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Child Behaviour Problems

Picky Eating

“End Daily Battles Over Food, Stop Serving ‘Special’ Meals Every Day, And Relieve Your Worries Over Your Child’s Health!”

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“The Easy to Follow, Step-By-Step Action Plan To Transform Your Picky Eater
Into A Healthy Eater”

Dear Worried Parent,

Are you tired of losing sleep? Do the worries over your child’s eating? Are you frustrated from cooking special meals every day? Are you just playing exhausted from battles over food? If so, then you will want to read every word of this article. Look, I have been helping parents who are just plain worried sick over their child’s picky eating habits, and the potential health problems that come with it.

Most of these hard-working, exhausted parents struggle, plead, cry and sometimes fight and even scream out loud because their child refuses to eat good, healthy food! It’s enough to make you crazy!

As a Licensed Psychologist working with families for 23 years, I accidentally discovered that there is one UNIQUE STRATEGY that Mom and Dad must master TO QUICKLY ELIMINATE THOSE STRUGGLES AND BATTLES OVER FOOD FROM YOUR HOME.

If you give me the chance, I will show you how to:

check Never have a battle over food…
check Forever end cooking separate meals for your children…
check Make certain that they eat healthy food consistently…
check Get rid of tantrums, crying and all upsets over food…
check Hang up your ’short-order cook’ hat for good…
check End All Your Worries over their unhealthy eating forever!
Even if – you’ve unsuccessfully tried other approaches that worked for a while and then stopped.
Even if – your child’s picky eating is so bad they will refuse to eat at all.
Even if – your son or daughter is unusually strong-willed, stubborn or even diagnosed with some other condition.

This approach has been tested and proven with hundreds and hundreds of children, with all variations of picky eating – from only wanting to eat junk food to not eating much at all.

kidseatinghealthyfoods“Dr Cale,
I attended one of your workshops for parents, and spoke with you about my picky eating child. You gave it to me straight, and it became clear that I needed to do something different.

I ordered your program, and…just as you promised…it was 3 or 4 very tough days… followed by a rapid change to more normal meals.

Within two weeks, the kids were eating typical foods for 5 and 7. Thanks a million! Please tell everyone that it’s worth its weight in gold!”

— Paula, mother of 2 (Manhattan)

Dear Mom or Dad,

Are you ready to pull your hair out because you are fed up with fixing special meals? Are you worried that your child doesn’t eat healthy? My daughter weighed 42 pounds

The common advice doesn’t seem to work, with YOUR CHILD… and you wonder why? You have tried everything (you think). You have negotiated. You have been kind. You have tried to talk it out. You have tried being firm. You have gotten angry. You have gotten frustrated, and you have done the time-out thing! It’s really frustrating… right!

And You Wonder If Something Is Wrong
With Your Son Or Your Daughter?

But guess what. There is nothing wrong with anyone here. When I first started helping other parents who had children who would refuse to eat healthy, I just followed the traditional ways I had learned and used myself. Sometimes this strategy worked, and sometimes it didn’t. Then I tried other approaches I had been taught in graduate school, and again…it was hit or miss… especially with certain children.

Then, I Discovered The Key! It Was Like
A Hidden Secret Ingredient That Made Everything Come Together

I would like to claim some genius ability in pulling this out of all my research and experience, but that is not the case. I really just discovered this solution because I worked with so many families who were struggling, and I had so many chances to learn the ONE ESSENTIAL CHANGE that every parent must make to end fussy eating… regardless of whether your child is 3 or 13!

pickyeaterThis may surprise you: The truth is that most of what causes fussy eating to get worse is the misleading, and inaccurate advice you are given, in magazines, books and yes… even your pediatrician’s office. When you discover how easily you can change these eating habits. You just may want to write a few letters of your own!

Okay, I did say “How easily you can change your child’s eating habits.” Didn’t I? Well, compared to another tantrum over dinner, or another “special meal” you have to make, or any more missed vegetables… this easy to follow, step-by-step action plan will be a walk in the park. Yet, I don’t want to deceive you here… there will be a few tough days ahead… and for a select few of you, you may have a week or so where you have to stick firmly to the action plan.

But the learning is quick, and the change become immediately noticed. Even with the most stubborn and oppositional kids. My system works, and it works quickly. I guarantee it.

 

First, Let Me Tell You What My Easy-to-Use Action Plan is NOT

  • It does not require any new gadgets, or the idea of a magical tool.
  • It is not some ordinary advice, this works with every child and every personality.
  • It does not require long hours of sessions and counseling.
  • It does not cost a fortune. Not just being the greatest solution for picky eating ever, it’s also the cheapest, costing much less than your lunch out with the family.

Picky Eating Is Not Just A Phase

Important Point: Most Kids Don’t Grow Out Of It.

healthy_cute_girlDo you realize that your child’s picky eating can lead to developmental problems? Or even unhealthy eating habits that can follow them into adolescence and even adulthood?

You have every right to be concerned. Children begin developing their lifelong eating habits at a young age, and it is up to you to make sure you have to tools to stop their picky eating in it’s tracks before it becomes a bigger, more stressful problem.

I’m sure you have heard, “don’t worry, they will grow out of it” or “it’s just a phase”. But this is not something you should take lightly. Your child is growing and developing right now and it is up to you to make sure they eat what you fix for them – instead of just the same thing every day.

I know every parent wants the best for their child, but waiting for them to grow out of it is not an option unless you are willing to risk your child developing unhealthy eating habits or just simply not developing properly.

You Are Not Alone… Because Picky Eating
Has Almost Become An Epidemic

I see it more and more, parents are concerned about their children eating healthy, as they should be. I have worked with thousands of families, guiding them with tools that transform children and create healthier, happier lives.

I see more and more families struggling with not just one, but two or three kids who are very picky eaters.

Like you, these parents want their children to eat healthy. In their efforts to make sure that their children eat, parents give in to demands, tantrums, and stubbornness around picky eating.

Sometimes that means parents just walk away. Sometimes there are arguments over eating habits. Often it means that Mom or Dad becomes the family “short-order cook.” Regardless, the result is a growing trend of children who are becoming picky eaters.

Picky Eating Has Grown Out Of Control Because Well – Intentioned Parents (Just Like You) Have Been Given Bad, Unhealthy Information

Is Your Child A Picky Eater?

Take my quiz to find out if your child really is a picky eater…

  • Has your child ever thanklessly pushed away their plate and said, “I don’t like that” without even trying it?
  • Has your child ever pushed away a healthy meal you thought they would enjoy only to ask for something else less healthy?
  • Do you worry that your child isn’t getting the proper nutrition that they need?
  • Do you worry that your child is developing bad eating habits?
  • Are you concerned that your child only wants to eat chicken nuggets, or mac and cheese, or PB & J sandwiches or their favorite food for every meal?

dr_cale_parents_pschologistIf you answered “Yes” to any of these questions, then you have a picky eater on your hands.

Hi, my name is Dr. Randy Cale and for the past 23 years I have helped thousands of parents, just like you master and overcome the daily struggles that all parents face.

My passion to help parents by using practical, real life strategies that gets real results has lead me to be featured in the Wall Street Journal, on NBC and on Fox News— just to name a few.

I am often referred to as “The Parent’s Psychologist” by pediatricians, teachers and the media… as well as the parents I work with. The reason for this is the fact that I focus (well… let’s call it an obsession) on helping parents master the skills to get you through the daily struggles and challenges we all face.

Why You Should Trust Me To
Help Your Picky Eater

I developed the Help Your Picky Eater formula after I kept running into a ‘brick wall’ with my families who had picky eaters. Over and over, I heard the same struggles, and to be honest…I had lived with a picky eater and I knew these battles personally.

4But in the spirit of openness, let me be clear. I really stumbled upon this formula after seeing how the common advice we get from magazines, books and even the pediatrician fails us…over and over. You have been led down the wrong path. How do I know? Because…the battles just get worse. The worries over health just become more intense. The negotiating just feels more and more ‘wrong.’

And it is…WRONG. It’s wrong that you have been so misled by the news media, and by the popular press about how to handle this. I know this now…because when you are doing things ‘right’— your picky eater will begin eating healthier in just days… and most of your battles and struggles will be over in less than 21 days. From that point forward… smooth sailing. (I guaranteed it…or you get your money back! More about this later.)

Imagine… just two weeks from now… being able to plan your meals with complete peace of mind, as you have surrendered all worry about picky appetites and fussy eaters…

If you’d like to end those useless battles over food, bring peace to your mealtime and have a normal conversation (without mention of food), then this might be the most important letter you’ll ever read.

And Here’s why:

I know you may be skeptical, In fact, I would hope that you are a bit reluctant to believe everything you read here… because I know my results may be hard to believe.

But the ‘Help Your Picky Eater’ is a no-nonsense approach to attacking these daily struggles head-on. You get a specific, step-by-step guide that tells you exactly what to do and what to say. No detail is left out.

There will be no more begging, pleading and negotiating over food when you complete my ‘Help Your Picky Eater’ guide. It’s been proven time and time again. And the best part is you can rest easy knowing that your child will eat exactly what you prepare for them.. without any fighting or complaining.

It’s Time To Get Control Of Your Picky Eater, and Teach Them How To Eat Healthy
(Without Battles & Struggles)!

I feel certain that you want your children eating healthy, and that it’s likely that you have had many conversations about good eating habits and children.

You just need real-life practical strategies and tactics that will guide you step-by-step to discovering the road to ending healthy eating once and for all.

You can turn that picky eater into a healthy eater, with this powerful information aimed at transforming those picky eating habits. Here’s a proven formula that is remarkably easy to implement.

And, unlike the psychobabble you read elsewhere… there’s nothing for you to figure out. You know exactly what to do and when to do it.

I have created a step-by-step guide that has successfully worked with hundreds of families struggling with mealtime battles. This step-by-step guide has been refined with years of clinical experience, and walks you through a simple, but remarkably effective process that you can start today!

If You Have A Picky Eater You Need This Step-by-Step Guide Because?

1. First, I don’t waste your time on theory and conjecture. There is no deep psychobabble explanation of every little step. I keep it simple.
2. Secondly, while I do strive to give you a sense of how things can turn bad at mealtimes. My focus to keep it practical and “user-friendly”.
3. Thirdly, I outline the core mistakes you simply can’t afford to make if you are to get this problem under control. I reveal why most books do not discuss these secrets, and teach you how to avoid those mistakes that can make or break your child’s eating habits.
4. Fourthly, you get a proven formula to get your kids on track to healthy eating. With each step of the step-by-step guide, I will walk you through what you need to do, when to do it, and what to say to your kids.

When It Comes To Picky Eating…
Less Talk Leads To More Action
(Healthier Eating)

In many ways, it’s about the old saying, “less is more.” In other words, when it comes to eating problems with kids, you must become parents of action… not parents of words.

Now the secret is not random or punitive action… it’s action that actually teaches your kids what you want them to learn. In the ‘Help Your Picky Eater’ step-by-step guide, you will discover precisely what actions will predictably teach what you want your kids to learn… that’s how to eat healthy!

Now, I know you’re probably skeptical. That’s normal and beneficial. Let me give you three good reasons why you should keep reading, and consider my step-by-step guide carefully.

Three Reasons You Know My ‘Help Your Picky Eater’ Step-by-Step Guide Is What You Need Right Now…

1. As a Licensed Psychologist and parenting expert, I have helped hundreds of families with picky eaters. Where other approaches have failed, this system works… time and time again!
2. My approach is based upon the proven principles found in the neurosciences research and the literature on behavior management. Why is this important? Because it’s not just some other theory. You can put this strategy to use with the confidence of years of accumulated research and clinical experience.
3. There is nothing wrong with your kids. There is a problem with their habits…but there is nothing wrong with your child. I am not suggesting that the current situation is healthy; but it is fixable… and you do want your children to change their habits, don’t you?

My ‘Help Your Picky Eater’ Step-by-Step Guide Gives You

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You can raise fit, healthy children that will grow into fit and healthy adults.
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You are not going to waste your time and energy.
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You can get started right away… without days or weeks to read a book.
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You begin to get results in a few days… not weeks.
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You won’t have to continue to worry if your child is growing and developing properly.
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You can have peace of mind that you child isn’t developing unhealthy eating habits.

Parents Are Constantly Sending Letters And Emails Praising The Help Your Picky Eater Step-by-Step Guide

Parents that have used my step-by-step guide find that their home life is much more relaxing. Just read a few of these letters and see for yourself:

“Dr Cale,

My daughter weighed 42 pounds. She was eleven years old. She was the ultimate picky eater.

To be honest, I wasn’t sleeping at night. I was worried sick and seeking therapy for myself…I was a nervous wreck.

I then found Dr Cale. After following the advice in Cure Your Picky Eater, my daughter put on ten pounds within the next thirty days, and picky eating was a thing of the past.

This program saved my child, and our home returned to normal…Thank you Dr Cale!”

— Jennifer’s Mom (Delmar, NY)

“Dr Cale,

I used to fix three meals every night: one for my son, one for my daughter, and one for my husband and me. Those days are gone! This was easier than I ever imagined….”

— Alexandra (Loudonville, NY)

“Dr Cale,

Thank you for the gift – The Picky Eaters solution has been a GOD SEND – and I really mean it!!

We have two boys ages 7 and 12 – their diet consisted of chips, crackers, cookies, pizza, mac and cheese – all the simple sugary carbs you have spoken of. They were very unhealthy and extremely picky. We had fights over food constantly. We trained them to be picky as I now have seen.

BUT GOOD NEWS! After only a few days on your picky eaters solution it all turned around. I couldn’t believe it! What a miracle. We are almost at week 4 now and there are absolutely no more fights over food. They are eating normal meals with us- the SAME thing and I’m not cooking separate meals anymore. There is so much more peace in our home because of this.

I was so afraid to try the program and put it off for months because I figured it would cause tons of tantrums, etc. But finally I got to the end of my ropes and knew it was time to start it. I wish we would have done it sooner.

My younger son is like a totally different kid now. His behavior has turned completely around now that he is not eating all the junk food that we use to have around the house but is now actually eating REAL food. He desires meat now and this is a HUGE turn around.

I don’t ever remember him sitting down to a chicken breast and eating it. I’m ashamed now that I look back at how I let my kids eat and how I was actually causing them to be picky eaters with all the negotiating and fighting I did with them. Thank you so much and I mean this from the bottom of my heart.”

— Heather Harkema, (Loudonville, NY)

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You can get your children to eat healthy, quit fighting over food and you can have a calmer, more peaceful home – Just like the thousands of satisfied parents who rave about my Help Your Picky Eater step-by-step guide!

You Owe It to Yourself And Your Child
To Help Them With Picky Eating

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With an understanding of the lessons I have learned over the years, you can alter the immediate and the long term future for you and your children. Not only do you save your time and energy, by not wasting it with endless theories that only work with some children some of the time. But you get an action plan that includes the key ingredient that I have found essential to success for every picky eater.

While I write this, I know some of you are skeptical and that’s okay. I probably would be too. But I have created a simple, step-by-step action plan that has helped hundreds and hundreds of parents, just like you, finally get peace at their own dinner tables. The ‘Help Your Picky Eater’ step-by-step guide is an easy to follow action plan that will show you the secrets to ending picky eating right now so you and your family can have a better, less stressful, more peaceful life… for only $37!

You see, from my side of things, I know that life can be better. Not next year. Not five years from now. Not after they graduate from high school. But things can be better in just a few days! Why would you keep suffering when relief is so close? I have seen it hundreds of times in working with every type of family, every style of parenting, and every variation of a strong willed or oppositional child. They all get it! Every child gets it. WHEN you get it.

Ready To Try The ‘Help Your Picky Eater’
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Help Your Picky Eater step-by-step guide gives you a clear, straight forward game plan that tells you exactly what you need to do and how to do it. No more theory and untested approaches. You get the formula that works time and time again. This plan is different. The results you get will be different… it will transform your home. I promise it, and stand behind your investment.

Look, I want to be very clear with you in your struggle with picky eating. This step-by-step guide brings you a solution that works the wide majority of time. If it doesn’t work for you, you will see that I stand behind this unconditionally. It either works like it has for hundreds of families and you wake up a week or so from now realizing that this was an amazing bargain, or. You let me know it didn’t work for you, and get your money back.

