy eating ever, it’s also the cheapest, costing much less than your lunch out with the family.

dr_cale_parents_pschologistA Radically Different Approach to Bedtimes

Hi, my name is Dr. Randy Cale and for the past 23 years I have helped thousands of parents, just like you master and overcome the daily struggles that all parents face.

My passion to help parents by using practical, real life strategies that gets real results has lead me to be featured in the Wall Street Journal, on NBC and on Fox News— just to name a few.

I am often referred to as “The Parent’s Psychologist” by pediatricians, teachers and the media… as well as the parents I work with. The reason for this is the fact that I focus (well… let’s call it an obsession) on helping parents master the skills to get you through the daily struggles and challenges we all face.

“How I Can Help You Win The War
Over Bedtime Battles”

But recently, I have developed a report called “Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles” program and it can and will help you and your family. If you’d like to end those useless battles over bedtimes, stop the endless fighting and arguing, and ensure that your children are getting the sleep that they need, then this might be the most important letter you’ll ever read.

Here’s why:

“Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles” program is a one of a kind report developed specifically for parents struggling with all types of bedtime battles.

From toddlers who won’t stay in bed, to middle-schoolers who won’t turn off the TV, there is a clear formula that works. From children’s bedtime fears to kids who whine relentlessly, you will get a comprehensive solution that has a proven track record.

“What Will You Get Out Of This Revolutionary Report?”

  • You will discover a system that brings hours of needless arguing and whining to an end.
  • You will discover how to gain control over bedtime routines.
  • You will discover the hidden secret to why your kids keep fighting you.
  • You will discover that you have the power to end the craziness.
  • You will nurture a better relationship with your kids.
  • You and your children will sleep with more peace and happiness.
  • You will discover how to use your energy to maintain consistency.
  • You discover automatic routines that requires less of your energy.
  • You will discover the critical pieces that makes evenings flow easily.
  • Your kids will respect your request for getting ready for bed.

My focus is exclusively upon helping parents with problems. I have responded to the questions that parents ask me, and have developed The “Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles” program because there is not a clear solution available for parents.

But let me take a moment to let you know exactly what my report is not.

Great, Nice Ideas That Will NOT Solve Your Nightly Bedtime Struggles:

  • Healthy bedtime snacks
  • Kid’s bedtime stories
  • Children bedtime music
  • Calling grandpa, dad, grandma, or someone else to tell the kids, “It’s bedtime” or “It’s past your bedtime.”
  • Reading another article on children’s bedtime tips

Now don’t get me wrong, reading to your children is great, but its not going to fix your problem.

In fact, a lot of these are good for your child, a lot of these are even helpful, but none of these will really work to get your child to go to bed because none of these contain the REAL SOLUTION.

They are basically Band-Aids that stop the bleeding for a day or two.

You could also read a book or two, and come up with your own plan. But why waste the time with ideas that haven’t been proven?

I am amazed at the parenting advice on the market that has no basis in research, and no understanding of behavior management with children. Most of those ideas simply don’t work.

You should really check it out… and discover this for yourself!

“Be Careful… Not All Parenting Advice Is Equal”

So there are other options… but be careful. It would be a mistake to assume that all parenting advice is equal… it’s not.

Many times, you will find well-intentioned parents giving advice, and writing books, based upon their experiences. They have a sample of maybe 2-3-4 children…for most. And they may have gotten lucky! It’s easy to offer advice… when you have an easy child. We all know that!

So… seek an expert who has worked with literally thousands of families, and with children of all types of personalities… from the easy to the most oppositional and challenging. I’ve been there… with every type of child and every disposition. I have walked this path with families just like yours… and this report includes the lessons I’ve learned with all those years of experience.

“How ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ Program WILL Work For You And Your Child…”

  • You can complete this entire report in less than an hour!
    • You don’t wade through pages upon pages of words.
  • My approach is not complex… in fact… it’s quite simple.
    • You don’t need to study this for weeks to get started!
  • There is no need for massive changes in your home.
    • Anyone can easily implement this report
  • This proven formula has been refined with many challenging children.
    • This means you see results with your kids
  • You get clear, specific instructions and guidance.
    • You don’t struggle through psycho-babble to get the plan… it’s all laid out for you already
  • There is no prolonged period of gradual change.
    • Your kids learn to accept their new routine within days
  • The report teaches you a formula to end every bedtime battle.
    • No one needs to go to bed upset again
  • Your kids will learn to abandon their battles over bedtime.
    • Finally… you can kiss your kids goodnight in peace

Why Keep Suffering With Bedtime Battles?
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Customer Success Stories

“I was hesitant to believe that this Bedtime Battles plan could work. I tried everything, and Dr. Cale, you made it sound a bit too easy…to be honest. BECAUSE it’s wasn’t that easy at first…but then, just like you said, things turned around quickly. What a relief…from all the battles, the arguing, the negotiations…and late bedtimes! Within days, the kids were in bed on time, without a hassle, and life is SO much better. I’m not one to make suggestions to others…so I can only say that I personally got more out of this little program than I have from dozens of other books on parenting. Thanks for making this available…the program was fantastic (even if the first couple days were really really tough!)

Ava Gardner, Mother of 2

There is no more screaming ugly words from my son. There are no more extended bedtimes. There are no more frustrated goodnights, and angry “go to bed NOW.” It’s all working smooth. Thanks to the Bye Bye Bedtime Battles guide. What a simple, but practical set of tools. Thanks!

Melissa, Mother of 3 from Minnesota

How To Stop Bedtime Battles!

If you want the nightly fights over bedtimes to stop, you must have a clear game plan to change things. If you don’t have a clear game plan, you will fall into old patterns, and end up making things worse with half-baked ideas and ill-conceived strategies.

You actually end up losing control of your home and your life. You find yourself dancing around your child’s demands, and feeling embarrassed and angered that you don’t have more control over things.

Ultimately, your child ends up “driving the bus”! The long term picture can get very ugly. Your whole world can end up revolving around futile, but exhausting, efforts to avoid conflict. Your whole life can be squeezed of every ounce of joy by a teenager who hasn’t learned to control their emotions.