By the way, if you were to consult with me to get this information, it would likely involve 4-6 sessions of family therapy at a cost of $680.00 to $1020.00. You get the advantage of this information that distills years of clinical experience into a simple, practical step-by-step guide with a proven track record. But I’m not charging $1020.00 for this valuable resource. I’m only charging a fraction of that for ‘Help Your Picky Eater’ step-by-step guide. I’m only charging $37.

Why Only $37 Dr Cale?

This is a common question, and I think I would ask that too. Look, my practice is booming and I am as busy in my office as I want to be. I could publish this in a traditional way, but that takes years and years of effort and still. The publisher may not accept it. So here I am, reaching out with a solution that can make a difference for you, and you get it right now…

What Makes My ‘Help Your Picky Eater’ Step-by-Step Guide So Powerful?

1. Don’t continue with a plan that isn’t working. Find one that does…and this is it!
My grandmother always told me, The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and praying that something better would show up. If it ain’t working… do something different!
2. You Can END YOUR WORRIES over poor eating, and say goodbye to all the struggles as well.
I invite you to imagine a home where you rest easily feeling peace and contentment in your child’s healthy eating…and even feeling free of those battles, the yelling, the meltdowns…and then decide if that relief isn’t worth 10 times the cost of this focused step-by-step action plan.
3. In the time it takes to read another semi-worthless website article, you can download this action plan, and be on your way to a happier home.
Please don’t procrastinate, I want to help you. And this action plan will give you the tools to turn your child into healthy eaters.

I often wonder why parents hesitate to take action now… since the benefit of this step-by-step guide will bring daily peace to your home and ensure your child eats a healthy meal… everyday. For less than a couple of movie tickets you get ‘Help Your Picky Eater’ step-by-step guide sent directly to your email, there is no waiting and no shipping cost.

And there’s no risk for you! If you apply the principles in this step-by-step guide, and it doesn’t work for you…just send me an email and you will get your money back!

You Really Get Much More Than Just A Step-by-Step Guide, You Really Get…

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What is it worth to have NO MORE BATTLES?
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How much would you give to end your worries?
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How much is your time worth?
checkmark2 Emotionally, your energy and enthusiasm is no longer squashed by the fears of where these unhealthy patterns of eating could take you and your family?
You begin to get results in a few days… not weeks.
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You won’t have to continue to worry if your child is growing and developing properly.
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If I could guarantee you a healthy eater… Would you hesitate… or would you Take Action Right Now!

In the ‘Help Your Picky Eater’ step-by-step guide, I provide you with a step-by-step guide to end your picky eating problems. You can transform your home…and bring relief to your family today!

What You Need To Do Right Now

You can end the struggle, frustration, and frustration that picky eating causes. It’s all up to you, if you are ready to discover the secrets then you need to order ‘Help Your Picky Eater’ step-by-step guide today.

You will instantly have access to ‘Help Your Picky Eater’ step-by-step guide that gives you the tools to stop picky eating and get back your life. It’s not like they grow out of it. Unless you show them the way, their picky eating will just continue to get worse.

Order right now and give your child and yourself the life you both deserve…. you really have nothing to lose but the fights over food that is wrecking your sanity…

Here’s what you get with the Help Your Picky Eater Download Package:

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In the Help Your Picky Eater Package, you get a downloadble E-book which you can read right away. This is a PDF document you can read on your computer, or print at home. You also get my Picky Eater Guide on mp3 audio program, which you can listen to immediately. In addition, as my gift to you, I have included several bonuses. In fact, I have more bonuses in this offer than any other program package I have put together.

Included is my complete Guide to Healthy Eating and Healthy Living. This is a new program, focused on the core lessons that allow you to gain control over your kitchen, as well as the routines in your home. At the core of this program is a method to help your family get healthy again, without the battles, the worries and the constant sense of failure.

In addition, I have included “Cooking Fast and Cooking Healthy” This is a recipe book, created specifically for Terrific Parenting by a privately commissioned chef. These recipes are both healthy, and easy to prepare. Great tools for making progress.

Finally, I have a research summary, on what we know about picky eating, it’s causes and solutions that work.

Let me break the package down for you:

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Instant Download:

Help Your Picky Eater Step-by-Step Guide ($47.00 value)

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First, you get Dr Cale’s Help Your Picky Eater step-by-step guide. Dr Cale walks you through every detail to make certain you are ready to get success. From the changes you make in your home, to the message you give to your picky eater, to the way you handle the battles over food, THIS IS THE ONLY STEP-BY-STEP GUIDE that will take you from picky eater to healthy eater in just a matter of weeks.

If you are looking for a bunch of theory, this isn’t it. This is Dr Cale’s practical guidebook that doesn’t waste any time getting you started. You can read through it in an hour or so, and by tomorrow…you will be on your way. This program has been featured in newspapers, TV and applauded by desperate moms and dads across the country.

bullet Ways to talk to your children about divorce
bullet Key lessons for preventing emotional trauma
bullet Guidelines for beginning a co-parenting plan
bullet Essential considerations for custodial arrangements
bullet Specific ways to protect your children and keep them out in the middle
bullet Specific ways to protect your children and keep them out in the middle
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FREE BONUS #1:

Cooking Fast. Cooking Healthy. ($47.00 value… included)

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This amazing bonus is all about how the correct recipes are critical to your long term success, and why these recipes fit perfectly with a healthy eating game plan. It’s not about putting sugar-like “sauce” over veggies (although that’s what most people do… making excuses like, “Well, it’s okay to do that just to get them to eat something healthy.”)

Dr Cale commissioned a nutritional expert to hand-select these recipes, and gears them toward the active family who needs healthy meals without flavors that are excessively challenging for the typical picky eater.

You’ll discover:

bullet How to quickly select healthy meals that everyone can eat.
bullet How to prepare meals fast that fit with your picky eating program.
bullet How to simplify you life on those crazy days when you need a simple recipe that’s good for everyone.

Not bad, right? But that’s not all you get! Because I’m also throwing in:

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FREE BONUS #2:

MP3 Download of “Help Your Picky Eater” ($47.00 value… free)

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Are you beginning to see how valuable this package is? With this bonus you’ll be able to download and listen to Dr Cale step-by-step guide you through this program.

Learn Better From Listening Than Reading.
Need Repetition and Can Easily Listen Over and Over.
Need Repetition and Can Easily Listen Over and Over.

Imagine how you’d feel if you knew could listen to the program any time, to make sure you have the details right! YOURS FREE when you order Help Your Picky Eater. You are reading this, aren’t you?

Well the good news is, that’s still not all. Because I have another gift for you.

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FREE BONUS #3:

Healthy Eating & Healthy Living ($47.00 value… free)

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You don’t know it yet but, at the end of this bonus you’ll know everything about developing healthy routines for the whole family.

Here’s a short list of what this amazing bonus contains:

How to manage ALL aspects of your child’s daily routines, from eating to homework.
How to support an active, healthy lifestyle and do so without being controlling.
How to easily limit unhealthy habits, whether eating, exercise, TV or video.

And actually, there is much more here! This is a brand new program just out of the editing phase, and actually sells for $99.00 on it’s own… and you get it free!

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FREE BONUS #4:

Dr. Cale’s Comprehensive Research Summary On Picky Eating ($29.95 value… included free)

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Dr Cale insisted that we add this bonus. Over 25 hours of painstaking research went into this step-by-step guide. This walks you through the current state of the research, what the implications are for your family and lays the foundation for why Dr Cale’s approach works. This is a remarkable step-by-step guide, and it’s also free.

Here’s a brief list of what this science-driven bonus contains:

How to understand the real risks of picky eating.
How to view the role of family dynamics, personality and behavioral conditioning..
Why medication is not the answer, and where to look instead.

And this is only the beginning of what is contained in this step-by-step guide…

Phew… that’s some list of FREE Gifts and bonuses, right? A total of $170.95 in bonuses alone…

The total value is $217.95… Yours today for $37.00.

But I don’t know how long Dr Cale will keep these bonuses up there. It’s part of a marketing test we are doing. They’re worth a lot on their own, but Dr Cale wants to make certain you get remarkable value for your investment.

Key Point: It’s important to know that Dr Cale has many solutions for you as a parent. He is making this remarkable offer, in part, to gain you as a lifetime customer. He believes that your home will be transformed with these products, and that you will return again and again when you have parenting questions. Thus, he is willing to offer all of these solutions in this package to help you decide that this program will turn picky eaters into healthy eaters in your home, and that it’s well worth the investment. (This is a marketing test however, and if this approach doesn’t work, we will stop the promotion.)

And don’t worry, if for any reason you’re not happy with the content, you have a complete guarantee to protect your investment.

Reality Check: This program works, and it works well… but it doesn’t work all the time. I believe it will work for you. But in reality, nothing works for everyone every single time. I know that. With only a minuscule 1.7% return rate however, I know that most parents are remarkably satisfied and happy with my Help Your Picky Eater Step-by-Step Guide.

However, if it doesn’t work for you, no worries my friend. I will gladly refund your monies, and you can keep all of these products for yourself as my gift. I want you to be happy, I want you to be satisfied.

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That’s about as fair as it gets, don’t you agree?

And hey, don’t take my word for it on how great this package is. Remember what other parents…just like you…. have to say about it.

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I believe… if you knew with absolute certainty that this program works… you would buy it now! Right? For less that 3-4 picky eater meals…you can be done with it! Good bye picky eating!

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The Sensitive, Easily Upset Child

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Young children often are easily upset by minor circumstances. Perhaps they break a toy, store or can’t watch their favorite program, or have to leave the playground before they’re ready. These and other everyday situations can give rise to sadness, whining, and crying. Of course, some circumstances warrant an emotional response, for example, if another child takes their toy or a peer treats them unfairly or harshly. Children may react emotionally in many situations; what’s important is whether the intensity of the response is appropriate.

As overly sensitive children get older, parents often see more extreme, melodramatic outbursts that continue for an extended time. In school, such outbursts elicit negative attention and impede their ability to get along. Extreme reactions to relatively minor events often lead to interventions by parents and teachers. It may seem necessary to respond to these outbursts to help the child calm down. However, as the child gets older, the outbursts seem to increase rather than decrease, and parents spend more and more time trying to calm the child. This solution is actually the problem.

  • Sally is a divorced mom with a seven-year-old daughter, Kara. Sally sought counseling because her daughter is frequently upset when she comes home from school, full of complaints about her teacher and her peers. When she visits her father, she spends the first few hours after the visit crying and upset. Whenever Kara starts to talk about problems at school, or about her father, or the divorce, Sally hugs her and sits down for an extended conversation. They’ve been doing this for four years.
  • Kara is now “upset” in a rather extreme fashion 6 to 10 times a week, and the conversations have gotten longer and longer. Her complaints about her father have become so exaggerated that her mother is starting to discount them. When Sally talked to me about the situation, her eyes filled with tears. She expressed tremendous guilt over putting her daughter through a divorce and acknowledged her desire to relieve any distress Kara might feel about her life.
11Unfortunately, Sally’s solution is actually the problem. She’s been overprotective and over-sensitized to her daughter’s distress. She’s reacted every single time, trying to soothe her daughter, so Kara has never had the opportunity to resolve her own emotional upsets. She’s never learned that she can be upset, tearful, or angry and that these feelings will pass without her mom’s intervention. Her inability to resolve her own difficulties leaves her emotionally disabled. Sally needs to let Kara learn this key skill.

A second factor is involved in this situation: Kara has learned that being sad and upset pulls adults into her life. She gets attention for being unhappy. If you’ve read the materials on this website, you know that whatever behavior consistently gets parents’ attention will grow. So now Kara lives in a world of hurt and negative emotions, because that’s how she’s learned to get love. As she gets older and her personality begins to solidify, this pattern of negative emotions will create major challenges in her life.

Dr Cale’s Special Report

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Three Simple Guidelines To A More Confident Child

If you follow the three simple guidelines below, you’ll be helping your children develop emotional strength and a sense of confidence in their ability to handle their own lives.

1. Have faith in your children’s ability to handle their lives.

Whether children are in an intact or divorced family, are healthy or in some way handicapped or disabled, there’s no reason to teach them that their lives are in any way “less than” what they should be. If you label their lives as sad or unfortunate, they’ll believe you. If you feel this way, you may become overprotective. Kids who are overprotected lack the confidence to handle their own emotions or deal with difficult situations.If you don’t have faith in them, where will they get it? Do you think you can hide that from them? Once you realize that your lack of trust in their abilities is their biggest enemy, then you realize it’s essential that you find this faith…so you pass it on to them. How? You…

2. Explain to your children that they can handle their emotions.

When everyone is calm, talk to your children about the things that upset them. Offer some solutions and help solve the problems. After you have a couple of these conversations, tell them that you’ve given them the information they need to handle their own emotions. Explain that you’re not going to run to their rescue anymore or try to calm them when they’re upset. Tell them that the feelings they have may be painful, but they’ll go away. Let them know that you have confidence in their ability to cope.And most importantly, you decide to…

3. Never rescue your children.

s52When your children become upset and it’s part of their pattern, allow them to whine, complain, cry, have a tantrum. Don’t get angry, upset, or tearful, and don’t get into a conversation about the upset. Just be patient and let them handle it. As soon as they show signs of calming down, engage them in normal conversation about other events or activities. Don’t talk about whatever it was that upset them. If they start to get upset again, disengage.

Remember: what you consistently give your attention to…it must grow.

If you consistently give your attention to patterns of whining, complaining, and “sensitivity”…you will find that you nurture a child who seems to choose these unhealthy patterns over and over.

Why? Because you…as the most important teacher…keep investing in those patterns.

Thus, to start nurturing confidence, you simply need to get out of the way, and allow your kids to realize that the world will not rescue them from their upsets… their whining… their crying… their meltdowns… their placing too much importance on the actions/words of others.

If you follow these simple guidelines, I’m confident that your children will respond within two to three weeks.. .maybe longer if you struggle in your own ability to disengage these “signals” of sensitivity.

Their behavior will change radically as they begin to develop a greater sense of confidence in themselves. Dependent, immature behavior will fall by the wayside if you give them permission to tap their own strength and abilities.

You can nurture inner strength and personal confidence by the way you respond to their behavior and emotions. If you are committed to nurturing a confident child, you may want to consider The Confident Child program available on CD, or by downloading the audio file. You can get access to this information RIGHT NOW by – Clicking Here.

The Confident Child: Nurturing Healthy Self-Esteem

As always, I encourage you to research your options carefully. Then, when you decide what’s right for you and your family, put it to the test. The only way to test, however, is when you have a VERY CLEAR PLAN, and IT’S A REALISTIC PLAN.

With each of the Terrific Parenting Solutions, you will be guided through a plan that YOU CAN TRUST. These carefully developed programs take advantage of hundreds of hours of clinical research, followed by years of application and testing by real life families.

I hope you take advantage of this remarkable information, as these simple ideas can FREE YOUR CHILDREN of years of needless anxiety, discomfort and sadness. While not a substitute for counseling or therapy (most kids don’t need that!), kids need to learn how to use their good brain to get through the difficult stuff quickly, and then to find ways to expand and deepen their positive and healthy experiences.

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Disrespect, Bad Attitude and Talking Back

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screaming_motherIt seems that many parents of preteen and adolescent children complain of disrespect. Yet, store in many cases this behavior develops, then, in certain families, quickly fades away.

The degree to which children persist in displaying disrespectful behaviors and attitudes rests primarily in how we as parents respond.

How often have you heard a parent say, “You’re not going to talk to me like that.” Then, less than five seconds later, the child or adolescent speaks with disrespect. The parent then again repeats the demand. The child becomes even more disrespectful. It’s as if the parent is trying to control the child’s thoughts and words, when in reality they do not have control over this behavior. In other words, it is impossible to force your children to be respectful.

What is possible, however, is to teach them that respectful behavior will serve them… and that disrespectful behavior will not serve them.

How do you do this?

First, your attitude and philosophy is an essential ingredient, if you hope to change or modify your child’s actions and words. If your child speaks to you with disrespect, and you expend the energy to try to get them to change their attitude, you are, in essence, teaching them that the world will really care about their attitude.

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Yet, I’ve got news for you: The world doesn’t care about their attitude. If they are disrespectful to their boss, they will lose their job. If they treat their customers with disrespect, the customers will not come back. If they are disrespectful and rude to their friends, they will lose quality friends.

It is essential that you model for your children what life will ultimately teach them.