End Bedtime Battles Before They Grow
Into Something Much Worse

Before deciding that you really need to do this now… not later… just pause for a second: Can you actually imagine a teenage body, with teenage hormones, reacting with teenage emotions, but filled with uncontrolled teenage-size defiance? It’s UGLY!

You may not want to imagine this scene… because I have seen it… and I understand. It’s beyond ugly. It’s beyond painful. It’s beyond your worst nightmare. Family life is lost. Futures are needlessly surrendered to detention, constant mental health counseling, endless timeouts, and threats of family court help just to bring sanity to the home.

But you can prevent that scene by taking action now! Get my Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles Step-by-Step Guide.

You Deserve Better… And Your Child Deserves
A Better Future

pic3With an understanding of the lessons I have learned over the years, you can alter the immediate and the long term future for you and your child. Not only do you save your bedtimes time and energy, by not wasting it with endless theories that only work with some children some of the time… but you get an action plan that includes the key ingredient that I have found essential to success for every child.

While I write this, I know some of you are skeptical and that’s okay. I probably would be too. But I have created a simple, step-by-step action plan that has helped hundreds and hundreds of parents, just like you, finally get peace in their own homes. The ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ program is an easy to follow action plan that will show you the secrets to ending nightly fights over bedtimes right now so you and your child can have a better, less stressful, more peaceful life… for only $17!

You see, from my side of things, I know that life can be better. Not next year. Not five years from now. Not after they graduate from high school.

But things can be better in just a few days! Why would you keep suffering when relief is so close? I have seen it hundreds of times in working with every type of family, every style of parenting, and every variation of a strong willed or oppositional child. They all get it! Every child gets it… WHEN you get it.

mother_and_daughter_bedtimeWhat To Expect With
The ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ Program

In ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ program, I explain how to set up their world so they can learn to listen to you. You don’t force it… you allow them to learn! Once again… I repeat myself, but this is the secret. Setting up a home environment where you control what they care about in a way that they can learn quickly and easily… that’s it’s! It’s that simple.

I also give you the hidden key ingredient to your actions… that shift your child’s reactions. If you master this key ingredient… they will learn to change by following your lead. If you fail to master it… they will fail to master their emotions. In the “Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles” program, I explain how this works, and why your child’s short term AND long term future are dependent upon mastering emotions early in life.

9 Ways My Tested and Proven ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ Program Will Work For You And Your Child

  1. You’ll discover exactly what to do, when to do it and exactly how to do it. No psychobabble to confuse you!
  2. You will master a clear, simple plan that works for all ages and child personalities. No exceptions!
  3. You will know precisely what to say to your child to make sure that the learning occurs quickly. A few powerful words only!
  4. You will understand what you need to do in every situation.
  5. You discover how to stop trying to avoid tantrums over bedtimes and use them to teach your child the proper way to react.
  6. You discover how to respond so that your energy and attention isn’t wasted…
  7. You discover how to stop working hard to solve things for them.
  8. You will discover remarkably simple ways to control your environment.
  9. You also discover how your peace of mind immediately helps to bring calmness to your child.

Stop Bedtime Battles Cold

The ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ program gives you a clear, straight forward game plan that tells you exactly what you need to do and how to do it. No more theory and untested approaches. You get the formula that works time and time again. This plan is different. The results you get will be different… it will transform your home. I promise it, and stand behind your investment.

Look, I want to be very clear with you in your struggle with bedtimes. This report brings you a solution that works the wide majority of time. If it doesn’t work for you, you will see that I stand behind this unconditionally. It either works like it has for hundreds of families and you wake up a week or so from now realizing that this was an amazing bargain, or… you let me know it didn’t work for you, and get your money back.

By the way, if you were to consult with me to get this information, it would likely involve 4-6 sessions of family therapy at a cost of $680.00 to $1020.00. You get the advantage of this information that distills years of clinical experience into a simple, practical report… with a proven track record. But I’m not charging $1020.00 for this valuable resource… I’m only charging a fraction of that for the ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ program.

Why Keep Struggling From Bedtime Battles?
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Dr. Cale’s Big 3

“3 Really BIG Reasons Why You Should Invest Now, And Try The Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles Program… While You Still Can!”

1. Do you REALLY want to keep struggling with bedtimes when you can be over this in a week or so?

My grandmother always told me, The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result, and even worse is doing nothing at all.

2. Because you are likely in some pain over bedtimes, I invite you to imagine a home free of those battles, the yelling, the meltdowns… and then decide if that relief isn’t worth 10 times the cost of this focused step-by-step action plan.
3. In the time it takes to read another semi-worthless website article, you can download this action plan, and be on your way to a happier home. Please don’t procrastinate, I want to help you… and this action plan will give you the tools to teach your child to end those bedtime meltdowns… for good!

Here’s the deal. Invest in this Report. Follow the detailed plan. You can easily test the Report for yourself… and follow the clear directions. Once you’ve used these strategies in your own home, I’m confident you will want to keep it.

But, if you aren’t satisfied for any reason, or it doesn’t live up to your expectations, you won’t be out one red cent. Just return the course and we’ll refund the cost of the Report. It’s that simple.

I often wonder why parents hesitate to take action now… since the benefit of this report will bring daily peace to your home and ensure your child goes to bed the first time, every time. For less than a couple of movie tickets you get ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ program sent directly to your email, there is no waiting and no shipping cost.

And there’s no risk for you! If you apply the principles in this report, and it doesn’t work for you… just send me an email and you will get your money back!

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What You Need To Do Right Now

You can end the struggle, frustration, and anger that bedtimes cause. It’s all up to you, if you are ready to discover the secrets then you need to order the ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ program today.

You will instantly have access to the ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ program that gives you the tools to stop the nightly fights and arguments and get back your life. It’s not like they grow out of it. Unless you show them the way, bedtime battles will just continue to get worse.

Order right now and give your child and yourself the life you both deserve… you really have nothing to lose but the maddening bedtimes that are wrecking your sanity…

Here’s what you get in
Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles Download Package

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In the Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles Package, you get a downloadble ebook which you can read right away. You also get my Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles mp3 audio program, which you can listen to immediately. In addtion, as my gift to you, I have included my A-Z Collection of Parenting Articles — yours free with this package.

Let me break the package down for you:

Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles Downloadable Ebook
($47.00 value)

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The Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles Ebook is not a simple discussion of the child just getting kids to bed easily. Instead, it is a clinically tested step-by-step advance program for ending bedtime battles, stopping the whining and procrastination, and it gives you the tools to get your kids get to bed on time — every night without a battle.

Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles MP3 Audio Program
($47.00 value)

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The MP3 Audio Program is also downloadable immediately, and you can listen to this on your computer or on your MP3 player (such as your IPOD). This audio program is like having Dr. Cale as your personal coach, as he guides you through each part of the step-by-step advance formula for ending bedtime battles.

This audio program alone is a $47.00 value, but is included free as part of this package.

The A-Z Collection of Parenting Articles
(Sells for $29.95 but Yours Free)

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Over the years, I’ve written dozens and dozens of articles for magazine, newspapers, and for the internet. These articles cover a wide range of topics, from whining, to temper tantrums, to morning routines, bedtime routines, self-confidence, homework habits, self-esteem, negativity, optimism, and the list goes on and on…

As my gift to you, I’m including my A-Z collection of parenting articles. This is a group of over 32 articles, and provide you with the strong foundation for how to respond to a wide variety of situations.

This product is sold separately on other websites of mine for $29.95.

Again however, this gift is free to you with The Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles Program.

The total cost of this package is: $123.95

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In the Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles program, I provide you with a complete solution to your bedtime battles problem. For less than the cost of your cable bill, you can transform your stubborn sleeper… and bring relief to your family today! Wouldn’t it be wonderful to just relax about this?

In the Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles program, I provide you with a complete solution to your bedtime battles problem. For less than the cost of your cable bill, you can transform your stubborn sleeper… and bring relief to your family today! Wouldn’t it be wonderful to just relax about this?

What Do You Get For Your $17 Investment?

  • You get a program that you can put to work immediately.
  • You get a practical solution that requires no detailed preparation.
  • You get the benefit of years of clinical training and expertise.
  • You get a formula that addresses every bedtime battle or your money back.

And remember: There is no risk. This program will work for you or you get your money back. I have confidence in this program because I have successfully used this approach again and again. The strategies have been refined with years of clinical experience, and you benefit both the success and failures of other families. I have been able to identify the core ingredients that eliminate bedtime battles, and put you on the path to greater peace at bedtime!

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Not ready to buy yet? Perhaps you are thinking this program isn’t for you? Maybe not.

But the program really works. I guarantee it! It can bring relief to those crazy bedtime battles… and life can be more peaceful and predictable.

How can I be absolutely certain this will work for you? The reality is that I can’t. However, I do know this program has worked for hundreds of other families dealing with difficult and challenging children.

This program has worked with kids who are:

yes oppositional, yes negative,
yes defiant, yes grumpy,
yes ADD, yes anxious,
yes strong-willed, yes angry,
yes spoiled, yes and the list goes on.

Here Is What You Will Get Out
Of This Program:

  • You will learn the hidden secret to why your kids keep fighting you when it’s time to go to bed.
  • You will learn how to use your energy and attention to support a consistent bedtime routine.
  • You will learn how to set up a routine that becomes automatic and requires less and less of your energy.
  • You will develop ways to nurture a stronger relationship with your children, so that they look forward to ending the evening on a positive note.
  • You will learn how important it is to maintain a consistent structure and specific details to make that structure work effortlessly.
  • You also get a prescription on how to make sure that bath time, brushing teeth, and getting settled down for the evening can get built into a simple and predictably routine.
  • You will learn about the mistakes to avoid that will undermine your success, not only in the short term, but throughout the rest of their childhood.
  • You get a plan that is simple, easy to use, and most importantly, easy to maintain. It actually teaches your children to take responsibility for their evening routines, rather than you taking more and more responsibility, as they get older and older.

The reality is that you won’t find another product like this one. You can search the web, go through the books, and you won’t find a program that gives you a simple, easy to use, proven plan that will make the evening routines go smoothly.

If you are ready for the change, and you are willing to put energy into making things different, this plan will work for you! And guess what! If it doesn’t, just let me know, and I will refund your money.

That’s how much confidence I have in every product here at Terrific Parenting. If you purchase this product, and you master the components of the program, and then put it to use for thirty days, I am certain your home will be more peaceful, more consistent, and your children will be happier.

Now, if you would like your evening routines to go smoothly, and to get rid of those bedtime battles, click here to purchase Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles. Remember, you can purchase this NOW as a a downloadable ebook and MP3 audio program (which you can read and listen to immediately), and we will mail the program to you.

When you purchase this program it is possible that you could be making a difference in your home immediately, as you have the option of including a downloadable MP3 version of this program when you check out. In other words, within minutes, you can listen to the program and have the system in place by your child’s next bedtime.

When you purchase, you will know what to do, when to do it, and exactly how to do it. Nothing is left up in the air. You will know how to set up a system of bedtime success that makes life easier for you and easier for your kids.

“Why Get Frustrated, Lose Your Cool And Keep Battling With Your Kids Over Bedtime?”

  • Why struggle over such routine tasks, when you don’t have to?
  • Why battle over routines that have to be done every day?
  • Why surrender your happiness and peace over such routine tasks?
  • Why are you working harder at this than your kids are?

The bottom line is that you shouldn’t be. You don’t have to live with this. You can feel the difference in only days – if you use this program. You can get relief now! To BUY now, click on the box below. Enjoy freedom from bedtime battles!

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Dr. Cale, I’m Ready To End Bedtime
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  • I understand that if I use your professional, time proven step-by-step action plan, I will have a strategy to end all these useless battles at bedtime.
  • I understand that for only $17 I will be able to download immediately your life changing action plan that will teach me to get rid of bedtime battles in my home, and…
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PS: One final note to remember.

Your child’s last thoughts and emotions and memories of the day are what follow them to their dreams. When the bedtime routines are filled with struggle and fights, that frustration is the emotion that they ride to sleep upon.

You can avoid that will one simple decision. Download the program now, and try it tonight. You have nothing to lose (with my money back guarantee!). No risk to you.