Disrespectful Behavior Is Not Worthy Of Your Attention

  • Will the rest of their world invest in such disrespect? NO!
  • Will good friends invest their energy in disrespectful peers? NO!
  • Will an employer invest in disrespect? NO!
  • Will their college professors invest in a disrespectful student? NO!

You want your kids to learn early in life… such disrespect is not worthy of my energy and attention. That’s the first, most fundamental lesson to learn.

“Is that all there is?” No, there is more to it…, and here are the basics.

Teaching Respect Requires More From Parents Than Children

  1. It is essential to have the attitude and perspective that you cannot force compliance, you cannot force respect, and you cannot force agreeable behavior. Thus, in this moment of disrespect, you must be able to accept that this is happening, even though you don’t approve.
  2. What you can do is teach your child that disrespectful behavior will not get them what they want (i.e., a person’s interest and attention). In other words, you will ignore every word spoken in a disrespectful fashion. The only way that you will engage your child is when they speak respectfully to you. Don’t ever give in to the temptation of correcting their disrespect. The more you do so, the more disrespectful they will become.
  3. Immediately engage your child for respectful, calm, and appropriate interactions. Smile, look at them, and compliment them from time to time on their mature behavior.
  4. Make certain that disrespect behavior is never rewarded with children getting what they want. This may mean they miss a football practice, they miss a movie with their friends, or they don’t get to take out the car. Do not give in just because your teenager relentlessly pursues you to change your mind. Make certain that you stay the course.

divorced-mom-with-happy-daughterDepending on the years of history behind you and your child, your child may have learned that whining, complaining, and being sassy with you has been rewarded by your willingness to try to correct them or get them to change their behavior. The longer this has been happening, the longer it will take for your child to learn that disrespect will no longer serve them. The older the child, the longer the learning curves. Keep in mind, however, that all children will eventually learn, provided that you hold the course.

In a very typical scenario, I was speaking with parents who have an 11 year old girl, we’ll call her Katie, who was standing at the top of the stairs demanding to know where her yellow sweatshirt was located. No one had touched this but Katie. Her mom calmly stated that the sweatshirt was last seen in the laundry pile.

Katie began screaming at the top of her lungs, “I can’t believe you didn’t wash my good sweatshirt. What the ____ is wrong with you?”

Mom responds, “Don’t talk to me that way Katie!”

Katie then says, “You don’t care about me. You don’t care what I look like. I can’t believe you are my mother. I hate you.”

ep6This really tweaks mom, who then starts to yell at Katie at 7:35 am, “You are so ungrateful. I can’t believe you would speak to me that way. You are grounded tonight …no TV or phone.”

Katie then escalates even more, by responding, “What do I care? I don’t care what you do to me? You are nothing but a Nazi anyway…” and things got worse from there.

Why do I offer this example? So you can observe from the outside how the “disrespect” of Katie continued to get a generally respectful response from her mom. When Katie’s mom got angry, her response became ugly…but the disrespect on Katie’s part continue to pull the attention and energy of her mom.

What do you suppose would happen if Katie tried the demanding, disrespectful voice and discovered that no one responded to that… ever?

What would she learn when nothing ever happened for her when she used ugly words…it was like she didn’t exist?

Your fear is not reality here…meaning that you may be reading this and fear that you are condoning such disrespect. You are not. You are simply allowing what has already occurred…and giving it no energy. This is the fundamental secret to success with all this verbal garbage that kids throw out.

Now, you can add some other pieces ….but that’s the essential first step to get started. Try it for a few weeks…and watch happens. I think you will be surprised.

Here’s one final idea. After you have used this a while, some of you will be overwhelmingly pleased. Others may notice partial, but not complete success, but you begin to get a sense of how powerful your parental tools can be.

However, if you want to learn more, consider purchasing the Essential Parenting Home Study Course. This includes discussions about how to use structure and consequences, as well as effective ways to give your kids choices that allow them to learn. Click here to learn more about the Home Study Course.

Remember:

Disrespect… Bad attitude… Demanding… Talking Back… is not worthy of your energy. To get some other ideas on dealing with a disrespectful teen, read Dr Cale’s response to this mother of a disrespectful teenager: Read About Changing Disrespectful Teen here!

THIS IS THE FIRST STEP…but often not the complete solution.  However, you will notice that this simple change will help with many young children, and even confuses the older child.  To get more specific strategies to get rid of disrespect, you may want to get my special report on “The Disrespectful and Angry Child.”  It will be ready soon!

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The Sibling Solution

Put An End To The Constant Battles Between Siblings That Drain Your Energy, Rob You Of Peace, And Destroy The Happiness In Your Home

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I Have Helped Thousands Of Parents Overcome This Common Struggle With A Simple, Easy To Use, Un-Common Approach. Within 30 Days, Your Life Will Be Calmer, Happier, Quieter And Your Kids Will Be More At Peace.

Are you exhausted from endless sibling fighting, over the smallest of issues, and worried sick about how they will get along in the future? But that’s just the beginning… right? There’s more:

  • Are you constantly being put in the position of referee in your children’s nonstop bickering and disagreements?
  • Are you frustrated by never-ending daily complaints such as “Mom, he took my game without asking” or “Dad, she’s sitting where I was going to sit”?
  • Do you sometimes worry that the sibling fighting will never go away, and that they will grow up to hate each other?
  • Do they just plain get too physical, and violent with each other?
  • Do you find yourself constantly having to tell them to “Knock it off!” or “Just get along” or “Work it out” only to find that that it does no good in the long run?

dr_cale_parents_pschologistHi there mom. dad. Look, this job of parenting is really tough. Most of my patients agree with me that the job is much harder than we think it will be. Of course, it’s great when the kids are really easy, and get along well.

But when you find yourself alone with a pair of siblings engaged in constant (or almost constant) rivalry, you can be take to the edge of your sanity. Not only is it emotionally and physically demanding to keep trying to calm the rivalry, but the worries about their futures leave you awake at night (e.g., “Will they be friends? What if they hate each other? How will they treat each other’s children? Will they come to family gatherings without anger and hurt?).

The sibling fighting goes to new levels as they get older. It’s as if everything is a competition to win, to be the best, to have “exclusive use” of anything in the room… and the list goes on.

Then, it escalates. If it’s not hitting, it’s bickering. If it’s not bickering it’s complaining. If it’s not complaining, it’s wanting you to FIX IT MOM!

Sibling Fighting Will Simply Drive You Crazy

And all of this sibling craziness is wearing you out and destroying the peace in your home. You’re probably sick and tired of all of it to the point of frustration and exhaustion.

How do I know? As a parenting specialist who has also spent more than 23 years working with children whose extreme sibling fighting has been a huge source of pain to their parents, I’ve seen it all. From the mild to the most extreme, with violence and constant reactive drama!

But do you have a real problem? Let’s just check it out real fast:

Take The Sibling Fighting Test

Do Your Kids Constantly Drive You Crazy With Any Of These 5 Energy Crushing or Joy Robbing Patterns?

  • Your children rarely seem to get along when playing together, and sibling fighting makes everything a competition or “one up” experience.
  • Siblings seem incapable of solving their own struggles, and seek you out to fix even the slightest conflict. (And your efforts to resolve the problem never makes them happy).
  • When sibling fighting is out-of-control, siblings seldom bother even trying to work out solutions, but usually just start fighting and bickering.
  • Siblings fight, yell or hit almost regardless of location at home, at the doctors office, in line at the store, and in the car.
  • They get into it, and you try to help them out. Again, a few minutes later, you repeat yourself. Repeat. Repeat. Then, you yell. They stop. 5 Minutes later they are at it again. Repeat. Repeat. Repeat. (You just want to put your head in the toilet by now.)

sibling-giving-sour-faces-to-each-otherIf you answered “yes” to even one of the 5 situations above, you have a problem with sibling fighting that needs help! The good news is that MILD daily conflict between siblings is completely normal and doesn’t, in any way, mean that you’re a bad parent. The bad news is that if your children can’t learn to properly handle that conflict, they’re going to have trouble getting along with each other, as well as other people throughout their lives (and that will affect their future success in life).

Just think about it: No matter what we do in life, we need to have the skills to understand how to work out our differences with other people in order to succeed. Children need to learn these skills from an early age!

Will Sibling Fighting Fade Away?

“No! Not if you ignore it, and do nothing to make it better.”

sibling-quarrelling-over-stuffed-toyIt’s tempting to think “They’ll grow out of it” or “learning to get along with others is a process that takes many years.” But, if the battles are so constant and energy draining on you and your kids just can’t seem to hardly ever get along, you don’t have the regular sort of sibling fighting that will just fade away.

After working for over 20 years parents and children, it’s been my experience that parents who seek answers for sibling fighting and fighting have extreme cases of sibling problems and likely… NEED HELP.

Through my decades of work as a child psychologist, I’ve created practical, life changing solutions that actually teach children to end their sibling fighting and sibling bickering.

The proven tools in my Sibling Solution Program will help you end the constant sibling fighting!

You can’t perform miracles overnight or eliminate every fight between siblings, but you can greatly reduce the amount of rivalry, bickering and fighting between your children. More importantly, you can also teach your children to work out these disputes on their own.

The Truth That’s Shocking To Many Parents Is That When We Constantly Solve Or Try To Prevent Sibling Fighting, We Most Often Are Making Things MUCH Worse!

Parents mean well when they try to handle disagreements between their children. If one child complains to us that his or her sibling took a toy, we may think that discussing the matter and getting to the bottom of what happened is the right thing to do to resolve the issue.

sibling-arguingHowever, by investing our energy in the situation, we become totally exhausted listening to each child involved and trying to be “fair” in trying to figure out who really did what action and what the outcome should be. Our children just stand their waiting for us to decide and chances are at least one will not be at all happy with what we’ve decided anyway.

In repeating situations of bad behavior such as children fighting while sitting in the backseat of the car, we often find ourselves repeatedly saying things like “Stop it right now” or “That’s enough.” But we’re still giving our energy to bad behavior and that only makes the problem worse.

Why The Sibling Solution Program Will Work For You And Eliminate Sibling Rivalry, Bickering And Fighting Today!

  • The Sibling Solution Program is a proven method for teaching siblings to get along. The easy to follow approach stops the sibling rivalry, the sibling fighting and the bickering so you get a calmer, more peaceful home. And, you can enjoy the children again! What a treat!
  • The Sibling Solution Program is a concise step-by-step plan that you can start as soon as you receive it. The concepts are easy to grasp and clearly explained. I take you by the hand, and make it brain-dead simple to follow. The solutions require you to be consistent and stay the course, but they really work if you remain consistent in your response to your children’s behavior.
  • The Sibling Solution Program makes your children happier, and more satisfied with their lives, and with their siblings. Gratitude. is even within site! Could you imagine?
  • In addition, as part of what they learn, siblings will gain valuable coping and cooperation skills.

happy-caring-siblingsAfter all, they’ll be dealing with all sorts of people and situations as they go through school and into their careers, and Mom and Dad won’t be there to solve all their problems for them. You can give them all of the tools they’ll need for future social success with the solutions and techniques you work together on in the Sibling Solution Program.

Imagine a home where the kids actually do get along. Imagine how you could spend an hour on the phone uninterrupted. Imagine the children asking to play together more and more often. Imagine getting ready to bed. with NOT ONE MEMORY of a sibling squabble or battle. It’s not just possible. but it’s real and right in front of you.

The Sibling Solution Is A Step-By-Step Program, Where You Learn To Teach Your Children How To Respect Each Other And Solve Their Own Problems. It Doesn’t Happen In A Week, But It Does Happen Quickly!

7 Amazing Things You’ll Learn In The SIBLING SOLUTION PROGRAM

So You Can Get Rid Of The Endless Sibling Fighting Between Your Kids!

  1. You’ll learn exactly how to give your children opportunities to build cooperation with their brother or sister.
  2. You’ll learn exactly how to set clear, consistent and appropriate consequences for any ages of children from toddlers to teens.
  3. You’ll learn exactly how to give your energy to good behaviors rather than to the moments of sibling rivalry and fighting.
  4. You’ll learn exactly how to create a consistent parenting rule that your children will follow – they’ll know exactly where you’ve drawn the line and exactly what to expect if they cross it.
  5. You’ll learn exactly what to say to your kids to let them know about the changes you’ll be making, and prepare them in a manner that makes this transition a bit easier.
  6. You’ll learn exactly why, as a parent, you need to model cooperative behavior if you expect it from your children.
  7. You’ll learn the five main reasons that siblings fight with one another and exactly how to structure the the environment to discourage fighting and encourage cooperation without controlling your children.

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My parents find that, as a result of consistently following the step-by-step plan in The Sibling Solution, their home life is much more relaxing and their kids are taking responsibility for their school work and relationships.

“They Solve Their Own Conflicts Without Me.”

“Like you, I used to believe that sibling squabbles and battles were just part of being a parent. Then, after losing my cool over and over with the kids, I decided I had to do something. I had read about Dr Cale, and his straight-talk, no beat-around-the-bush methods of getting results.”

“To make a long story short, I put ‘The Sibling Solution’ to work in our home with 2 boys and my little girl. Within weeks, it was like living in a different home. My friends actually enjoy coming over now! We all get along better…not perfect…but life is 1000% improved. The boys share, play together most of the time, and perhaps the best thing of all—THEY SOLVE THEIR OWN CONFLICTS WITHOUT ME STEPPING IN TO REFEREE! I have my life, and my sanity back! Every mom deserves The Sibling Solution.”

– MaryBeth Drislaine, Mother of 3 boys

“My Home Has Become A Wonderful Place To Be.”

loving-siblings“Communication has increased between family members. The children have begun to take some personal accountability for their homework, chores and each other. My home has become a wonderful place to be at the end of a hard day at work.”

– Heather, Single mom from Florida

My parents comment that refusing to reward bad behaviors with personal energy and only rewarding good behaviors with it instead really makes a difference in helping their children learn to be better behaved.

“Two Daughters Who Are Much More Enjoyable.”

happy-siblings“Dr. Cale helped us understand how we were reinforcing the exact behaviors from our kids that we did not want. We now have 2 daughters who are much more enjoyable, thanks to Dr. Cale.”

– Marc and Vicki, Parents of 2 from Denver, Colorado

If parents stay the course and consistently stick to The Sibling Solution program, they often find they’re living calmer and more fulfilled lives.

“Our Lives Are Calmer, Our Home Is Quieter, And Our Kids Are Happier.”

The Sibling Solution was just that. for us it was a solution for the chaos between our 4 boys. Our lives are calmer, our home is quieter, and our kids are happier. What more could we want!

– Paula, Mother of 4 from Houston, Texas

Here’s What’s Included in the Sibling Solution Step-by-Step Package

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In the Sibling Solution Package, you get a downloadble Sibling Solution Step-by-Step Guide ebook which you can read right away. You also get my Sibling Solution mp3 audio program, which you can listen to immediately. In addtion, as my gift to you, I have included my A-Z Collection of Parenting Articles — yours free with this package. Last but not the least, my Kids Getting Along In The Car pdf is also included in the package.

Let me break the package down for you:

  • INSTANT DOWNLOAD

sibling-solution-ebook-coverThe Sibling Solution Step-by-Step Guide (Value $47)

In The Sibling Solution, I explain the magical secret to how sibling figting can be stopped cold, when you change your approach. Rather than constant sibling fighting, competition and battles, your children learn from your stealth-like parenting secret (which you will only share with them after they have their own children!) — and become closer and closer with each passing week.

Almost as magical, your children also learn to listen to you because you learn to require it (not with ugly words or threats… but with effective action). You don’t force it… you allow them to learn! Once again… the step-by-step silbling formula will give you tools that you won’t find anywhere else. Tools that are practical, powerful and get results FAST.

I also give you the hidden mistake that guarantees that the sibling fighting WILL GET WORSE—IF YOU CORRECT THIS MISTAKE! On the other hand, if you master this key ingredient… they will learn to change by following your lead. If you fail to master it… they will fail to master their impulsive reactions to each other, and the rivalry will get worse.

Don’t you want a step by step PROVEN SYSTEM that will get rid of that sibling rivalry, the battles, the complaints and the endless efforts to fix their struggles? If YES is the answer, then you must get this program!

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One of my customers recently wrote me an email, explaining how valuable the audio materials were for her, because she could keep listening over and over…so that she could practice every detail in her head. And for her, the MP3 made all the difference. You get this $47 download absolutely free with this package!