PSS: In reality, it’s a simple decision.

If you are reading this, then you and I both know that bedtime routines are a problem, and the lack of a clear game plan at bedtime is disturbing your life…and the lives of your children. So…

Let me gently remind you:

  • There is no need to battle, argue and negotiate.
  • Your children can go to bed with only warm, loving memories of the day
  • You can go to bed without the frustration of the battles and negotiations
  • And…Your day can begin on time, with children well-rested and ready for life.

How Can It Possibly Be Worth Waiting Another Day, Surviving Another Night Of All That Misery…
When $123.95 $17 Will Bring You & Your Family Relief?
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Bedtime battles

Bedtime Battles To Bedtime Bliss

Do you find yourself wondering…

  • Do you find yourself dreading the bedtime routine?
  • Is the bedtime routine really more like bedtime chaos?
  • Is it a constant struggle and battle to get the children to bed on time?
  • Are the kids constantly whining and complaining when they know they have to go to bed?
  • Do you have struggles getting them away from the TV and off the computer, order or off the telephone?
  • Does everyone end up going to bed in a state of frustration and unhappiness?
  • Do you have trouble keeping the kids in their beds, healing after they go to bed?

siblings_dont_want_to_sleepIf you are struggling with any of these issues, then welcome to reality; there are many parents who do.  In fact, it’s one of the most common questions that I handle when making presentations to parents.

There’s a reason why this is such a difficult set of circumstances.  It is a situation where you have limited leverage with the kids and it requires a clear and concise plan in order to get the kids to bed easily and effortlessly.

There are some kids who don’t like to go to bed. They will fight you every step of the way.  And yet there are other kids who will go to bed without a single word.  It’s just the way it is.

What’s important is to understand that the kids who will fight you on going to bed require that you have a better plan than they do.  If they fight you, and you simply fight back, this is not a plan.  This is a battle!  And you don’t want to get in a battle every night before bedtime.

So what’ s the solution?  You have got to have a better plan.

The plan for an effective bedtime routine is probably one of the more complicated and demanding parenting plans that you’ll have to deal with.  It just takes more precision and clarity than do many circumstances.  Why?  Because you have relatively little leverage with the kids once it’s time for bed.

As a result, it becomes critically important to use the leverage that you do have, and to set up a program that gradually and consistently teaches the children that it makes sense to go to bed, rather than deal with the consequences.

Three Patterns You Must Avoid!

1. You must avoid verbal and physical battles over TV, toys, computer, phone, and video games.

If you’re engaging in battles with kids on a consistent basis over these items, this is a losing plan. We have to get you out of these battles.

You notice that the more you battle with the kids, the more you keep battling. If you win the battle tonight after 18 minutes of struggles and quarreling, you can bet that next month that battle will take you 22 minutes to win. It just keeps getting worse, if you keep engaging in the battle.

2. You must stop using threats that have no impact.

Many parents end up frustrated and out-of-control emotionally. When you are in reaction mode, you are likely to make some poor choices about what to say.

One of the most ineffective strategies is to start threatening to take away things. This won’t make a difference.

A sister version of the same ineffective strategy is to try to bribe the kids with something that they want – if they go to bed throughout the week. In other words, offering to buy them a new CD if they get to bed on time is not a long-term strategy that is going to work.

In general, it never works to try to purchase behavior. If you go down that path, you’ll always be trying to buy their behavior. The problem is that your pocketbook isn’t that deep. More problematic is the fact that you have gained no respect for your authority as a parent by buying behavior. Stay away. Stay away. Stay away from this!

3. You must not lose control emotionally.

When you lose it emotionally, you go into reaction mode. When you react, you yell. You scream. You threaten. You say ugly things.

You become emotionally charged, and your children become emotionally charged.

Can this possibly work to create a comfortable, loving, and peaceful way to move into a sleepful state? Of course not!

It takes your kids into the opposite direction that you want. It takes you into the opposite direction that you want. The more reactive you become, the more likely it is that you are feeding – and worsening – the very behavior that you are trying to correct.

As you become emotional and reactive, this energizes your children’s emotions. It makes it more likely that they are going to do battle. If you are successful in getting them to beds in this situation, it is more likely that their adrenaline is flowing, and that it is going to be harder to get to sleep. This then creates another layer of difficulties.

So what’s the solution? Here are the basics:

1. Get clear about your expectations.

mother_and_daughter_bedtimeWhat bedtime makes sense to you? What’s the routine leading up to bedtime? What daily structure and flow of events is going to make for an easy routine? It’s important to get clear about all of these things.

There are certain routines that are going to make the final bedtime process easier. These routines per se do not guarantee you success; they do, however, make it easier to get on the path toward success.

What would be a simple example of this? A very simple and straightforward example would be that many kids often put up a battle when it is time to take their bath and get on their P.J.’s right before bed. (Again, remember my comment from earlier in this article. You don’t have much leverage, if you have waited until 8:15 p.m. and their bedtime is 9:00 p.m.) Turn this around.

As soon as dinner is over, make sure the kids are off to do their bath, get their P.J.’s on and get ready for bed – before any watching TV or playing with games or toys.

This simple notion of making sure that they have completed their preparations for bed, before you allow an opportunity to play, is a key ingredient. It’s one of the essential tools that give you a clue to the underlying principal that I often talk about in my workshops and in my program materials.

When we study kids who are successful, and who move through life with relative ease, we find that a simple pattern is easily observed.

The pattern?

Parents have taught their kids to take care of work and responsibilities, before play and down time. This simple pattern begins to emerge in the morning routine, the afternoon routine, and the evening routine. It’s evident in the way the kids get up in the morning and take care of responsibilities. It’s evident in the afternoon when they do their homework and a few chores before they play. It also shows up at bedtime, in completing responsibilities before there is an opportunity to play and have down time.

While this is not the only ingredient to a successful plan, it is a critical component. Do not ignore the importance of this, if you are struggling with bedtime routines.