Remember, this audio program gives you an alternative way to learn these vital lessons. You can download to your Ipod, your computer, or burn the mp3 to a CD and play it in your car. This $47 program is included FREE as a bonus with this new package.

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These articles touch upon everything from daily routines, to homework struggles, to responsibilities, to respect and disrespect, and sibling choices. While not a comprehensive guide book with all these topics, each article does give you a clear sense of the mistakes that you can make, and how to correct them.

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KidsGettingAlongIntheCar3D2Guess what the number one complaint I hear today is about: It’s about travelling back and forth to soccer games, to school or to the doctor’s office—while listening to siblings go at it in the car. While video games, and in the car DVD players have greatly eased travelling with the kids, there are many times when the sibling fighting and battles continue to dangerous and CRAZY LOUD LEVELS when you are in the car. GUESS WHAT: I have created a special Ebook just for this purpose. You can teach siblings to travel peacefully within a few short days…. and NEVER have to listen to the sibling battles again while travelling in the car. This program has worked 100% of the time, and puts you back in control of the sanity in your car!

This program alone is worth the value of this package IF you have silbings who battle and argue and fight in the car. Who wouldn’t want to have peace everyday when you travel around town with the kids? It’s another tested solution that works flawlessly!

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I give so much in this package because I want you to not only get life changing information, but I want you as a life-time customer. You will have many questions that I can help you with, and once you see the value of these products, I feel certain that it is worth the risk. I want you to be happy, and I want you to keep reaching out for me when you have a need (I will show you how to do that).

7 Ways My Tested and Proven Sibling Solution Formula Will End Silbling Rivalry

  • You’ll discover exactly what to do and when to take action with sibling fighting. No psychobabble to confuse you!
  • You will master a clear, simple plan that works for all ages and child personalities. No exceptions!
  • You will know precisely what to say in the most challenging of sibling situations to make sure that the learning occurs quickly.
  • You will understand what you need to do in every situation to stop battles, complaints and rivalry — whether at home or in public.
  • Almost magical secrets will be revealed which teach your children healthy ways to get along, and accept each other with ease.
  • You discover how to respond so that your energy and attention isn’t wasted.
  • The ultimate secret parenting weapon is exposed when you discover how to stop working so darn hard to solve things for them, and instantly see them work harder to get alone!.

Would You Like To Almost Magically Bring Sibling Fighting To An End, And See Your Kids Get Along Like Best Friends?

Look, give me 45 minutes, and I will give you the gift of Siblings Without Rivalry. Who wouldn’t want that, if you are exhausted, worried and fed up with sibling fighting and battles?

happy-cheerful-siblingsI mean…let’s be real about this. Most parents like you just struggle through this… screaming, yelling, negotiating and refereeing all day and all night long. Aren’t you exhausted enough? Aren’t you really ready for an answer?

Don’t you really want the kids to just get along, and stop making a competition or battle over every little thing? I can’t imagine walking away from the secret formula that will bring of peace of mind…and peace in your home.

Just a reminder: The Sibling Solution parenting system that gives you a clear, straight forward game plan that “maps out” exactly what you need to do and how to do it. No more theory and untested approaches. You get the formula that works time and time again. This plan is different, and the magicical parenting secrets that teach your children how to get along are worth their weight in gold!

The Sibling Solution Will Transform Your Home… Guaranteed!

Yes… the Sibling Solution will transform your home. I promise it, and stand behind your investment.

Look, I want to be very clear about this. The system revealed in this program works. It’s been tested and proven to teach kids how to get along— over and over again. The Sibling Solution brings you that well-deserved relief that you have been looking for. I know it will work, but look… sometimes you aren’t ready or maybe there’s some weird quirk I have never seen before. So… if by some weird chance circumstance it doesn’t work for you, you got nothing to worry about. I guarantee your 100% satisfaction! It either works for you and your children — like it has for hundreds of families —- or you let me know it didn’t work for you, and get your money back.

happy-siblings-spending-quality-timeLast week, one of my private therapy clients came in for her closing session. She had struggled with her 6 and 8 year old boys who were constantly competitive and fighting. After 6 weeks, all was calm and she remarked, “Dr Cale, I didn’t really believe it could be this calm…even in my wildest dreams. Everyone deserves a home that runs this smoothe, and children who enjoy playing with each other! This is worth 10 times what this cost us.”

And guess what? She is a private therapy client who saw me for 6 sessions. My rate is $150.00 per session, and she paid $900 to learn this same formula (with the added inconvenience of driving to my office and spending hours and hours learning it a piece at a time). You don’t need to spend that much money or that much time!

Why not take advantage of this offer while it lasts? My last offer was not successful, and the package was taken down because the costs were too expensive. I hope that this offer is successful, and will be here for years… but I can’t guarantee it… especially at this price (discounted below).

As you can sense, this is a terrific bundle of material. Only when looking back from the future will you really be able to appeciate all that is included here.

  • So, are you ready to enjoy your children again… perhaps in ways you have never experience?
  • Are you ready to start wanting to spend time with them?
  • Are you ready to consider leaving them alone for short periods of time, without having to worry about jumping in?
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If you aren’t ready now to order, what’s stopping you?

Truth is, the only thing stopping you is probably your own doubt.

Okay… go ahead. Admit it. You’re asking yourself things like…

  • Will Dr Cale’s system really work?
  • Is this for real?
  • Will The Sibling Solution formula really end the horrible sibling fighting in my home?
  • Should I trust this guy about what he’s telling me?

All darn good questions, of course. I get it.

But it’s that very voice of doubt that is keeping you from moving forward. From having peace in your home…

I know it’s tough to swallow, but doubt is the reason most people don’t take action, and consequently why most people stay stuck. Stuck in the sibling fighting. Stuck in the sibling fighting. Stuck in misery….

Well, let me ease your concerns…

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Obviously, that guarantee is beyond fair. You agree… don’t you!

So let’s get to the real question:

Are you ready to take action, or are you still letting doubt stop you?

As you’ll hear in the training materials, doubt is often self-sabotage at work. It keeps you stuck… and your kids stay stuck with you!

Are you going to control it, or let it control you?

The choice is yours.

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After all, if you can stop sibling fighting, end sibling squabbles and battles and bring peace to your home for only $47… and this is backed with a complete iron-clad guarantee, Why in the world not do it right now?

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Besides, the sooner you learn this system, the sooner your children can enjoy each other, get along like friends and you can breathe easy with more peace in your home. Why wait any longer?

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Dr. Cale, I’m Ready To End Sibling Battles In My Home!

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Wipe Out The Whining

Discover Dr Cale’s Parent Coaching Secret That Will Put An End To
That Annoying, Constant Whining
And Complaining!

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“And Then One Day, I Suddenly Realized That The Solution Was As Simple As Apple Pie! Every Child I Have Worked With Since That Moment Has Stopped Their Whining Within A Week Or Less… With My Wipe Out Whining Formula.”

My step-by-step Wipe Out Whining action plan teaches your child to ask without whining, and they learn quickly to deal with disappointments… all WITHOUT ANY therapy!

  • Even if – you’ve unsuccessfully tried other approaches that worked for a while and then stopped.
  • Even if – your child’s whining is so bad you want to pull out your hair.
  • Even if – your son or daughter is unusually strong-willed, stubborn or even diagnosed with some other condition.

A Radically Different Approach to Whining

dr_cale_parents_pschologistHi! My name is Dr Randy Cale, and I’m a Licensed Psychologist who has specialized in helping parents with their children for the past 23 years. I’ve assisted hundreds and hundreds of families, just like you, overcome problem whining.

Look, I have listened to countless children whine to their parents while in my waiting room. It’s not even my child, and I still can’t stand it.

I don’t know about you, but I find myself kind a sensitive to that annoying, obnoxious and Cale media box frustrating way of asking for something… and NEVER TRYING TO USE THEIR BIG BOY/GIRL VOICE! It is a very real… and very frustrating problem. We give our kids love, care, attention – and all the things they need and want – and yet, they somehow still seem to find fault, sometimes even in themselves!

It really drives me crazy to listen to children whining to their parents. Initially when i began my practice, I didn’t have the tools or the experience to help families with these whining struggles. As a behavioral expert however, I became obsessed with finding a solution to stop the whining… not just for my patients… but for ME!

And then one day, I suddenly realized that the solution was as simple as apple pie, and every child I have worked with since has stopped their whining within a week or less…. when mom or dad has practiced my Wipe Out Whining formula.

Since that day, I have tested and retested this formula, and now it is a very precise and simple parenting strategy that works. This approach has now been proven with hundreds and hundreds of children, with all variations of whining problems, from the most typical to most extreme.

“Dr Cale,

We purchased your Wipe Out Whining guide whining last week, and the whining is completely gone… in a little over a WEEK!

We are so happy, we want to buy more of your products… You can tell everyone that Mark LaBelle said so! It been a miracle in our home to live in PEACE AGAIN… and that is no exaggeration! Thank you Dr Cale.”

— Mark LaBelle

Mom… Dad… This E-Book Was Made Just For YOU!

Here’s what I mean. Before completing the most recent version of my Wipe Out Whining Guide, I asked parents (just like you) online to tell me about their concerns. Here’s what a few of them wrote (see if these sound familiar because my Wipe Out Whining Guide will handle every one of these situations… and more):

Why do they whine? We have tried everything from being quiet to screaming, the “nice chair” to spankings. Soap in the mouth… Nothing works. Talking about it, getting on their level. I whining can’t stand it. My kids whine before asking a simple question. We are very social and they are embarrassing. Much worse when others are around. Aged 3 and 4.5. The kids are angels when alone. HELP”

— Angela B.

Or is it more like this?

The whining is constant over the silliest and the smallest of issues. My son who will be 4 august 14th, 2008, whines from the time he gets up and until he goes to bed at night. He does not whine unless he is at home and he does not whine around other adults.”

— Kim N.

Maybe this is more like your situation?

I have tried everything: time out, taking away toys, talking, and etc. My daughter is four and she whines about almost everything. She started about a month or two ago. But the main concern is she has a little sister that is picking up on her habits, she is three. It will drive me crazy if they both start whining together, it does now with just one.”

— Amada

So you see… this book was written for you. I included information to address every question and challenge that comes with a whining child (there were 42 completely different variations of whining questions… and all are addressed by the Wipe Out Whining formula). Look, it’s very likely that the common advice doesn’t seem to work, with YOUR CHILD… and you wonder why? You have tried everything (you think). You have negotiated. You have been kind. You have tried to talk it out. You have tried being firm. You have gotten angry. You softly get down on their level. You have gotten frustrated, and you have done the time-out thing!

Nothing is working… and it’s really frustrating… right!

And do you wonder if something is wrong… with your son? Your daughter? With YOU???

tiredgirlBut guess what there is nothing wrong with anyone here. When I first started helping other parents who had children who were out of control, I just followed the traditional ways I had learned and used myself. Sometimes this strategy worked, and sometimes it didn’t. Then I tried other approaches I had been taught in graduate school, and again… it was hit or misses especially with certain children.

Then, I discovered the key! It was like a hidden secret ingredient that made everything come together. I would like to claim some genius ability in pulling this out of all my research and experience, but that is not the case.

After working with so many families, and listening to the stories of whining and tantrums over and over… I just stumbled upon this critical lesson. This ONE ESSENTIAL CHANGE is the big “Ah-ha” that every parent must make to rapidly and predictably stop whining… regardless of whether your child is 3 or 13!

This may surprise you: The truth is that most of what causes whining to get worse is the misleading, and inaccurate advice you are given in magazines, books and yes even your pediatrician’s office. When you discover how easily you can change whining behavior you just may want to write a few letters of your own! Happy mom and son

Okay, I did say “how easily you can stop whining…” didn’t I?

Well, compared to another day of that endless whining… this will be a walk in the park.

Compared to hearing your 4 or 6 or 9 year old sounding like they are 2 again… my Wipe Out Whining Formula will save your sanity, your peace of mind and moment upon moment of wasted, frustrated energy.

Yet, I don’t want to deceive you here there will be a few tough days ahead… and for a select few of you, you may have a week or so where you have to stick firmly to the action plan.

But the learning is quick, and the change becomes immediately noticed… even with the most stubborn and oppositional kids. My system works, and it works quickly. I guarantee it (see how completely true this is as you keep reading farther down the page).

First Let Me Tell You What My Wipe Out Whining Easy to Use Action Plan is NOT

  • It does not require any new gadgets, or the idea of a magical tool.
  • It is not some ordinary advice, this works with every child and every personality.
  • It does not require long hours of sessions and counseling.
  • It does not cost a fortune. Not just being the greatest solution for treating whining ever, it’s also the cheapest, costing much less than your lunch out with the family.

About Whining and Your Child

You are not alone…

Kids usually begin to whine as babies and when they first start learning to communicate, and while whining seems to be more prevalent in young toddlers, it’s when kids don’t quit whining or start whining more as they age when it becomes a problem.

Whining is a learned behavior. Kids start to realize that if they whine and complain enough, they can sometimes get their way… or at least some attention. And then they start to use whining as part of the way they communicate.

Basically, they have learned how to whine and have used it successfully a time or two… so they have decided to use it more and more. They have taught themselves that one successful way to communicate is to whine.

Parents: Take The One and Only…
“Whining Is Driving Me Crazy” Quiz

Scan the questions below to see if your child could drive you over the edge of sanity, and lead you to early memory loss, excessive graying of your hair, or complete loss of your ability to keep your head from spinning in circles… because of your child’s whining:

  • Your child whines and complains almost daily (about self, others, or things in their life) if not many times daily.
  • Everything you’ve tried to stop the whining, complaining and negative attitude hasn’t worked, or it only works for a few days.
  • You are embarrassed to admit to other parents how much your child whines.
  • Everytime your child asks for almost anything, they have that whining voice. Even correcting them makes no difference.
  • You sometimes worry that your child may have self esteem issues and/or an emotional problem because of all the whining
  • You feel exhausted from the frustration of trying to stop your child from complaining and whining
  • You really feel that you don’t know how to solve the whining, complaining and negative comments your child frequently makes, and you feel you need HELP NOW.

The Super-Duper Ultimate Test Question of Whether You Must Get Help Now… or Your Head Will Spin Off Soon:

  • No one else sees this but you and your spouse or partner. In fact, the school thinks that you are perhaps already ‘losing it.’

Okay… where do you fall? Are you on your way to the looney bin? Do you need real help?

“I Will Bet That Whining Is Driving You Crazy…
If You Answered Yes To Even One
Of Those Questions.”

poutingAll joking aside… how many of those questions did you check? Even one YES likely means that whining is a real problem, and you need real help… not more wasted time reading poorly written articles on the web.

If you are still reading you likely know that kids can easily get hooked into a pattern of whining almost all the time… and you didn’t do anything wrong! I know it is enough to drive anyone crazy.

It probably wouldn’t be so bad if the whining and complaining didn’t happen so often and so loud… and with such relentless persistence. You have argued with the whining. You have corrected those hundreds upon hundreds of times… and still they whine. You have pleaded with the whining that turns to complaining.

You know how absolutely frustrating an out of control whining child can be!

Bottom line: You have had many moments of feeling stressed out and exhausted trying to deal with the whining voice, and more of the whining voice… and even more! Whine. Whine. Whine. You know the stress.

We work hard to “do it right,” and to keep our children on track for success and happiness. We worry about their self esteem and their outlook on life. We manage every detail of their life with as much time and attention as we can give. We do our best, and know (in our hearts) that they really have little to complain about! And yet they do!

If you are worried about your child whining as way of life, and as a way of asking…then you are likely ready for something different.

The Truth That’s Shocking To Many Parents Is That Trying to When You Try To Force Your Child To Quit Whining or Try To Talk Your Child Out Of Whining, You Almost Always Get More Whining—- Not Better Behavior!

pouting4Just because your child whines like crazy doesn’t mean your child isn’t normal or that you’re a bad parent. We just have to break their pattern of whining. It’s really that simple.

We just can’t force a child to change a learned behavior, such as whining, but we can use simple steps and an easy to follow guide to teach a child to change.

I know how nerve-wracking this can be. Trust me… I have seen and heard it more times than smiling hip boy you can imagine! Yet, within 7-10 days your home will be calmer, happier, quieter… and your kids will be more at peace… if you give me a chance to help you.