In the “Bedtime Battles to Bedtime Bliss” CD program, you’ll find more details in a precise methodology for establishing a structure. In particular, I’ll spend a great deal of time on the following:

2. Controlling the Environment Rather Than Controlling Kids

The essential theme of effective parenting centers around how you teach children. We just don’t control kids. If we did have control, there would be no need for these materials. There would be no need for parenting books or programs. It would be more like having a well trained dog rather than a child. But this is not reality. We don’t have control, but we do have influence. The way in which we have the most influence is by learning how to master control of our environment – so kids can learn from their choices.

To move children from “Bedtime Battles to Bedtime Bliss” you’ll find that kids can learn from environmental consequences. Kids do not learn from words and lectures. Kids do not learn from threats and yelling. Kids do not learn from bribes and pleading. Kids don’t learn when you nag and remind and bug them to death.

When you exhibit those kinds of behaviors, kids just become more dependent upon you – rather than independent – in these routines. The goal is to create children who are independent in getting these things done.

boy_having_a_good_sleepIt is essential to understand how you begin to gain control of the environment, so that you don’t try to control your kids, but rather you teach your kids as a result of the choices they make. Depending on your household, there are a number of ways in which you can begin to implement environmental changes, to help teach a particular bedtime routine.

The first part of that is by using simple changes in the structure, where you require kids to take care of their bath and shower and get their P.J.’s on before they sit down to watch a video or play a game with you. The second way you do that is by establishing clear limits by controlling the environment when they go over those limits.

If it’s 7:35 p.m., and bedtime is at 7:30 p.m. what do you do? The kids are still watching TV, and it’s now 7:40, what do you do? If you don’t want to battle with the kids, how can you begin to influence the environment, rather than try to control your child? If your child is now 10 years old, and you can no longer pick him up and carry him into the bedroom, how can you teach this limit?

I keep asking these questions to have you generate some ideas on your own. Let me give you a strong clue about this, however:

  • If your kids are watching TV and it’s past their bedtime, do you try to get them to turn off the TV or do you simply cut off the TV? You turn it off.
  • If your kids are playing with their toys, and it’s 15 minutes past their bedtime, do you ask them to put the toys away or do you take the toys? You take the toys.
  • If your teenager is on the phone at 9:30 p.m., and you’ve already informed her that there is no phone time after 9:00 o’clock, do you ask her to get off the phone, or do you disconnect the phone? You disconnect the phone.

These are the ways in which you begin to take control of your environment, in order to teach kids what the limit is on their behavior. For bedtime issues, you will state that the limit is based on a particular time. And you inform your children that you want them in their beds when that time arrives. It is that simple.

When trying to establish a limit on behavior, you must use consequences, and consequences come from controlling your environment.

On the Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles CD Program, I walk you through a detailed set of consequences for every kind of circumstance. If this is a significant struggle for you, this article will give you a sense of where you begin. However, the CD Program will offer you the full details.

I invite you to begin to consider the power of this concept. You teach limits – not by trying to control kids, but by controlling the environment that surrounds them. This is a core principal around which all effective parenting strategies work. It is built into every program that I offer, including the Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles CD program. To have a full appreciation for how this concept is applied when dealing with bedtime routines, I encourage you to check out the program.

As always, your satisfaction is guaranteed with any program you purchase through Terrific Parenting.com

bedtime_battles_linkWhether or not you Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles or not, it is an absolute must to remember that a learning process takes time. Your kids will be unhappy when you begin to make changes. They may sit around and whine and complain a bit. They may stomp their feet and jump up and down. They may not be happy when you take away their toys, or cut off the TV, or shut down the phone in the middle of a conversation. That’s okay.

Allow them to have their upset. Allow them to be frustrated or annoyed with you. Allow them to be unhappy about it. Allow them to go through a period of time when they fight you on this. BUT: you consistently demonstrate that you are willing to cease exquisite and complete control over your environment, while not attempting to control their reaction to it.

As you go through this process, it may take one or two weeks before things begin to smooth out. Expect a bit of a rocky road. As that rocky road begins to unfold however, there is a third essential component to keep in the forefront of your mind:

3. Start Investing in What You Want, Not What You Don’t Want.

If you are struggling with bedtime routines, notice how the “unwanted” behavior keeps sucking you in. You keep getting pulled into it, to argue, negotiate, nag, remind, bribe, plead, and, ultimately, end up screaming at it. You just keep investing more and more of your energy in what you don’t want, and expecting it to go away.

It doesn’t work that way. Instead, you have to allow for the whining, you have to allow for the unhappiness. You have to allow for the complaining, and not try to force it to go away. [Remember, you still have control over the environment. You just surrendered trying to control your child’s response to your choices as a parent.] Under this approach, you allow for all that unhappiness, whining, and complaining, or yelling at you because you cut off the TV or took away their toys. Allow for that, and give it no energy.

On the other hand, as you wait for something positive to happen, be ever so vigilant to “catch it” as soon as it shows up. As soon as you see a healthy choice, such as movement toward the bedroom, reengage with your kids.

When they are putting on their PJ’s, pop in and give them thumbs up. When they jump into the bathtub without an argument, give them a smile or talk to them for a minute or two. Even if they just spent 15 minutes stomping their feet and complaining about going to bed, reengage with them, as if nothing happened, once they climb into bed. (Of course if they are nasty with you, I would then disengage again.)

The bottom line: You can’t create a healthy bedtime routine by putting all of your energy into the bedtime battles. Instead, you must become more of a master of your own behavior, so that you don’t lose control and put your energy into the battles. In addition, you have to become a master of the environment and understand how to use structure in order to get some leverage over their behavior. While I have touched upon on it in this article, there are several other important components of this that give you significantly greater leverage. These are covered on the Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles CD program.

You will have to find ways to make sure that you are not investing your energy in what you don’t want, while, at the same time, gaining tools to enhance your control over the environment, rather than your children.

In my experience, these simple ideas almost always work. Did I say always? Yes, they almost always work.