I’ll show you the amazing, tested and proven formula I’ve used with every type of child and situation to end whining and complaining forever!

The principles you’ll learn in my Wipe Out Whining step-by-step guide will show you how to solve the whining problem by simply shifting your focus, making a few adjustments in your home… and then sitting back and watch your child learn. There’s nothing more for you to do… it’s really one or two HUGE mistakes that we must correct… if the whining is to go away quicky…

Why My Wipe Out Problem Whining Guide Will
Work For Your Child

The principles I uncover to you in this program have been tested, refined and proven to work for every type of child (ADD and strong-willed included, of course!), every type of personality (sensitive kids to shy kids to angry kids), and every type of parent.

Even in divorce situations, where your time is split, you will see results! Remember: Wipe Out Whining Guide has worked for the hundreds and hundreds of families I’ve worked with in my more than 20 years or specializing in child psychology.

The type of whining and complaining behaviors that makes us feel worried, fed-up and frustrated as parents is usually in our face day in and day out.

Do any of these situations sound familiar?

  • Everytime they ask, they whine! Some children can’t seem to talk to mom or dad without whining!
  • They might whine about their sibling, and won’t stop until you intervene.
  • They might whine about their food, and won’t stop until you fix something different.
  • They might whine about their homework, and won’t stop until you guide them through it. And when you do, they whine and complain about the way you help them!
  • They might whine about their teacher, complain about their coach, or say negative things about mom and dad.
  • They might just seem to whine about everything they have, and everything they don’t have. When they do get the thing they have begged, pleaded and whined about… you find they are now whining about IT two weeks later. You can’t win!

Are you ready to try something that will end the whining that is driving you crazy, causing problems, and constantly stressing you out?

I’m sure you know by now that comforting your child, or reasoning, or arguing or even begging and pleading aren’t going to stop the vicious cycle of whining you are facing… and it’s just going to keep getting worse!

Why? Because all of your efforts to make it better, no matter how good the intentions, are likely making it worse!

In my Wipe Out Whining step-by-step guide, you will learn why all of those tactics are a huge mistake.

How I Can Help You Break This Bad Whining Habit Once And For All

In my work with thousands of families, I have seen how upset, how maddening, how demanding and uncooperative children can become. It is a very, very serious problem and anyone who says. “Oh… they will grow out of it” does not understand.

With more persistent whining, children will not just grow out of it. Again, the reason is because most of us fall into habits that actually feed that whining monster! And if you don’t get the whining under control they will become louder, longer, more frequent and sometimes even violent. As your child gets older and does not grow out of whining then it can cause disastrous strains on you and your family, their schoolwork and even their social interactions.

It’s Not Your Fault

Just because your child whines doesn’t mean that anything is wrong with you as a parent. It also doesn’t mean anything is wrong with your child.

It does mean that there is problem in the pattern your child has developed. And the good news is that you can change your pattern and finally get rid of whining for good in about a week’s time!

Please be aware of these common mistakes and learn how to avoid them!

  • Mimicking Your Child’s Whining
  • Getting Your Child To Look You In The Eye
  • Taking Away Something They Look Forward To Yelling at Them
  • Spanking, or threatening them
  • Refusing to Give Them What They Want
  • Giving Them What They Want
  • Arguing
  • Fighting With Them To Go to Time Out
  • Calling Their Father, Mother Or Grandparent to Reprimand
  • Trying To Soothe Them
  • Asking Most Psychologists (Who Are Not Parenting Experts)
  • Reading A Book Written By a Mom or Dad Who Self-Proclaim To Be Parenting Experts
  • Finding 37 Different Opinions Online… All Different and Confusing

As you have probably seen for yourself, preventing and stopping whining using these methods can be very difficult, if not impossible. You know that simply being firm doesn’t do it. You know that taking away toys or “goodies” doesn’t do it. You know that time outs and punishments don’t work.

You know that soothing or comforting the whining child is a solution for the moment… but brings you no peace or comfort over the long term.

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How To Stop Whining!

If you want the whining to stop, you must have a clear game plan to change things. If you don’t have a clear game plan, you will fall into old patterns, and end up making things worse with half-baked ideas and ill-conceived strategies.

You actually end up losing control of your home and your life. You find yourself dancing around your child’s demands, and feeling embarrassed and angered that you don’t have more control over things.

Ultimately, your child ends up “driving the bus”! The long term picture can get very ugly. Your whole world can end up revolving around futile, but exhausting, efforts to avoid conflict.

End Whining Before It Grows Into Something
Much Worse

Before deciding that you really need to do this now… not later… just pause for a second: Can you actually imagine a teenage body, with teenage hormones, reacting with teenage emotions, but filled with uncontrolled teenage-size whining? It’s UGLY!

You may not want to imagine this scene… because I have seen it and I understand. It’s beyond ugly. It’s beyond painful. It’s beyond your worst nightmare. Family life is lost. Futures are needlessly surrendered to detention, constant mental health counseling, endless timeouts, and threats of family court help just to bring sanity to the home.

But you can prevent that scene by taking action now!

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You Deserve Better…
And Your Child Deserves A Better Future

With an understanding of the lessons I have learned over the years, you can alter the immediate and the long term future for you and your child. Not only do you save your time and energy, by not wasting it with endless theories that only work with some children some of the time but you get an action plan that includes the key ingredient that I have found essential to success for every whining child.

While I write this, I know some of you are skeptical and that’s okay. I probably would be too. But I have created a simple, step-by-step action plan that has helped hundreds and hundreds of parents, just like you, finally get peace in their own homes. The Wipe Out Whining Action Guide is an easy to follow action plan that will show you the secrets to end whining right now so you and your child can have a better, less stressful, more peaceful life… for only $37!

You see, from my side of things, I know that life can be better. Not next year. Not five years from now. Not after they graduate from high school. But things can be better in just a few days! Why would you keep suffering when relief is so close? I have seen it hundreds of times in working with every type of family, every style of parenting, and every variation of a strong willed or oppositional child. They all get it! Every child gets it… WHEN you get it.

What You Get With The Wipe Out Whining Step-by-Step Package

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In the Wipe Out Whining Package, you get a downloadble ebook which you can read right away. You also get my Wipe Out Whining mp3 audio program, which you can listen to immediately. Then, Kids Getting Along in the Car ebook which you can read right away. In addtion, as my gift to you, I have included my A-Z Collection of Parenting Articles — yours free with this package.

Let me break the package down for you:

  • INSTANT DOWNLOAD

The Wipe Out Whining Step-by-Step Guide
(Value $47)

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In Wipe Out Whining Guide, I explain how to shift your reactions to their whining, so they can learn to ask without whining. They also learn to listen to you. You don’t force it… you allow them to learn! Once again… I repeat myself, but this is the secret. Setting up a home environment where you control what they care about in a way that they can learn quickly and easily… that’s it’s! It’s that simple.

I also give you the hidden key ingredient to your actions… that shift your child’s reactions. If you master this key ingredient… they will learn to change by following your lead. If you fail to master it… they will fail to master their emotions. In the Wipe Out Whining Action Guide, I explain how this works, and why your child’s short term AND long term future are dependent upon mastering emotions early in life.

  • INSTANT DOWNLOAD

The Wipe Out Whining Audio Download MP3 (Value $47)

wipe_out_whining_boxYou also get instant access to my mp3 audio recording of this information. This information is closely aligned with the information in the guide book, it simply serves as an alternative learning tool to help you master this information.

This audio program gives you an alternative way to learn these vital lessons. You can download to your Ipod, your computer, or burn the mp3 to a CD and play it in your car. This $47 program is included FREE as a bonus with this new package.

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The A-Z Collection of Parenting Tips (Value $47)

parenting-tips-coverI am also providing you an amazing FREE Bonus with my A-Z Parenting Collection of Parenting Tips. This is a manual of published articles that I have selected from hundreds of articles I have written over the years. The goal is to give you as much information as possible to help you get through every future obstacle you may encounter. Many of these articles form the foundation for my other products.

These articles touch upon everything from daily routines, to homework struggles, to responsibilities, to respect and disrespect, and sibling choices. While not a comprehensive guide book with all these topics, each article does give you a clear sense of the mistakes that you can make, and how to correct them.

This guide (a $39.95 value) is included as a FREE bonus that you get to keep, even if you decide this program isn’t right for you.

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While video games, and in the car DVD players have greatly eased travelling with the kids, there are many times when the whining continues to CRAZY LOUD LEVELS when you are in the car. GUESS WHAT: I have created a special Ebook just for this purpose. You can teach the kids to travel peacefully within a few short days…. and NEVER have to listen to the whining about stopping at McDonald’s or wanting to go home… or whatever. It’s another tested solution that works flawlessly!

This $47 program is also included FREE with your investment in the Wipe Out Whining Guide.

The Wipe Out Whining Step-by-Step Guide, with Bonuses, sells for $180.95. But you don’t pay anything close to that today.
You pay only  $47.00  today for the whole package.
On Special for $37.00

I give so much in this package because I want you to not only get life changing information, but I want you as a life-time customer. You will have many questions that I can help you with, and once you see the value of these products, I feel certain that it is worth the risk. I want you to be happy, and I want you to keep reaching out for me when you have a need (I will show you how to do that).

9 Ways My Tested and Proven ‘Wipe Out Whining’ Guide Will Work For You And Your Child

  • You’ll discover exactly what to do, when to do it and exactly how to do it. No psychobabble to confuse you!
  • You will master a clear, simple plan that works for all ages and child personalities. No exceptions!
  • You will know precisely what to say to your child to make sure that the learning occurs quickly. A few powerful words only!
  • You will understand what you need to do in every situation, whether at home or in public.
  • You discover how to stop trying to avoid whining and use it to teach your child the proper way to react.
  • You discover how to respond so that your energy and attention isn’t wasted.
  • You discover how to stop working hard to solve things for them.
  • You will discover remarkably simple ways to control your environment.
  • You also discover how your peace of mind immediately helps to bring calmness to your child.

Stop Whining Cold

The Wipe Out Whining guide gives you a clear, straight forward game plan that tells you exactly what you need to do and how to do it. No more theory and untested approaches. You get the formula that works time and time again. This plan is different. The results you get end child whiningwill be different… it will transform your home. I promise it, and stand behind your investment.

Look, I want to be very clear with you in your struggle with whining. This step-by-step guide brings you a solution that works the wide majority of time. If it doesn’t work for you, you will see that I stand behind this unconditionally. It either works like it has for hundreds of families and you wake up a week or so from now realizing that this was an amazing bargain, or you let me know it didn’t work for you, and get your money back.

By the way, if you were to consult with me to get this information, it would likely involve 4-6 sessions of family therapy at a cost of $680.00 to $1020.00. You get the advantage of this information that distills years of clinical experience into a simple, practical guide… with a proven track record. But I’m not charging $1020.00 for this valuable resource (I’m only charging a fraction of that for Wipe Out Whining step-by-step guide).

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Dr. Cale’s Big 3

“3 Really BIG Reasons Why You Should Invest Now, And Try The Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles Program… While You Still Can!”

1. Do you REALLY want to keep struggling with bedtimes when you can be over this in a week or so?

My grandmother always told me, The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result, and even worse is doing nothing at all.

2. Because you are frustrated and tired of that useless whining, I invite you to imagine a home free of those battles, the yelling, the meltdowns… and then decide if that relief isn’t worth at least 100 times the cost of this amazing step-by-step action plan.
3. In the time it takes to read another useless article promoting ideas never really tested, you can download this action plan, and be on your way to a happier home. Please don’t procrastinate, I want to help you… and this action plan will give you the tools to teach your child to end those whining… for good!

Here’s the deal. Invest in this guide. Follow the detailed plan. You can easily test the guide for yourself… and follow the clear directions. Once you’ve used these strategies in your own home, I’m confident you will want to keep it.

But, if you aren’t satisfied for any reason, or it doesn’t live up to your expectations, you won’t be out one red cent. Just return the course and we’ll refund the cost of the Guide. It’s that simple.

I often wonder why parents hesitate to take action now… since the benefit of this guide will bring daily peace to your home and ensure your child stops whining. For less than a couple of movie tickets you get Wipe Out Whining guide sent directly to your email, there is no waiting and no shipping cost.

And there’s no risk for you! If you apply the principles in this guide, and it doesn’t work for you… just send me an email and you will get your money back!

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What You Need To Do Right Now

You can end the struggle, frustration, and anger that whining causes. It’s all up to you, if you are ready to discover the secrets then you need to order Wipe Out Whining guide today.

You will instantly have access to Wipe Out Whining guide that gives you the tools to stop whining and get back your life. It’s not like they grow out of it. Unless you show them the way, whining will just continue to get worse.

Order right now and give your child and yourself the life you both deserve…. you really have nothing to lose but the maddening whining that is wrecking your sanity…

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Dr. Cale, I’m Ready To End
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  • I understand that if I use your professional, time proven step-by-step action plan, I will have a strategy to end whining once and for all.
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You really can end your frustration and worries over your child’s negative remarks, whining voice and complaining attitude. You just need to do something that works… not just for a few days… but a permanent solution that calms and brings more peace to your child!

If whatever you’ve tried in the past to get your child to stop whining and complaining always leads back to your child whining and complaining even more, you need what has worked for hundreds of parents in your frustrating, exhausting situation… you need the Wipe Out Whining Guide. It works! And I stand behind it with my 100% unconditional money back guarantee.

To your success,

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Randy L. Cale, PhD
Licensed Psychologist

P.S. – The Wipe Out Whining Guide has brought relief to hundreds of parents and ended their constant exhaustion and worry over their child’s excessive whining and complaining behaviors because the program really works to stop the whining and complaining!

P.P.S. – If you follow the clear plan in the Wipe Out Whining Guide, your family can be a success story too! Remember that you’re completely covered by my guarantee – if you’re not happy with the program for any reason, simply return the program to receive a full refund. No questions asked!

P.P.P.S. – If you are dealing with a whining, complaining child, and want relief… you have found a solution here. The only question now is whether or not you recognize that your search has been successful, and that you have no risk if you buy this proven program to end the whining and complaining.

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Complaining, whining and negotiating

The Whining, Complaining Bored Child

whining_pouting_girlHave you noticed that most parenting experts have nothing to say about whiners and complainers? It all sounds like the same stuff you’ve heard before, and you notice it doesn’t really address the problem. Plus, it just gets worse.

Help for the Whiner: So, here’s a real approach. It’s been tested, and it works! I have used this with hundreds of families where their child was whining and complaining. The same strategy works with the child who just seems to be constantly focusing on the negative.

Over the years, I’ve heard dozens of stories of children returning to the hotel after a day at Disney World, and then complaining to Mom or Dad that they are bored. Or perhaps, they begin to whine because they didn’t get what they wanted for dinner, or because they didn’t get an extra ride on their favorite.

The Core Problem: Finding a
way to see lack, when
there is plenty!

w14Many of the children who come to my practice live in relative affluence, with access to a wide variety of toys, activities, and stimulation. They have loving parents who care about them, and yet they whine and complain constantly. The solution for these negatively focused children is not antidepressants; it’s paying attention to how parents are unknowingly nurturing and shaping their negative, complaining attitude.

All children whine and complain at times, but some children spend an inordinate amount of time complaining about their lives, looking at what’s not right rather than appreciating all that’s available to them. Unfortunately, many adults do the same thing. If you sit at the dinner table complaining about what’s wrong in your life, your children will learn from your example.

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3 Common Mistakes That Will Make Child Whining Worse
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You really want to pay attention to this first and foremost. Why?

Because you can’t escape what you model for your kids. If you model that you notice what’s wrong (when there is so much other stuff to focus on), then your kids MUST GET IT. You are teaching them to focus on what’s not working. In essence, you may be the complainer who is teaching them what to focus on.

Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles

“Discover The Secret To Ending The Nightly Struggles With Bath, Bedtime Routine, And Getting The Kids To Sleep”

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“In Less Time Than It Takes To Wash and Dry A Load Of Clothes You Can Uncover The Psychologist’s Secret To Ending Your Nightly Bedtime Struggles… And See Amazing Results In Under Than 10 Days!”

Look, I have been helping parents who struggle, fight and even cry out loud because their child will not go to bed on time. While I have found different approaches work with some kids and not others, there is one SECRET STRATEGY that you must master IF YOU WANT TO QUICKLY ELIMINATE THOSE NIGHTLY BEDTIME STRUGGLES FROM YOUR FAMILY.

“Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles” program action plan teaches your child to go to bed on time – and stay there, and shows you exactly how to do it… IN JUST 7 DAYS OR LESS – WITHOUT ANY Drugs…

  • Even if – you’ve unsuccessfully tried other approaches that worked for a while and then stopped.
  • Even if – your child’s nightly fights are so bad you can’t imagine how life would be like without them.
  • Even if – your son or daughter is unusually strong-willed, stubborn or even diagnosed with some other condition.

This approach has been tested and proven with hundreds and hundreds of children, with all variations of nighttime problems, from the most typical to most extreme.

testimonialpic“Hey Doc. Just a quick note. I bought this program because I thought it would be a good gift for my wife, who goes crazy with the kids every night…getting them to bed. I work late, and she is a mess by the time I get home. As it turns out, the Bye Bye Bedtime Battles program saved the day. NOW, when I get home, we can have some real time tighter. We have some time to ourselves…that is quality time. Thanks!”
Ray Edwards, Father of 4 boys

Dear Mom or Dad,

siblings_dont_want_to_sleepAre you ready to pull your hair out because the nightly battle to get your kid to bed just gets worse every day? Are you exhausted from the just the thought of going through another round?

The common advice doesn’t seem to work with YOUR CHILD… and you wonder why? You bedtime battles have tried everything (you think). You have negotiated. You have been kind. You have tried to talk it out. You have tried being firm. You have gotten angry. You have gotten frustrated, and you have done the time-out thing! It’s really frustrating… right!

And do you wonder if something is wrong… with your son? Your daughter? With YOU???

But guess what… there is nothing wrong… with anyone here. When I first started helping other parents who had children who were out of control, I just followed the traditional ways I had learned and used myself. Sometimes this strategy worked, and sometimes it didn’t. Then I tried other approaches I had been taught in graduate school, and again… it was hit or miss… especially with certain children.

Then, I discovered the key! It was like a hidden secret ingredient that made everything come together. I would like to claim some genius ability in pulling this out of all my research and experience, but that is not the case. I really just discovered this solution because I worked with so many families who were struggling and I had so many chances to learn the ONE ESSENTIAL CHANGE that every parent must make to stop bedtime battles… regardless of whether your child is 3 or 13!

This may surprise you: The truth is that most of what causes this problem to get worse is the misleading, and inaccurate advice you are given in magazines, books and yes… even your pediatrician’s office. When you discover how easily you can change these bedtime battles… you just may want to write a few letters of your own!

boy_having_a_good_sleepOkay, I did say “how easily you can change these bedtime battles”… didn’t I? Well, compared to another meltdown at bedtime, or another struggle to keep your kids in bed, or another night sleeping with your child… this easy to follow, step-by-step action plan will be a walk in the park. Yet, I don’t want to deceive you here… there will be a few tough days ahead… and for a select few of you, you may have a week or so where you have to stick firmly to the action plan.

But the learning is quick, and the change become immediately noticed… even with the most stubborn and oppositional kids. My system works, and it works quickly. I guarantee it.

 

First Let Me Tell You What My Easy To Use Action Plan Is NOT

  • It does not require any new gadgets, or the idea of a magical tool.
  • It is not some ordinary advice, this works with every child and every personality.
  • It does not require long hours of sessions and counseling.
  • It does not cost a fortune. Not just being the greatest solution for fussy eating ever, it’s also the cheapest, costing much less than your lunch out with the family.

dr_cale_parents_pschologistA Radically Different Approach to Bedtimes

Hi, my name is Dr. Randy Cale and for the past 23 years I have helped thousands of parents, just like you master and overcome the daily struggles that all parents face.

My passion to help parents by using practical, real life strategies that gets real results has lead me to be featured in the Wall Street Journal, on NBC and on Fox News— just to name a few.

I am often referred to as “The Parent’s Psychologist” by pediatricians, teachers and the media… as well as the parents I work with. The reason for this is the fact that I focus (well… let’s call it an obsession) on helping parents master the skills to get you through the daily struggles and challenges we all face.

“How I Can Help You Win The War
Over Bedtime Battles”

But recently, I have developed a report called “Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles” program and it can and will help you and your family. If you’d like to end those useless battles over bedtimes, stop the endless fighting and arguing, and ensure that your children are getting the sleep that they need, then this might be the most important letter you’ll ever read.

Here’s why:

“Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles” program is a one of a kind report developed specifically for parents struggling with all types of bedtime battles.

From toddlers who won’t stay in bed, to middle-schoolers who won’t turn off the TV, there is a clear formula that works. From children’s bedtime fears to kids who whine relentlessly, you will get a comprehensive solution that has a proven track record.

“What Will You Get Out Of This Revolutionary Report?”

  • You will discover a system that brings hours of needless arguing and whining to an end.
  • You will discover how to gain control over bedtime routines.
  • You will discover the hidden secret to why your kids keep fighting you.
  • You will discover that you have the power to end the craziness.
  • You will nurture a better relationship with your kids.
  • You and your children will sleep with more peace and happiness.
  • You will discover how to use your energy to maintain consistency.
  • You discover automatic routines that requires less of your energy.
  • You will discover the critical pieces that makes evenings flow easily.
  • Your kids will respect your request for getting ready for bed.

My focus is exclusively upon helping parents with problems. I have responded to the questions that parents ask me, and have developed The “Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles” program because there is not a clear solution available for parents.

But let me take a moment to let you know exactly what my report is not.

Great, Nice Ideas That Will NOT Solve Your Nightly Bedtime Struggles:

  • Healthy bedtime snacks
  • Kid’s bedtime stories
  • Children bedtime music
  • Calling grandpa, dad, grandma, or someone else to tell the kids, “It’s bedtime” or “It’s past your bedtime.”
  • Reading another article on children’s bedtime tips

Now don’t get me wrong, reading to your children is great, but its not going to fix your problem.

In fact, a lot of these are good for your child, a lot of these are even helpful, but none of these will really work to get your child to go to bed because none of these contain the REAL SOLUTION.

They are basically Band-Aids that stop the bleeding for a day or two.

You could also read a book or two, and come up with your own plan. But why waste the time with ideas that haven’t been proven?

I am amazed at the parenting advice on the market that has no basis in research, and no understanding of behavior management with children. Most of those ideas simply don’t work.

You should really check it out… and discover this for yourself!

“Be Careful… Not All Parenting Advice Is Equal”

So there are other options… but be careful. It would be a mistake to assume that all parenting advice is equal… it’s not.

Many times, you will find well-intentioned parents giving advice, and writing books, based upon their experiences. They have a sample of maybe 2-3-4 children…for most. And they may have gotten lucky! It’s easy to offer advice… when you have an easy child. We all know that!

So… seek an expert who has worked with literally thousands of families, and with children of all types of personalities… from the easy to the most oppositional and challenging. I’ve been there… with every type of child and every disposition. I have walked this path with families just like yours… and this report includes the lessons I’ve learned with all those years of experience.

“How ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ Program WILL Work For You And Your Child…”

  • You can complete this entire report in less than an hour!
    • You don’t wade through pages upon pages of words.
  • My approach is not complex… in fact… it’s quite simple.
    • You don’t need to study this for weeks to get started!
  • There is no need for massive changes in your home.
    • Anyone can easily implement this report
  • This proven formula has been refined with many challenging children.
    • This means you see results with your kids
  • You get clear, specific instructions and guidance.
    • You don’t struggle through psycho-babble to get the plan… it’s all laid out for you already
  • There is no prolonged period of gradual change.
    • Your kids learn to accept their new routine within days
  • The report teaches you a formula to end every bedtime battle.
    • No one needs to go to bed upset again
  • Your kids will learn to abandon their battles over bedtime.
    • Finally… you can kiss your kids goodnight in peace

Why Keep Suffering With Bedtime Battles?
Here’s The Answer!

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Customer Success Stories

“I was hesitant to believe that this Bedtime Battles plan could work. I tried everything, and Dr. Cale, you made it sound a bit too easy…to be honest. BECAUSE it’s wasn’t that easy at first…but then, just like you said, things turned around quickly. What a relief…from all the battles, the arguing, the negotiations…and late bedtimes! Within days, the kids were in bed on time, without a hassle, and life is SO much better. I’m not one to make suggestions to others…so I can only say that I personally got more out of this little program than I have from dozens of other books on parenting. Thanks for making this available…the program was fantastic (even if the first couple days were really really tough!)

Ava Gardner, Mother of 2

There is no more screaming ugly words from my son. There are no more extended bedtimes. There are no more frustrated goodnights, and angry “go to bed NOW.” It’s all working smooth. Thanks to the Bye Bye Bedtime Battles guide. What a simple, but practical set of tools. Thanks!

Melissa, Mother of 3 from Minnesota

How To Stop Bedtime Battles!

If you want the nightly fights over bedtimes to stop, you must have a clear game plan to change things. If you don’t have a clear game plan, you will fall into old patterns, and end up making things worse with half-baked ideas and ill-conceived strategies.

You actually end up losing control of your home and your life. You find yourself dancing around your child’s demands, and feeling embarrassed and angered that you don’t have more control over things.

Ultimately, your child ends up “driving the bus”! The long term picture can get very ugly. Your whole world can end up revolving around futile, but exhausting, efforts to avoid conflict. Your whole life can be squeezed of every ounce of joy by a teenager who hasn’t learned to control their emotions.

End Bedtime Battles Before They Grow
Into Something Much Worse

Before deciding that you really need to do this now… not later… just pause for a second: Can you actually imagine a teenage body, with teenage hormones, reacting with teenage emotions, but filled with uncontrolled teenage-size defiance? It’s UGLY!

You may not want to imagine this scene… because I have seen it… and I understand. It’s beyond ugly. It’s beyond painful. It’s beyond your worst nightmare. Family life is lost. Futures are needlessly surrendered to detention, constant mental health counseling, endless timeouts, and threats of family court help just to bring sanity to the home.

But you can prevent that scene by taking action now! Get my Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles Step-by-Step Guide.

You Deserve Better… And Your Child Deserves
A Better Future

pic3With an understanding of the lessons I have learned over the years, you can alter the immediate and the long term future for you and your child. Not only do you save your bedtimes time and energy, by not wasting it with endless theories that only work with some children some of the time… but you get an action plan that includes the key ingredient that I have found essential to success for every child.

While I write this, I know some of you are skeptical and that’s okay. I probably would be too. But I have created a simple, step-by-step action plan that has helped hundreds and hundreds of parents, just like you, finally get peace in their own homes. The ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ program is an easy to follow action plan that will show you the secrets to ending nightly fights over bedtimes right now so you and your child can have a better, less stressful, more peaceful life… for only $17!

You see, from my side of things, I know that life can be better. Not next year. Not five years from now. Not after they graduate from high school.

But things can be better in just a few days! Why would you keep suffering when relief is so close? I have seen it hundreds of times in working with every type of family, every style of parenting, and every variation of a strong willed or oppositional child. They all get it! Every child gets it… WHEN you get it.

mother_and_daughter_bedtimeWhat To Expect With
The ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ Program

In ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ program, I explain how to set up their world so they can learn to listen to you. You don’t force it… you allow them to learn! Once again… I repeat myself, but this is the secret. Setting up a home environment where you control what they care about in a way that they can learn quickly and easily… that’s it’s! It’s that simple.

I also give you the hidden key ingredient to your actions… that shift your child’s reactions. If you master this key ingredient… they will learn to change by following your lead. If you fail to master it… they will fail to master their emotions. In the “Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles” program, I explain how this works, and why your child’s short term AND long term future are dependent upon mastering emotions early in life.

9 Ways My Tested and Proven ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ Program Will Work For You And Your Child

  1. You’ll discover exactly what to do, when to do it and exactly how to do it. No psychobabble to confuse you!
  2. You will master a clear, simple plan that works for all ages and child personalities. No exceptions!
  3. You will know precisely what to say to your child to make sure that the learning occurs quickly. A few powerful words only!
  4. You will understand what you need to do in every situation.
  5. You discover how to stop trying to avoid tantrums over bedtimes and use them to teach your child the proper way to react.
  6. You discover how to respond so that your energy and attention isn’t wasted…
  7. You discover how to stop working hard to solve things for them.
  8. You will discover remarkably simple ways to control your environment.
  9. You also discover how your peace of mind immediately helps to bring calmness to your child.

Stop Bedtime Battles Cold

The ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ program gives you a clear, straight forward game plan that tells you exactly what you need to do and how to do it. No more theory and untested approaches. You get the formula that works time and time again. This plan is different. The results you get will be different… it will transform your home. I promise it, and stand behind your investment.

Look, I want to be very clear with you in your struggle with bedtimes. This report brings you a solution that works the wide majority of time. If it doesn’t work for you, you will see that I stand behind this unconditionally. It either works like it has for hundreds of families and you wake up a week or so from now realizing that this was an amazing bargain, or… you let me know it didn’t work for you, and get your money back.

By the way, if you were to consult with me to get this information, it would likely involve 4-6 sessions of family therapy at a cost of $680.00 to $1020.00. You get the advantage of this information that distills years of clinical experience into a simple, practical report… with a proven track record. But I’m not charging $1020.00 for this valuable resource… I’m only charging a fraction of that for the ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ program.

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Dr. Cale’s Big 3

“3 Really BIG Reasons Why You Should Invest Now, And Try The Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles Program… While You Still Can!”

1. Do you REALLY want to keep struggling with bedtimes when you can be over this in a week or so?

My grandmother always told me, The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result, and even worse is doing nothing at all.

2. Because you are likely in some pain over bedtimes, I invite you to imagine a home free of those battles, the yelling, the meltdowns… and then decide if that relief isn’t worth 10 times the cost of this focused step-by-step action plan.
3. In the time it takes to read another semi-worthless website article, you can download this action plan, and be on your way to a happier home. Please don’t procrastinate, I want to help you… and this action plan will give you the tools to teach your child to end those bedtime meltdowns… for good!

Here’s the deal. Invest in this Report. Follow the detailed plan. You can easily test the Report for yourself… and follow the clear directions. Once you’ve used these strategies in your own home, I’m confident you will want to keep it.

But, if you aren’t satisfied for any reason, or it doesn’t live up to your expectations, you won’t be out one red cent. Just return the course and we’ll refund the cost of the Report. It’s that simple.

I often wonder why parents hesitate to take action now… since the benefit of this report will bring daily peace to your home and ensure your child goes to bed the first time, every time. For less than a couple of movie tickets you get ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ program sent directly to your email, there is no waiting and no shipping cost.

And there’s no risk for you! If you apply the principles in this report, and it doesn’t work for you… just send me an email and you will get your money back!

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What You Need To Do Right Now

You can end the struggle, frustration, and anger that bedtimes cause. It’s all up to you, if you are ready to discover the secrets then you need to order the ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ program today.

You will instantly have access to the ‘Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles’ program that gives you the tools to stop the nightly fights and arguments and get back your life. It’s not like they grow out of it. Unless you show them the way, bedtime battles will just continue to get worse.

Order right now and give your child and yourself the life you both deserve… you really have nothing to lose but the maddening bedtimes that are wrecking your sanity…

Here’s what you get in
Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles Download Package

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In the Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles Package, you get a downloadble ebook which you can read right away. You also get my Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles mp3 audio program, which you can listen to immediately. In addtion, as my gift to you, I have included my A-Z Collection of Parenting Articles — yours free with this package.

Let me break the package down for you:

Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles Downloadable Ebook
($47.00 value)

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The Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles Ebook is not a simple discussion of the child just getting kids to bed easily. Instead, it is a clinically tested step-by-step advance program for ending bedtime battles, stopping the whining and procrastination, and it gives you the tools to get your kids get to bed on time — every night without a battle.

Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles MP3 Audio Program
($47.00 value)

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The MP3 Audio Program is also downloadable immediately, and you can listen to this on your computer or on your MP3 player (such as your IPOD). This audio program is like having Dr. Cale as your personal coach, as he guides you through each part of the step-by-step advance formula for ending bedtime battles.

This audio program alone is a $47.00 value, but is included free as part of this package.

The A-Z Collection of Parenting Articles
(Sells for $29.95 but Yours Free)

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Over the years, I’ve written dozens and dozens of articles for magazine, newspapers, and for the internet. These articles cover a wide range of topics, from whining, to temper tantrums, to morning routines, bedtime routines, self-confidence, homework habits, self-esteem, negativity, optimism, and the list goes on and on…

As my gift to you, I’m including my A-Z collection of parenting articles. This is a group of over 32 articles, and provide you with the strong foundation for how to respond to a wide variety of situations.