Are some situations more difficult and challenging? Of course. If you find yourself in one of those situations, consider the “Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles” CD program. In that program you’ll learn the following:

  • The mindset needed to make the program work
  • At least three ways to establish simple structure in the bedtime routine
  • Precisely what to do when kids ignore your request to go to bed
  • A list of consequences that begin to make an impact over a one-or-two-week period of time
  • Ways to deal with kids who come into your bedroom at night
  • Ways to deal with kids who become irritable and grumpy at bedtime
  • What to do when kids don’t seem to need much sleep
  • 12 ways to gain control of the environment, rather than controlling kids
  • How to end the evening on a positive and pleasant note
  • How to work with younger kids and take advantage of their desire to connect before bedtime
  • And much more…

bedtime_battles_boxThis program is available in a CD format, or in a downloadable file (in other words, you can get this program in your hands right now!). While simple and straightforward, the program is loaded with details to cover every possible scenario. You’ll find a way to make the evening routines easier, or enjoyable, and perhaps most importantly automatic.

That’s really the key! It’s about creating routines that are automatic and do not require ongoing negotiation, and reminding, and management by parents.

For many parents, the bedtime battle issue is one that is constantly stripping away their joy and happiness. It often leads to a miserable ending to an otherwise pleasant day.

What is it worth to you? What is it worth to you to have these routines move smoothing and peacefully?

I know what parents tell me. Parents tell me that the relief they feel, makes it easier to come home at night.

  • They tell me that it’s fun to be with their kids again.
  • They tell me that, “It’s like I have a whole new family.”
  • They tell me, “The kids sleep better. I sleep better.”
  • They relate, “It’s easier to enjoy my children again.”
  • They also say, “The kids wake up refreshed and ready for school. Our life is better.”

They also say, “The kids wake up refreshed and ready for school. Our life is better.”

If you want to start improving a chaotic bedtime situation right now, get started with these principals right away. If you want the full program, consider the “Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles” program. You can order the CD, and you can listen to it at your pleasure, in your car or your home. Another option is to download this information immediately in a MP3 file, so you can begin today.

  • What if you could have a fraction of the struggles you now have?
  • What if your kids went to bed without a battle?
  • How much calmer would you sleep if you could end your days in a positive way with the kids?
  • How much better could your kids perform if they went to bed on time – without a struggle?
  • What if your evenings could be filled with ease and joy?
  • What would those changes be worth?

For an investment of 30 days of changing your approach, you can have these changes in your home. I encourage you to put these principals to use right away and to order the program Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles so you can have all the specifics of a comprehensive plan.

Allowances & Teaching Responsibility About Money

Teaching Kids About Money

How can you teach your children to handle money responsibly?

How do you make sure you don’t end up trying to buy good behavior?

What are the strategies that effective parents use to teach their kids about money?

What are the best approaches that you can use to teach your kids about saving their money?

Most of the following suggestions come from families that have developed a successful approach to dealing with money. The recommendations are simple but remarkably effective.

1. Don’t confuse allowance with payments for behavior.

It’s a mistake to pay children for completing their basic responsibilities around the house. If you use allowance as a tool to purchase behavior, thumb you’re always going to be buying compliance. Your kids will never really learn the behavior; what you’re purchasing is the appearance of responsible behavior. Bought behavior doesn’t carry over into the future — it disappears when the money does.Children’s allowance should not be contingent on any actions or behaviors on their part. Give them an allowance because you love them. There are other, pills more powerful ways to nurture and change behavior.

Key Concept:

  • If you pay for good behavior..
  • If you pay for compliance…
  • If you pay for calm Dr’s appointments…
  • If you pay for basic responsibilities…
  • If you bribe for respect and patience…

…your kids will always own you and your pocketbook. So Don’t Do IT!

2. Commit to a reasonable allowance…because you love them!

Decide on a reasonable amount of spending money for your children, online including money for treats that you might typically buy them. For example, if you usually buy popcorn for them when you’re getting gas, include that in their allowance. As they get older, include their lunch money and some extra spending money in their allowance.Begin early to allow children to experience the consequences of good judgment and poor judgment in their use of money. The earlier you can do this, the better. Decisions about spending are a daily part of most people’s lives. The sooner kids learn to take responsibility for these kinds of choices, the more skillfully they’ll handle their money.

3. Open a checking account for your child.

When your children first start learning how to add and subtract, consider opening a checking account for them. Instead of handing them cash, deposit their allowance in the account. When they want to buy something, they can write a check. If they want to have some spending money, you can take them to the bank to cash a check or use the ATM.A checking account is a highly effective way to teach children to work within limits. Set aside time to help them balance their checkbook and discuss how they might spend their resources. They can also learn how to gain access to their account online.

4. Open a savings account for your child.

When your children are in second or third grade, open a savings account in their name. Sit down and show them “the miracle of compounding interest.” Show them how easy it will be, if they start saving when they’re young, to have abundant resources when they reach the middle stages of their life. As an incentive, tell them that you’ll match every dollar they put in their savings account. Show them the power of saving over the next 10, 20, 30, and even 40 years.

5. Eliminate impulse buying in your children’s presence.

When you model a willingness to buy impulsively, you’re teaching your children to do the same. If you want them to make purchases with forethought and consideration about the importance of the purchase, model this. Your kids are always learning, and you’re the primary teacher.

6. Read the book Rich Dad, Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money by Robert T. Kiyosaki.

This book—a sequel to Kiyosaki’s bestseller Rich Dad, Poor Dad is an excellent primer on the subject. Teaching children about money is essentially the same as teaching them about any other subject. However, many adults don’t have a good understanding of how to manage their own resources, so they can’t teach their children. If you’re unsure in this area, I hope you’ll consider the recommendations above, and I encourage you to read Kiyosaki’s excellent books.

Kids Not Picking Up After Themselves

“Why Continue To Yell, Nag, Scream And Battle Everyday Over The Same Old Thing… When Your Kids Won’t
Pick Up Their Stuff?”

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“You Can Revolutionize Your Home When You Learn Dr. Cale’s Guaranteed 7-Step Program That Is Proven To Teach Your Kids To Keep Their Rooms Clean And Organized.”

 

Dear Parent,

Okay, let’s be honest. The kids get off the bus. They leave their backpack in the hallway. They leave their shoes in the living room, and within minutes the kitchen looks like a cyclone went through it.

You just spent 3 hours cleaning their rooms, and already, you can’t find the bed. Their room looks like animals could be living in there…and all that happened in just days.