This product is sold separately on other websites of mine for $29.95.

Again however, this gift is free to you with The Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles Program.

The total cost of this package is: $123.95

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In the Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles program, I provide you with a complete solution to your bedtime battles problem. For less than the cost of your cable bill, you can transform your stubborn sleeper… and bring relief to your family today! Wouldn’t it be wonderful to just relax about this?

In the Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles program, I provide you with a complete solution to your bedtime battles problem. For less than the cost of your cable bill, you can transform your stubborn sleeper… and bring relief to your family today! Wouldn’t it be wonderful to just relax about this?

What Do You Get For Your $17 Investment?

  • You get a program that you can put to work immediately.
  • You get a practical solution that requires no detailed preparation.
  • You get the benefit of years of clinical training and expertise.
  • You get a formula that addresses every bedtime battle or your money back.

And remember: There is no risk. This program will work for you or you get your money back. I have confidence in this program because I have successfully used this approach again and again. The strategies have been refined with years of clinical experience, and you benefit both the success and failures of other families. I have been able to identify the core ingredients that eliminate bedtime battles, and put you on the path to greater peace at bedtime!

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Not ready to buy yet? Perhaps you are thinking this program isn’t for you? Maybe not.

But the program really works. I guarantee it! It can bring relief to those crazy bedtime battles… and life can be more peaceful and predictable.

How can I be absolutely certain this will work for you? The reality is that I can’t. However, I do know this program has worked for hundreds of other families dealing with difficult and challenging children.

This program has worked with kids who are:

yes oppositional, yes negative,
yes defiant, yes grumpy,
yes ADD, yes anxious,
yes strong-willed, yes angry,
yes spoiled, yes and the list goes on.

Here Is What You Will Get Out
Of This Program:

  • You will learn the hidden secret to why your kids keep fighting you when it’s time to go to bed.
  • You will learn how to use your energy and attention to support a consistent bedtime routine.
  • You will learn how to set up a routine that becomes automatic and requires less and less of your energy.
  • You will develop ways to nurture a stronger relationship with your children, so that they look forward to ending the evening on a positive note.
  • You will learn how important it is to maintain a consistent structure and specific details to make that structure work effortlessly.
  • You also get a prescription on how to make sure that bath time, brushing teeth, and getting settled down for the evening can get built into a simple and predictably routine.
  • You will learn about the mistakes to avoid that will undermine your success, not only in the short term, but throughout the rest of their childhood.
  • You get a plan that is simple, easy to use, and most importantly, easy to maintain. It actually teaches your children to take responsibility for their evening routines, rather than you taking more and more responsibility, as they get older and older.

The reality is that you won’t find another product like this one. You can search the web, go through the books, and you won’t find a program that gives you a simple, easy to use, proven plan that will make the evening routines go smoothly.

If you are ready for the change, and you are willing to put energy into making things different, this plan will work for you! And guess what! If it doesn’t, just let me know, and I will refund your money.

That’s how much confidence I have in every product here at Terrific Parenting. If you purchase this product, and you master the components of the program, and then put it to use for thirty days, I am certain your home will be more peaceful, more consistent, and your children will be happier.

Now, if you would like your evening routines to go smoothly, and to get rid of those bedtime battles, click here to purchase Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles. Remember, you can purchase this NOW as a a downloadable ebook and MP3 audio program (which you can read and listen to immediately), and we will mail the program to you.

When you purchase this program it is possible that you could be making a difference in your home immediately, as you have the option of including a downloadable MP3 version of this program when you check out. In other words, within minutes, you can listen to the program and have the system in place by your child’s next bedtime.

When you purchase, you will know what to do, when to do it, and exactly how to do it. Nothing is left up in the air. You will know how to set up a system of bedtime success that makes life easier for you and easier for your kids.

“Why Get Frustrated, Lose Your Cool And Keep Battling With Your Kids Over Bedtime?”

  • Why struggle over such routine tasks, when you don’t have to?
  • Why battle over routines that have to be done every day?
  • Why surrender your happiness and peace over such routine tasks?
  • Why are you working harder at this than your kids are?

The bottom line is that you shouldn’t be. You don’t have to live with this. You can feel the difference in only days – if you use this program. You can get relief now! To BUY now, click on the box below. Enjoy freedom from bedtime battles!

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  • I understand that if I use your professional, time proven step-by-step action plan, I will have a strategy to end all these useless battles at bedtime.
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PS: One final note to remember.

Your child’s last thoughts and emotions and memories of the day are what follow them to their dreams. When the bedtime routines are filled with struggle and fights, that frustration is the emotion that they ride to sleep upon.

You can avoid that will one simple decision. Download the program now, and try it tonight. You have nothing to lose (with my money back guarantee!). No risk to you.

PSS: In reality, it’s a simple decision.

If you are reading this, then you and I both know that bedtime routines are a problem, and the lack of a clear game plan at bedtime is disturbing your life…and the lives of your children. So…

Let me gently remind you:

  • There is no need to battle, argue and negotiate.
  • Your children can go to bed with only warm, loving memories of the day
  • You can go to bed without the frustration of the battles and negotiations
  • And…Your day can begin on time, with children well-rested and ready for life.

How Can It Possibly Be Worth Waiting Another Day, Surviving Another Night Of All That Misery…
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Bedtime battles

Bedtime Battles To Bedtime Bliss

Do you find yourself wondering…

  • Do you find yourself dreading the bedtime routine?
  • Is the bedtime routine really more like bedtime chaos?
  • Is it a constant struggle and battle to get the children to bed on time?
  • Are the kids constantly whining and complaining when they know they have to go to bed?
  • Do you have struggles getting them away from the TV and off the computer, order or off the telephone?
  • Does everyone end up going to bed in a state of frustration and unhappiness?
  • Do you have trouble keeping the kids in their beds, healing after they go to bed?

siblings_dont_want_to_sleepIf you are struggling with any of these issues, then welcome to reality; there are many parents who do.  In fact, it’s one of the most common questions that I handle when making presentations to parents.

There’s a reason why this is such a difficult set of circumstances.  It is a situation where you have limited leverage with the kids and it requires a clear and concise plan in order to get the kids to bed easily and effortlessly.

There are some kids who don’t like to go to bed. They will fight you every step of the way.  And yet there are other kids who will go to bed without a single word.  It’s just the way it is.

What’s important is to understand that the kids who will fight you on going to bed require that you have a better plan than they do.  If they fight you, and you simply fight back, this is not a plan.  This is a battle!  And you don’t want to get in a battle every night before bedtime.

So what’ s the solution?  You have got to have a better plan.

The plan for an effective bedtime routine is probably one of the more complicated and demanding parenting plans that you’ll have to deal with.  It just takes more precision and clarity than do many circumstances.  Why?  Because you have relatively little leverage with the kids once it’s time for bed.

As a result, it becomes critically important to use the leverage that you do have, and to set up a program that gradually and consistently teaches the children that it makes sense to go to bed, rather than deal with the consequences.

Three Patterns You Must Avoid!

1. You must avoid verbal and physical battles over TV, toys, computer, phone, and video games.

If you’re engaging in battles with kids on a consistent basis over these items, this is a losing plan. We have to get you out of these battles.

You notice that the more you battle with the kids, the more you keep battling. If you win the battle tonight after 18 minutes of struggles and quarreling, you can bet that next month that battle will take you 22 minutes to win. It just keeps getting worse, if you keep engaging in the battle.

2. You must stop using threats that have no impact.

Many parents end up frustrated and out-of-control emotionally. When you are in reaction mode, you are likely to make some poor choices about what to say.

One of the most ineffective strategies is to start threatening to take away things. This won’t make a difference.

A sister version of the same ineffective strategy is to try to bribe the kids with something that they want – if they go to bed throughout the week. In other words, offering to buy them a new CD if they get to bed on time is not a long-term strategy that is going to work.

In general, it never works to try to purchase behavior. If you go down that path, you’ll always be trying to buy their behavior. The problem is that your pocketbook isn’t that deep. More problematic is the fact that you have gained no respect for your authority as a parent by buying behavior. Stay away. Stay away. Stay away from this!

3. You must not lose control emotionally.

When you lose it emotionally, you go into reaction mode. When you react, you yell. You scream. You threaten. You say ugly things.

You become emotionally charged, and your children become emotionally charged.

Can this possibly work to create a comfortable, loving, and peaceful way to move into a sleepful state? Of course not!

It takes your kids into the opposite direction that you want. It takes you into the opposite direction that you want. The more reactive you become, the more likely it is that you are feeding – and worsening – the very behavior that you are trying to correct.

As you become emotional and reactive, this energizes your children’s emotions. It makes it more likely that they are going to do battle. If you are successful in getting them to beds in this situation, it is more likely that their adrenaline is flowing, and that it is going to be harder to get to sleep. This then creates another layer of difficulties.

So what’s the solution? Here are the basics:

1. Get clear about your expectations.

mother_and_daughter_bedtimeWhat bedtime makes sense to you? What’s the routine leading up to bedtime? What daily structure and flow of events is going to make for an easy routine? It’s important to get clear about all of these things.

There are certain routines that are going to make the final bedtime process easier. These routines per se do not guarantee you success; they do, however, make it easier to get on the path toward success.

What would be a simple example of this? A very simple and straightforward example would be that many kids often put up a battle when it is time to take their bath and get on their P.J.’s right before bed. (Again, remember my comment from earlier in this article. You don’t have much leverage, if you have waited until 8:15 p.m. and their bedtime is 9:00 p.m.) Turn this around.

As soon as dinner is over, make sure the kids are off to do their bath, get their P.J.’s on and get ready for bed – before any watching TV or playing with games or toys.

This simple notion of making sure that they have completed their preparations for bed, before you allow an opportunity to play, is a key ingredient. It’s one of the essential tools that give you a clue to the underlying principal that I often talk about in my workshops and in my program materials.

When we study kids who are successful, and who move through life with relative ease, we find that a simple pattern is easily observed.

The pattern?

Parents have taught their kids to take care of work and responsibilities, before play and down time. This simple pattern begins to emerge in the morning routine, the afternoon routine, and the evening routine. It’s evident in the way the kids get up in the morning and take care of responsibilities. It’s evident in the afternoon when they do their homework and a few chores before they play. It also shows up at bedtime, in completing responsibilities before there is an opportunity to play and have down time.

While this is not the only ingredient to a successful plan, it is a critical component. Do not ignore the importance of this, if you are struggling with bedtime routines.

In the “Bedtime Battles to Bedtime Bliss” CD program, you’ll find more details in a precise methodology for establishing a structure. In particular, I’ll spend a great deal of time on the following:

2. Controlling the Environment Rather Than Controlling Kids

The essential theme of effective parenting centers around how you teach children. We just don’t control kids. If we did have control, there would be no need for these materials. There would be no need for parenting books or programs. It would be more like having a well trained dog rather than a child. But this is not reality. We don’t have control, but we do have influence. The way in which we have the most influence is by learning how to master control of our environment – so kids can learn from their choices.

To move children from “Bedtime Battles to Bedtime Bliss” you’ll find that kids can learn from environmental consequences. Kids do not learn from words and lectures. Kids do not learn from threats and yelling. Kids do not learn from bribes and pleading. Kids don’t learn when you nag and remind and bug them to death.

When you exhibit those kinds of behaviors, kids just become more dependent upon you – rather than independent – in these routines. The goal is to create children who are independent in getting these things done.

boy_having_a_good_sleepIt is essential to understand how you begin to gain control of the environment, so that you don’t try to control your kids, but rather you teach your kids as a result of the choices they make. Depending on your household, there are a number of ways in which you can begin to implement environmental changes, to help teach a particular bedtime routine.

The first part of that is by using simple changes in the structure, where you require kids to take care of their bath and shower and get their P.J.’s on before they sit down to watch a video or play a game with you. The second way you do that is by establishing clear limits by controlling the environment when they go over those limits.

If it’s 7:35 p.m., and bedtime is at 7:30 p.m. what do you do? The kids are still watching TV, and it’s now 7:40, what do you do? If you don’t want to battle with the kids, how can you begin to influence the environment, rather than try to control your child? If your child is now 10 years old, and you can no longer pick him up and carry him into the bedroom, how can you teach this limit?

I keep asking these questions to have you generate some ideas on your own. Let me give you a strong clue about this, however:

  • If your kids are watching TV and it’s past their bedtime, do you try to get them to turn off the TV or do you simply cut off the TV? You turn it off.
  • If your kids are playing with their toys, and it’s 15 minutes past their bedtime, do you ask them to put the toys away or do you take the toys? You take the toys.
  • If your teenager is on the phone at 9:30 p.m., and you’ve already informed her that there is no phone time after 9:00 o’clock, do you ask her to get off the phone, or do you disconnect the phone? You disconnect the phone.

These are the ways in which you begin to take control of your environment, in order to teach kids what the limit is on their behavior. For bedtime issues, you will state that the limit is based on a particular time. And you inform your children that you want them in their beds when that time arrives. It is that simple.

When trying to establish a limit on behavior, you must use consequences, and consequences come from controlling your environment.

On the Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles CD Program, I walk you through a detailed set of consequences for every kind of circumstance. If this is a significant struggle for you, this article will give you a sense of where you begin. However, the CD Program will offer you the full details.

I invite you to begin to consider the power of this concept. You teach limits – not by trying to control kids, but by controlling the environment that surrounds them. This is a core principal around which all effective parenting strategies work. It is built into every program that I offer, including the Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles CD program. To have a full appreciation for how this concept is applied when dealing with bedtime routines, I encourage you to check out the program.

As always, your satisfaction is guaranteed with any program you purchase through Terrific Parenting.com

bedtime_battles_linkWhether or not you Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles or not, it is an absolute must to remember that a learning process takes time. Your kids will be unhappy when you begin to make changes. They may sit around and whine and complain a bit. They may stomp their feet and jump up and down. They may not be happy when you take away their toys, or cut off the TV, or shut down the phone in the middle of a conversation. That’s okay.

Allow them to have their upset. Allow them to be frustrated or annoyed with you. Allow them to be unhappy about it. Allow them to go through a period of time when they fight you on this. BUT: you consistently demonstrate that you are willing to cease exquisite and complete control over your environment, while not attempting to control their reaction to it.

As you go through this process, it may take one or two weeks before things begin to smooth out. Expect a bit of a rocky road. As that rocky road begins to unfold however, there is a third essential component to keep in the forefront of your mind:

3. Start Investing in What You Want, Not What You Don’t Want.

If you are struggling with bedtime routines, notice how the “unwanted” behavior keeps sucking you in. You keep getting pulled into it, to argue, negotiate, nag, remind, bribe, plead, and, ultimately, end up screaming at it. You just keep investing more and more of your energy in what you don’t want, and expecting it to go away.

It doesn’t work that way. Instead, you have to allow for the whining, you have to allow for the unhappiness. You have to allow for the complaining, and not try to force it to go away. [Remember, you still have control over the environment. You just surrendered trying to control your child’s response to your choices as a parent.] Under this approach, you allow for all that unhappiness, whining, and complaining, or yelling at you because you cut off the TV or took away their toys. Allow for that, and give it no energy.

On the other hand, as you wait for something positive to happen, be ever so vigilant to “catch it” as soon as it shows up. As soon as you see a healthy choice, such as movement toward the bedroom, reengage with your kids.

When they are putting on their PJ’s, pop in and give them thumbs up. When they jump into the bathtub without an argument, give them a smile or talk to them for a minute or two. Even if they just spent 15 minutes stomping their feet and complaining about going to bed, reengage with them, as if nothing happened, once they climb into bed. (Of course if they are nasty with you, I would then disengage again.)

The bottom line: You can’t create a healthy bedtime routine by putting all of your energy into the bedtime battles. Instead, you must become more of a master of your own behavior, so that you don’t lose control and put your energy into the battles. In addition, you have to become a master of the environment and understand how to use structure in order to get some leverage over their behavior. While I have touched upon on it in this article, there are several other important components of this that give you significantly greater leverage. These are covered on the Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles CD program.

You will have to find ways to make sure that you are not investing your energy in what you don’t want, while, at the same time, gaining tools to enhance your control over the environment, rather than your children.

In my experience, these simple ideas almost always work. Did I say always? Yes, they almost always work.