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You have talked with them about being responsible. You beg the kids. You nag them. You plead with them. You argue with them. You remind them.

You talk to them about…

how important it is to take care of their stuff. You talk about how exhausted you are and how unfair it is for you to keep cleaning up their stuff.

You have threatened to throw it away. You may have even thrown some of it away. Nothing seems to work! 

Everyday, you feel like you have to prepare for a battle. You find your peace of mind is stolen by the socks on the floor, and the dishes on the sofa.

The constant battles take a toll on you. It’s just plain exhausting! Your joy…your happiness…and even your daily satisfaction is constantly squashed by the relentless mess that follows the kids wherever they go.

Will They Ever Get It?

And then there’s the worry about the future. “Will they ever get it? I mean…really…how many times do you have to remind them? They aren’t stupid kids! So…what’s the problem here?”

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And just how much of your time and precious energy is wasted on the incessant effort you keep putting into their mess. What could you be doing with that extra time…if they just learned to be responsible for their STUFF? A whole world of opportunity is sitting in front of you…if you had that time…time that has been stolen from you…time to invest in what you really value and care about. It could also be time to take care of yourself because you deserve the chance to rejuvenate yourself!

Would it be an extra hour…maybe more…each day? And what would your peace of mind be worth…if your kids were easily and naturally taking care of the stuff?

I don’t really know…but I do know that most parents who put my 7-step program into place report that life gets easier, and they seem to experience more time to do what they find important. It’s a good feeling!

On the other hand, it’s not necessary to change this at all. You could keep wasting this time every day. You could keep nagging and battling…and live in that energy robbing state of mind. You could relentlessly decide to pick up after them…and notice that they become more dependent upon you…rather than independent and ready for life.

Bottom Line: You need a plan to teach kids how to take care of their stuff. Not just any plan…but a plan that has a proven track record. My program is based upon principles of behavior management, and also combines recent findings from the neurosciences. When this technology is combined with over 15 years of clinical experience, the formula is one that cannot fail. Here’s what a few of my customers have to say:

 “The Clean Rooms Product is amazing. It has changed my home so you can now walk through it without tripping.”
Maria, Mom from Albany, NY
“What a difference the Clean Rooms Product has made! My kids pick up everything on their own, and I don’t have to nag them. It’s so simple…But it’s a miracle.”
Karen, participant at Parenting Seminar

Why Won’t My Kids Just Pick Up Their Stuff?

Over the last twenty years, I have worked with thousands of families. In my work with parents, I heard one very common complaint: “My kids just won’t pick up their stuff.”

When I examined the literature, it was hard to find a specific plan to teach kids to be responsible. It became quite frustrating because I couldn’t help my clients.

But I knew there had to be a solution to this common problem. So I resolved to find a solution.

I Discovered The
“Clean Rooms Made Easy” Formula

During that time, I began to integrate findings from behavioral psychology and neuropsychological research into my quest for a solution. I worked closely with many families, as I developed this program. Fortunately, I was able to test these ideas, and refine my approach with each family that I have worked with.

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The result: “The Clean Rooms Made Easy Program.” I found a solution that is remarkably simple, and you get results in less than two weeks.

That’s right…. two weeks! If you decide to buy this program, you can absorb the details in less than an hour. By the end of the day, you can set this plan into action, and your kids will start learning before they go to bed tonight.

The formula is really a system of teaching responsibility. Your children will learn to pick up after themselves, and help out around the house because the system will make it easy for them to learn these skills.

You will stop yelling, nagging, prodding and negotiating! Because the “Clean Rooms Made Easy” formula teaches you how to do this quickly. In fact, you will be working the system within minutes of downloading this package!

How can I know that this plan will work for your kids? In one sense, I don’t. Because…I don’t know how closely you can follow the plan.

However, if you do follow the plan, the actions you put into place virtually guarantee that your kids have to learn to take care of their stuff. They will learn to pick up in their room, as well as to pick up around the house. They will take more responsibility for their own stuff.

In fact, within weeks, you will play a small role in keeping their rooms clean. They will get it!

What’s required on your part?

  • Buy the program and actually listen to it. If you download the written booklet, read it carefully.
  • Put the plan in place exactly as I describe it to you.
  • Be consistent in following through with the plan (which will take about ten minutes of your time)
  • Do not deviate from the specific guidelines, as the details have been worked out to ensure that kids always learn!

I don’t know how much it is worth to you to never have to pick up after your kids again. Maybe it’s not a big deal.

For many parents however, it is a big deal! 

For the most part, it is my belief that kids should be responsible for their stuff. They need to learn to take care of their stuff, put it away and keep it relatively well organized.

This program teaches your kids how to clean up their stuff…without you constantly nagging and battling with them. Follow my unique program, and your kids will take care of their clothes, pick up their toys, and keep their personal stuff put away. Guaranteed! No arguments. No battles.

 “The Clean Rooms Product has changed my life. I can’t believe how quickly my kids learned from this program.”
Kristen former client from Clifton Park, NY

“My friend told me about the Clean Rooms Product. I bought it and put it to use the same day. It’s the best guidance I have ever got on how to parent and a way to make my life easier. It’s been a huge relief to me.”
Karen, participant at Parenting Seminar

You will never know if the Clean Rooms Made Easy is all that I say that it is…unless you try. I encourage you to buy this program now, and find out for yourself. You can keep going through this daily misery, or you can teach your kids to be responsible!

If you do purchase this life changing program, you must first absorb the program, and set the action plan into place. There will then be a learning process…both for you and for the kids.

You must…if you want this to work…allow for that learning to happen. You begin to see changes in a few days…and gradually things improve over the next week to two weeks. Usually life is on track in 2-3 weeks, although rarely…it can take 4 or 5 weeks for a difficult adolescent. But it always works!

Either way…you are not at risk! If life around your house isn’t easier, and the kids aren’t more responsible within thirty days, and you aren’t happy…send it back.


The Goal Is The Kids Are Regularly And Consistently Take Responsibility For Picking Up Their Stuff. They Clean Up After Themselves And Put Their Stuff Away. That’s What The Clean Rooms Made Easy Does.