Are some situations more difficult and challenging? Of course. If you find yourself in one of those situations, consider the “Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles” CD program. In that program you’ll learn the following:

  • The mindset needed to make the program work
  • At least three ways to establish simple structure in the bedtime routine
  • Precisely what to do when kids ignore your request to go to bed
  • A list of consequences that begin to make an impact over a one-or-two-week period of time
  • Ways to deal with kids who come into your bedroom at night
  • Ways to deal with kids who become irritable and grumpy at bedtime
  • What to do when kids don’t seem to need much sleep
  • 12 ways to gain control of the environment, rather than controlling kids
  • How to end the evening on a positive and pleasant note
  • How to work with younger kids and take advantage of their desire to connect before bedtime
  • And much more…

bedtime_battles_boxThis program is available in a CD format, or in a downloadable file (in other words, you can get this program in your hands right now!). While simple and straightforward, the program is loaded with details to cover every possible scenario. You’ll find a way to make the evening routines easier, or enjoyable, and perhaps most importantly automatic.

That’s really the key! It’s about creating routines that are automatic and do not require ongoing negotiation, and reminding, and management by parents.

For many parents, the bedtime battle issue is one that is constantly stripping away their joy and happiness. It often leads to a miserable ending to an otherwise pleasant day.

What is it worth to you? What is it worth to you to have these routines move smoothing and peacefully?

I know what parents tell me. Parents tell me that the relief they feel, makes it easier to come home at night.

  • They tell me that it’s fun to be with their kids again.
  • They tell me that, “It’s like I have a whole new family.”
  • They tell me, “The kids sleep better. I sleep better.”
  • They relate, “It’s easier to enjoy my children again.”
  • They also say, “The kids wake up refreshed and ready for school. Our life is better.”

They also say, “The kids wake up refreshed and ready for school. Our life is better.”

If you want to start improving a chaotic bedtime situation right now, get started with these principals right away. If you want the full program, consider the “Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles” program. You can order the CD, and you can listen to it at your pleasure, in your car or your home. Another option is to download this information immediately in a MP3 file, so you can begin today.

  • What if you could have a fraction of the struggles you now have?
  • What if your kids went to bed without a battle?
  • How much calmer would you sleep if you could end your days in a positive way with the kids?
  • How much better could your kids perform if they went to bed on time – without a struggle?
  • What if your evenings could be filled with ease and joy?
  • What would those changes be worth?

For an investment of 30 days of changing your approach, you can have these changes in your home. I encourage you to put these principals to use right away and to order the program Bye-Bye Bedtime Battles so you can have all the specifics of a comprehensive plan.

Temper Tantrums

Keys To Stop Temper Tantrums…Fast!

little_girl_cryingTemper tantrums can range from the mild tantrum, where your child is stomping her feet and giving ugly looks … to the more moderate forms of outbursts where she flop’s on the floor, yells or whines loudly, and perhaps sits down in protest and throws a few toys.

And then there are the ballistic, severe out-of-control tantrums! Such extreme tantrums evolve for various reasons. Frequently, I see these extreme tantrums with certain strong-willed or more oppositional children. Certainly, such children are more prone to severe tantrums and outbursts.

Yet, you may not have a child with such an oppositional steak. And you might see these severe tantrums unfold when you are making changes or transitions, and your toddler or child just doesn’t’ approve. They don’t like the change …and they are going to let you know that they want it… “MY WAY MOM!”

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And still, there are some kids who seem to start small, and gradually (over months) grow into these more extreme tantrums. And even on occasion, other children just seem to be wired to go ballistic from early on. These various child tendencies may mean that more or less skill is required to get through this quickly. What is important to understand is that YOU DO NOT NEED TO SUFFER WITH THESE TANTRUMS. (By the way, I have your special report and and some very cool free training for you… more about that shortly) First, i want to explain something critical about these more severe tantrums.

For many of you learning more effective parenting skills, you may even find that changes in your parenting style provoke these extreme temper tantrums. Such severe or extreme tantrums can include extended periods of screaming, crying, shouting ugly comments, property destruction, and ultimately turning to violence and hitting. (But please don’t be dismayed if your changes in parenting seem to create a few more of these types of tantrums. I will explain why this is happening shortly!)

When caught in their anger, children will do anything to try and get what they want from mom and dad. This will include hitting, kicking and going after items to destroy. The extreme appearance of your son or daughter’s upset is clearly upsetting. Yet, to be helpful, it is important that you learn a strategy, and avoid making emotional or reactive decisions that may seem to help in the moment…but make things worse over the long term.

One of the biggest mistakes is that we fall into the trap of ‘feeding’ into the tantrum. How? By first listening to their concerns, or by negotiating with them, or even trying to soothe them by finding out why they are so upset. Then, the concern turns to frustration or anger, and we may get firm. For some, we may start to argue or try to force them to go to their room.

Over and over, in various ways, we can easily end up feeding into these terrible tantrums, in the name of trying to make things better. But here’s the bottom line:

Please Mom/Dad…

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Whether you are dealing with mild, moderate, or even ballistic crazy tantrums, these outbursts can be changed…and usually quite quickly. Oh…I know what you are thinking…”NOT MY SON!” But look, I understand your skepticism. However, I have seen what happens when you get on track. Your child…yes… YOUR child can change their behavior in days….

Here’s a great example: I recently spent a few minutes on the phone with Jenny, a school teacher from California, who was working through one of my programs called The Tantrum Fixer. Her 3 1/2 year old son had just spent the last three days escalating his tantrums, until they qualified as ballistic. He had been tantruming several times a day, and she invested in the program because his tantrums were driving her nuts! She was at the end of her rope.

She called because she had reviewed the program, and then began the action plan. It was simple. Yet, on day 3, things were apparently getting worse. She said, “I knew it. This isn’t working for my son! He is too strong willed!”

One critical component of “The Tantrum Fixer” program is a need to make certain that you do not feed into tantrums. This means not giving in to the demands of the tantrum, and not negotiating, arguing, begging, pleading, yelling, fighting, or in any way doing battle with the tantrum. More about Jenny’s story after the two lessons below.

When you begin to make these adjustments, often you are met with a day or two of things appearing to get worse.

WHY? Because most likely… you have been feeding into the tantrum. Either with your words, your discipline efforts, your negotiation, your frustration, and even just your energy. When you stop this, usually your child doesn’t like it.

The result: Many escalate their actions for a while. This is to be expected, and easily dealt with as long you understand that our first job is to NOT FEED into the tantrum.

When we do…the tantrum gets stronger. The tantrum gets fed.

When you stop feeding or trying to ‘fix’ the tantrum, everything begins to change. Now for many of you, with an acting out tantrum, you will need a comprehensive game plan…so you can handle the outbursts without getting hooked by the drama of it all.

For Jenny, she was at the end of her rope. She began crying, and expressed the feeling of hopelessness, and despair. However, despite her frustration, I reminded her of one critical things she had forgotten….

More on this in just a second. First… Here’s something you might be interested in…

Angry, oppositional kids

Secrets To Calming The Angry Child

Do you find yourself wondering…

  • Why is my son/daughter so angry?
  • What caused this?
  • What happened to my child?
  • What can I do to fix this?

Many parents struggle when kids seem to be angry… and often for no apparent reason. Yet, there usually are reasons. You may not know what those reasons are, but there is almost always a cause.

Parents are often confused and frustrated when they find their children becoming more angry and aggressive. This is particularly problematic when children become destructive, or become violent with their peers or adults.

screaming_kidThis is a serious concern, and often efforts at making things better actually make things worse. You will learn why!

The good news is that there is reason to be optimistic, once you have a handle on how to curb this unpleasant behavior (Am I being too gentle here? Probably so. An angry child is often more than just an unpleasant experience!).

There are those in the literature who have asserted that anger is one of the most frequent of human emotions. True. Yet, while this may be the case for many parents and children, it certainly does not need to be.

Anger is clearly a very primal response. Children often display anger at very early ages, usually in response to not getting what they want. Either kids want something that is being denied, or something they want to keep is taken away.

It is important that parents develop an effective model for addressing anger. When anger is indulged, it tends to grow. Let me state that again: When anger is indulged it tends to grow!

The idea is not to make anger “wrong” or “a bad emotion.” The goal is to make sure that children realize that they can have an experience of anger, and yet not engage in pathological or damaging expressions of that anger.

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How To Distinguish Healthy From Unhealthy Anger

Clinicians have offered a number of theoretical approaches to this question. It appears that the key issue centers around whether anger ultimately becomes adaptive in some way, or is destructive to the child and those affected by the child.

Thus, as a parent, it is important to notice and attend to how a child is responding with anger.

Adaptive Anger: Do they express the anger, engage in a process to try to resolve their angry feelings, and seek out a solution in order to eliminate the situation that produced the anger? Is the process an adaptive one? Is it moving toward a resolution that allows everyone to move on?

Unhealthy anger: Or, on the other hand, do children focus on getting revenge, hurting others with their anger, or try to gain control over others with their anger? Do kids try to manipulate and influence their peers through threats of anger or hostile behavior? Does their anger produce consistently negative consequences for them, such as a loss of friendship, property damage, and concerns from teachers and parents?

Chronic and disturbing anger often results in a child or adolescent who views themselves as victims, even though they are often victimizing others! They continue to focus on the ways in which they have been mistreated, and fail to recognize how their own provocative and hostile posture has brought painful consequences for them.

The bottom line is to notice whether or not the anger is adaptive, or whether it is creating problems. For most parents who seek assistance, it is clear that the child’s anger is producing a consistent series of problems for their kids. The anger continues, and there seems to be no resolution for the child.

Where does this lead?

angry_kid_spending_time_aloneFor children who continue to display unhealthy anger, certain experiences begin to unfold for them. They lose friendships. They do not get invited to parties, and often are kicked off of sporting teams. Similar situations evolve in the classroom.

At home, they have trouble with their siblings, they often are engaged in hostile exchanges with their parents. Parents become disheartened, and start to feel badly about their own kids. They feel helpless to make a difference, and struggle with where to turn. Ultimately, as these children move into their adolescent years, they often find peers who share their anger. Often these peers support a view that they have been victimized, and that their anger is justified.

Unfortunately, the attention of the adolescent gets focused on others, and there is little opportunity for this outward focus to bring about a transformation in the anger.

There are other times where the anger leads to withdrawal, and a complete sense that “the world is against me.” These youths can be very difficult to reach, as their anger is often a shield or defense of much greater pain.

So what’s the good news?

The good news is that parents can make a difference.

And not just a small difference, but a huge difference! There are a number of ways to tackle this problem.

And yet, as you keep reading, remember that this is a difficult challenge. You will not want to take a casual approach to handling an angry child. Consider ordering my program, The Angry Child, which gives you a complete plan for how to handle this at home. This is not a comprehensive parenting program, but it is a step-by-step plan that applies specifically to angry and aggressive kids. You will have a clear sense of what to do next. You get:

  • A 10-step formula you can put to use today
  • No complicated theories you have to master
  • Practical, usable tools
  • Clear direction of what to do when
  • A model with a proven track record
  • An alternative to medication
  • A way to help your kids and your family
  • Relief from the anger that may squash your child’s future happiness

Not convinced. Keep reading below, and find out what you can start doing right now! Each of these strategies has a proven track record.

3 Keys to Less Anger In Your Home!

1. Make certain you are not modeling unhealthy anger.

Too often parents offer feeble excuses for their own explosive expressions of anger. They excuse themselves by saying things such as, “I just yell a lot” or “I’ve always been a hothead.” Others offer comments like, “My Dad was a yeller and so am I.”

These are ways in which parents then hold themselves to a low standard for their own behavior. They excuse themselves for their angry outbursts at each other, and at their children.

angry_girlIt doesn’t take much to understand why our kids scream back at us, or engage in aggressive outbursts toward their sibling if we model this in our own behavior as parents. Parental behavior will always play a more important role than parental guidance or those famous “words of wisdom.”

The bottom line is that the buck stops at home. Your behavior speaks more loudly than your words, and we must hold ourselves accountable to a higher standard. We all know the saying “you’ll reap what you sow.” This is true.

So the first place to start is by looking carefully in the mirror. It’s not the only place to look of course, but we must take first things first. Make sure that you do not model maladaptive or unhealthy behavior. If you find that you do so, seek help for this [Parental Calm]. Seek help now, as no parenting strategy or technique will save you from the consequences of modeling anger as a solution to your frustrations. Your children will not escape that message.

Next, you MUST…

2. Learn effective anger management strategies.



There are parenting strategies that work to reduce children’s anger, and there are strategies that make anger worse.

A number of clinical studies clearly support the conclusion that anger cannot be repeatedly indulged, listened to, sympathized with, or danced around. Anger cannot be “cured” by punching on a bag or pillow (this is indulging the anger).

If the environment (parents, adults, teachers, counselors) continues to indulge anger, the anger will just get worse. Feed the anger monster with attention and energy…and the anger monster grows.

 

Any consistent, unhealthy expression of anger needs to be dealt with in a more direct, behavioral fashion. This is not theory. This is based upon clear and convincing data.

The bottom line: Mild, but unhealthy expressions of anger, complaints, inappropriate language, negativism, and displays of hostility need to be ignored. You walk away from this negativity, and give it NONE of your energy or attention.

Will your kids like this? NO! But don’t get fooled by this, you must be able to STOP INVESTING YOURSELF IN THE STUFF YOU DON’T WANT.

But I realize, things can get out of control, and even dangerous at times. When behavior becomes dangerous, threatening to others or to property, then immediate intervention is warranted. The details of how and when to intervene, and how to effectively use consequences is where the real magic lies.

You must know how to set and maintain meaningful and effective consequences, and kids will learn from this. I cover this in detail on my program, The Angry Child, which you can order today or download immediately from the website.

Keep in mind: Your words will not teach your child to stay calm. Thus, talking the angry child out of their anger is only a short term solution, as the energy given to the anger only feeds the anger as time goes on. Consequences to the unhealthy and inappropriate expression of anger will be the means by which you teach your child how to control their own anger. This is not the same as punishment. I am not advocating that you think in terms of “Eye for an eye.” It’s about consequences for choices, and using each life choice (by your child) as an opportunity to teach them about the realities of life.

In using this approach, you’re not saying to your child, “Don’t get angry.” Instead, you want your behavior to communicate to your child, “It’s okay to be angry and frustrated. You can even blow off steam if you want to. However, if you start to harm others, or destroy property, there will be a consequence.”

Obviously, there are more details to mastering this set of parenting strategies, but the essentials remain the same. Remember, you may want to buy the program, The Angry Child, if your child is angry or aggressive, and you really want to help now!

Regardless, children need to encounter consistent consequences from their world, and then they can learn how to gauge their responses. Then they also learn that they can handle their emotions. You can set up a home that teaches these lessons.

“Easier said than done!” Yes. I agree.

With the right set of parenting tools, it can be done. And it does work!

3. As children get older and become violent, it may be necessary to seek structured anger reduction programs.

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The treatment literature is quite encouraging. It appears that children and adults respond very positively to cognitive and behavioral interventions for anger. This is not the same as play therapy for young children, which does not have the same proven track record.

Unfortunately, finding individuals or agencies that offer anger management programs may be difficult. It does appear that most programs are group-based; however, individual treatment has proven to be equally, if not more effective than group treatment.

Thus, if you are clear that you do not model the inappropriate expressions of anger at home, and you have put into place strong and consistent behavioral responses to anger [The Angry Child], and the anger continues, then an outside treatment program may be necessary. Given the literature, there is reason to be optimistic that this will make a positive difference.

For most parents, such programs may not be necessary. However, if your kids are starting to show signs of anger, you can make a difference by how you handle it.

Unhealthy anger and aggression will steal your child’s happiness, grind you down to the end of your rope, and squash your hopes for your child’s success. So, start NOW if this is a concern.

  • Learn how you can make a difference.
  • Make sure your choices aren’t making things worse while you’re working so hard to make things better!
  • Master the tools that allow your kids to learn healthy responses.
  • Make certain you know what consequences will work to reduce anger.
  • Get away from reactive tendencies.
  • Learn an approach that puts you both on the same page.
  • Stop using your words to teach, and get tools that teach these critical lessons.

Read this article again, and make sure you understand these fundamentals. Then, invest in The Angry Child and learn how to refine your approach. In 3-6 weeks, you will likely see a difference.

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