By the way, does that mean that the kids will like what you are doing? Probably not. In fact, there might be a few days when they are upset and angry with you.

That’s okay. As I discuss on the program, I walk you through all the potential challenges you may encounter. Every possible challenge is addressed on “The Clean Rooms Made Easy.”

Remember:

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  • Your life can be easier.
  • You can get along better.
  • You can end the nagging, pushing and prodding and yelling.
  • Hours of future struggles can be eliminated.
  • Your kids can learn to be more responsible.
  • Your home can be cleaner and better organized.
  • There can be more time for what’s really important.

All of this is yours for less than the cost of a single session of therapy. In fact, if you were to consult with me, it would take 2-3 sessions to cover this material and cost $450 or more.

Yet, in this in highly focused program, you get my proven formula delivered for less than the price of single session of consultation with me.

In the Clean Rooms Made Easy program, I provide you with a complete solution to your messy room problems. For less than the cost of your cable bill, you can transform your home to clean and clutter-free! Wouldn’t it be wonderful to just relax about this?

Here’s What You Get In The
Clean Rooms Made Easy Package

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In the Clean Rooms Made Easy Package, you get a downloadble ebook which you can read right away. You also get my Clean Rooms Made Easy mp3 audio program, which you can listen to immediately.

Let me break the package down for you:

Immediate MP3 Download of the Clean Rooms Made Easy Audio Program (Value $47)

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First, you get the Clean Rooms Made Easy program audio download. This is an MP3 audio program, you can listen to immediately. Within minutes from now, you can be learning from the complete audio program. Dr Cale provides the comprehensive training in an MP3 download that you can instantly load onto your computer or your MP3 player/Ipod.

Did I mention this? With this instant access, you can easily listen to the program within the next hour. Okay, I am emphasizing this again because this program is designed to solve one problem, and to solve that messy room problem very, very quickly. By tomorrow morning, you will be ready to put this program to the test in your home!

“Of all the programs I have created, this program is unique for two reasons. First, the Clean Rooms Made Easy relies on an unusual combination of small changes in your parenting. This combination brings about a rapid change in your child or teenagers clean up habits.”

“Secondly, I find that many programs require a firm resolve. For the program, most parents actually enjoy implementing the program. If you take the plunge, and try out this program, you will quickly discover why this is actually a bit of fun.”

“Almost magic! That’s what parents say about this simple to use game plan, that virtually guarantees a clean room automatically!”

Dr Randy Cale

Clean Rooms Made Easy Parent Manual PDF Instant Download (Value $47)

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This is your manual your guide (so to speak) to almost effortlessly have the kids clean up your room. This downloaded manual will take you through a step-by-step process that you can read in under an hour.

So…not only do you get the audio program to listen to, but you also get immediate access to the Clean Rooms Made Easy parent manual. This manual is your guide to ending all of those battles over picking up and putting away. Finally, a real answer to a real problem that works!

For some of us, we learn better by listening. For others, it’s better to read. And yet for most of us, we do better when we can both listen, and read the information.

That’s why I have included both the audio MP3 program for you to listen to, and the instant download manual for you to read if you want. They both included, and you get them instantly.

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Can you argue that you should get cheap on this? I doubt it. So why not buy this program now…and if you do…you get a truly remarkable guarantee.

There is no risk here. Buy this program, follow the guidelines, and see if it works for you. If you are not satisfied, send it back. You will get your money back.

  • How many battles could you live without?
  • How many times could you enjoy not picking up the toys?
  • How much more opportunity for laughter and enjoyment could your family have if you weren’t engaged in these constant conflicts over picking up their stuff?

Only you can answer those questions and decide for yourself. You will find that Clean Rooms Made Easy program is a simple proven formula that will work for you.

To purchase this amazing, life-changing program, click on the blue link below. It will take you to a secure order form, where you will safely put your personal information. When complete, you will soon have a solution to bring the chaos into predictable organization. So click below now!

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cleaningBy the way, does that mean that the kids will like what you are doing? Probably not. In fact, there might be a few days when they are upset and angry with you.

That’s okay. As I discuss on the program, I walk you through all the potential challenges you may encounter. Every possible challenge is addressed on Clean Rooms Made Easy program.

Remember: 

  • Your life can be easier.
  • You can get along better.
  • You can end the nagging, pushing and prodding and yelling.
  • Hours of future struggles can be eliminated.
  • Your kids can learn to be more responsible.
  • Your home can be cleaner and better organized.
  • There can be more time for what’s really important.

All of this is yours for under fifty dollars. Remember, there is no risk here. Buy this program, follow the guidelines, and see if it works for you. If you are not satisfied, send it back. You will get your money back.

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Fun Summer With Kids

Family on bikes outdoors smilingWell, viagra it’s summertime and we are all trying to relax, get outside a bit more, and have fun whether we are vacationing or just at home with the kids.

While we all tend to think “fun” when summer arrives, studies suggest that this is a particularly demanding time for parents.

While many of us have children who seem to get along well, and are generally responsible, they all have their moments. Day in…and day out…it can be nerve wracking!

What happens is that the more time we have with kids, the more opportunity for any weakness in our parenting to reveal itself! As the stress is added, many (not all) of us fall into patterns of nagging, demanding, prodding, yelling…and just plain, old…losing it and going ballistic.

It ain’t pretty!

So “summer fun” can really turn into … “I am so done…with summer fun!”

But wait! There is hope!

Most of the problems, whether relatively minor or … even if fairly major, are solvable. Y ou just have to make sure you get a game plan that takes your focus off of the futile attempts to “control” kids during the summer fun time … to the successful “Terrific Parenting” approaches where you “teach” kids to listen, be responsible, and get along. The tools are all here, and I have seen hundreds of parents master the essential summer “tricks.”

It can be done. Part of your secret for real summer fun with the family … is to rely upon structure to bring sanity to daily life … at home or on the road (at Disney, the Waterpark, or camping).

I also just finished a new article on summer routines and summer structure.  You can read it here:  Summer Routines Article

To a great summer!

Randy L. Cale, PhD

Licensed Psychologist

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